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Sunny Mavericks
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posted January 07, 2008 08:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunny Mavericks     Edit/Delete Message
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bunnies
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posted January 08, 2008 04:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bunnies     Edit/Delete Message
Oh dear. I had one of these. A Virgo surprisingly.
I think the least you can my dear, is clear the poor Piscean off the battlefield.
I have visions of him waking up with both your bootprints in the side of his head as you scramble over him to get to each other.
You are 24.
The time to mesh nicely with someone is when you say things like
"I hear they have Joint Ease 2 for 1 on Vitamins R Us my love. Do you think we should bulk buy?
Or you start circling your programmes in the t.v guide.
And you shop at retail outlets called "Country Casuals" or "Tweed Mills"
I don't think your Piscean stands a chance.

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ghanima81
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posted January 08, 2008 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message
That is a tough one....

Your aqua shares my birthday, although is two years younger. But your description of what has happened between you sounds a lot like a relationship I have in my life. I can't tell you what will happen... but I know you will always think of each other. Always. If you want a relationship with him, a real RELATIONSHIP, I wouldn't put money on it. He's too young, too into himself, and too confused about you to know what he really wants. This will never be enough for you.

The friendship part is great, it feels oh so right to be in each other's lives, but if you are with someone else, it's not fair to them. You will always compare them. You will always wonder, and if it is love you have with the pisces, do yourself a favor and keep away from the Aqua.

If it is "well, he loves me, and I... well, I love him too..." then it's time to let him go, whether or not you are going to persue the Aqua man. You're most likely not going to be able to completly committ your heart to your pisces if you are still so unsure about the other. It's going to eat at you, the guilt will be awful... You'll drive yourself crazy!

I'm sure that was all rambling, too... LOL. Sorry, I'm trying to make sense of something I haven't made sense of myself in my own situation.

The thing is, if you are ever to have love last, you have to get this thing out of your heart. Cut the aqua off completly, be single, and let your heart heal from him. Then you will be able to move on....

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Sunny Mavericks
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posted January 09, 2008 06:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunny Mavericks     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for the responses. I do love my Piscean very much, and not just because he loves me.

Bunnies, I can't clear the Pisces off the battlefeild, we've been together too long and I'm too deeply committed. But thanks for the advice...

Ghanima81, you are right, he's too into himself and too confused. Very insightful. You have him dead on. Do you find yourself able to love though? I ask, since you share birthdays, and he says that he doesn't know what love is and that he has never loved even though he's been in several relationships that lasted over 2 years. I just can't believe how that is possible, though I do believe what he says.

Sunny

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MysticMelody
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posted January 10, 2008 02:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MysticMelody     Edit/Delete Message
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robyn.c
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posted January 10, 2008 06:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for robyn.c     Edit/Delete Message
maybe you are the one who wants what you cant have?
maybe you shouldnt be with either of them(one disrespected you, and one you are disrespecting)
maybe you know the answers.
will i stop with the maybe?
maybe.
keep us posted!


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Sunny Mavericks
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posted January 10, 2008 03:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sunny Mavericks     Edit/Delete Message
AM I being disrespectful to the Pisces though? I cut off all contact with the Aqua. I can't cut off my feelings for him though- that's all. But I don't talk to him anymore out of respect for my relationship with the Pisces.

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GemGemGem
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posted January 10, 2008 08:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
My Aqua "friend" has said the same thing. That in 31 years of his life, he has never been in love. He always "thinks" it's love in the beginning, but in the end, he realizes it wasn't.

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ghanima81
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posted January 12, 2008 04:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message
I think I have been in love...

But I was actually just asking myself this question today. It's just that I've never really felt what other people seem to feel when they talk about love. Maybe a little bit, for a little while... then I get distracted. I still feel something for most people I have had relationships with. I could easily get back together with any one of them, even though I have hurt them. Maybe that's the whole Aqua 'friendship first' thing.

I wish I had the ability to love the way love should be. Forever and with so much deep emotion, it will not dimish enough for me to leave or walk away... Or maybe I've just been too scared that it was love...

Yup. We're crazy.

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