posted January 09, 2008 07:18 PM
Ive been reading this thread quite throrougly. Aqua threads interests me a lot cause my bf has an Aqua Moon
I have my 5th in Aqua.
i must say sometimes its difficult for me to understand his feelings and thoughts but suprisingly i seem to appear much more "detatched" than his Aqua moon hihihi
Many times he just out of the blue says that i dont say "i love you" enough times for him to feel as warmth as his Cancer AC needs.
im a Virgo so maybe thats why I seem to have some dififulty of showing in an natural way the way i feel - nevertheless my Taurean Moon helps me to melt down some of my Virgoan traumas
The thing is : Aquas are not easy at all but once you find the right person it doenst matter really - you just look at him and know that love is there.And you cant live without him!Simply as that!
Weve been in an long distance relationship for about 1 Year and a half - we just knew we couldnt be just friends the day we met.
One day i was terribly sad about sth he didnt do - i had a surgery and he didnt came see me cause he was at work and lives 300km from me - so i told him after some time passed that we had to make a pause and just give time and not see each other,just try to be friends for a while...
Really..he didnt understood why in the Hell i was doin that and i had to "explain" - Yup this might show a little bit of their dettached way of loving - then he couldnt admitt "just the friend things" cause he loved me. I couldnt help on thinking that moment that his way of loving was very strange. (we were talking through internet)
That moment i got doubts of wether to believe in him or not - its in that moments when we are in face of the breacking up that you really know if its worth or not what you share together you know..
Then,he asked me to close my eyes and imagine what i would feel if we wont see each other again - and that moment i would know what he was feeling when i said the word " take times apart".
So,ive felt as if my heart was bumping so fast and so out of my chest that i though i would have a panic attack,like if i was goin to die right there.
I didnt said anything and so,he exactly described what i was feeling - he was feeling that too..
From that moment that we are being more comprehensive about each others way of being and respecting our diferences. He just knew he messed up that time and now he is always trying to make me know what he feels; he acts more sensivitely to me and " trying nt to hurt my feelings and woman sensitivety" - like he says so many times
Bunnies - rightly said : when Aquas feel the other is losing interest or appear it so,they imediatelly turn on their ears and hearts really...like if they are afraid to be rejected.It doenst matter their space and liberty anymore, what they asks of us after is commitment.
That´s the way of knowing if really the Aqua loves us