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Topic: Aqua woman/Sag man
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tulipfaerie Knowflake Posts: 2 From: london Registered: Dec 2007
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posted December 08, 2007 07:14 AM
Hi! I am new here and have lurked for a while. I desperately need your help here.Our long term relationship has recently ended (3 years) and I am gutted beyond words. I am broken.I have never felt pain like this in my life. I knew from the get go what I was in for with this man - I tried to fight it but he pursued me relentlessly, fell head over heels and now he has broken my heart. I am in such a sad, depressed, confused place right now and am afraid that I may never get out and back from this. love, tulipfaerie ME: Sun in Aquarius, Moon in Sagittarius • Ascendant in Taurus, Venus in the Tenth House • Saturn in the Third House • Moon in the Eighth House • Sun in the Tenth House • Venus in the Tenth House HIM: Sun in Sagittarius, Moon in Libra • Ascendant in Gemini, Mercury in the Sixth House • Saturn in the Third House • Moon in the Fifth House • Mercury Opposition Ascendant • Neptune Opposition Ascendant • Sun in the Seventh House • Sun Opposition Ascendant • Venus in the Seventh House IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 5 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted December 13, 2007 12:35 AM
Hang in there tulipfaerie. I know what you are going through, and all I can say is it will hurt less with each passing day.Surround yourself with friends, and go out often so you are not home just thinking about him. My husband was a Saj. He basically told me one day after 2 years of marriage that he wanted a divorce and that he was going to move across the country, leaving me and our child behind. He left us, with no remorse, guilt, or second thoughts. That's how they are...selfish, and unable to give themselves wholly. You are better off without him, believe me. Think of this breakup as a gift from the heavens. IP: Logged |
tulipfaerie Knowflake Posts: 2 From: london Registered: Dec 2007
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posted December 13, 2007 04:36 PM
Oh GemGemGem you are so right. Selfish and unable to give themselves wholly. That's him alright. Lovely guy with great traits but the negative sag traits won at the end of the day. Your advice is great, it's just hard for me - I moved over here to London for him/us. I have no friends, no support system. Nothing. I am even spending the festive season alone! I do try to occupy myself but it's lonely and I have too much time to think.I know all about Sag's - having read so much about them in Linda's books and observed my sag male friends' behaviour and characteristics...as I said - I knew what to expect ...I just hoped he would be different. It was just too easy to fall in love with him unfortunately for me. Thanks for your response. IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 5 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted December 13, 2007 05:41 PM
I read all the books as well, and they all said the same thing about Saj's. I should've known better, but like you, I thought he was different. He was so full of life, exciting, funny, and warm, how could I not fall in love. I didn't want to bellieve what the books said.Saj's don't know what they want, and most of them don't know what sacrificial love is. They are fair weathered lovers, who stick around when the times are good, but as soon as things get a little hard, they are gone, off to the next fun adventure. They are half human, half beast. They are capable of such warmth, but I believe there is a part of them that is not human. The most maddening thing about them is that most of the time they mean well, and never intentionally want to hurt anyone, but they always end up doing so. I'm sorry for the situation you are in, and how much you gave up for him. I'm sure he did not think twice about all the sacrifices you made for him and your relationship before he left. (selfish) Have you thought about maybe moving back. You need a support system around you right now. Hang in there. It gets better with each day. Just the fact that you are waking up each morning, is a sign you are doing well. IP: Logged | |