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From: phila, usa
Registered: Oct 2007

posted January 16, 2008 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mantoinette     Edit/Delete Message
yall may recall helpin me last october. but i will make a long story short. i posted my 1st msg in oct of last year taurus/cancer man help!! was the subject. and expressed that i met this dude in july last year. heres the update first. then I will post the original message from october way below to refreshen your memories.
in december i called him and informed him of his ant sickness cause i stay next door to her. he called back for clarification. after 2 months of cacner man friend not callin me he text last week how was i doing and apologize for not responding to me win i was texing him after the fall out we had in oct. i texed him back i was fine and i said if you was truly sorry you would call me and apologize verbally. i then wrote i dont hold grudges and will always be his friend.
yesterday i physically called for the first time in about a month and surprisengly we talked for about 15 minutes he had to call me back which he did. we joked and he laughed and he asked me what i do for my holidays and did i chill with a boyfrend i said im not dedicated and if he was he said no. he asked me questions about how things was going and he expressed to me he feel that i may be for him but he want to be the one to make all the moves. that was tuesday morning.

heres the original message from october last year.

im a taurus 5/6/75 & met a 42 6/28/65 yr old cancer man. we went 2 grab a bite on 1st day we met. he said he dont have girlfren, divorced n 2001, work 3 jobs monday-sat, get his 14 yo daughter sat-monday. he plays a sport and practices a few times a wk, and competes.
he went back outta state. talked on phone over a month. wanted me 2 meet the daughter, i said i think he should take time 2 get 2 no me be 4 i meet her. we shared sum things over the phone, hes said he ackowledge i been showin sum interest. he mentioned that he dont no how he would react with me coming to see him cuz with all that he does he dont have company like that.
in a conversation, i confessed after 1 month and a half that win he asked me what i wanted from him i said i want to build a frenship but i really wanted to say i wanted more but it was too soon. my heart i swear was feeling sumthing from day one. he said so you sayin you ready to be my wife and the fone was dead silent. i new he was jokin.
i went down there the 1st time after over a month of chattin off and on. was introduced 2 three folks that he work with, went to dinner at this really nice place. went 2 breakfast nex mornin. we chated on fone off and on. sum of the 1st talks he mentioned if you feelin sum one in the heart u make time. so 3 wks after i went 2 see him the 1st time. there was opportunities he coulda seen me and didnt. i sent this long email that i felt he wasnt feelin me in the heart cuz he let these opportunities go by and not se me..
we talked about that email. and i went to see him a 2nd time. i wanted him more than once and he was like uh ah your not draining me out like the last time. cuz the last time he was so tired from the night before he called off from work.
i dont think i over did it by takin sum food and 1 pot this 2nd time i went. i planned to cook. but we ate sumthin else. he said sumthing, he not use to this. i didnt get like he meant that in a bad way. well i left next day. he had a competition to go too, wanted me 2 send sum pics, i did while he was gone, a card, and we talk before
he left. he tex me out the blu all good. i didnt no what he was referrring to. and i started thinkin 2 much. and text him theres no communication cuz he left me hanging to figure out what he was talkin about. i tex him do he see me as a frend with potential. rong ?. he said cant focus on strong frendship. then all my true feelins came out. i felt like i was fallin in luv and u been on my mind etc in all these tex msgs. i tex him days later was he upset wit me he said no. recently i tex him sumthin bout my mom, he came out the blu he still luv his daughter mom and hope my mom is ok. i replied like a frend .
he cald me later we rapped about the text msg showdown and he said gotta go with the flo, and he said i be tellin him not to analyze. becuz he mad a 2nd call i wondered if he made that remark to see how i would reply. that was 10 days ago. i since text him how was he, sent him updated pic of me and left a nice msg. i dont know if now i scarde him or how to get my frend back. help!!! based on the last talk 10 days ago i got the feel we was still flowin but i dont no. during the course win we met i sent him 2 card congratulating about his competition and a b-day card to his daughter which he said that was a good ice breaker..i dont want to give up and show him this is real, i am truly his frend. i may be in love with him. should i send a last voicemail msg and tell him i feel hes being distant. i dont no. please evaluate this guys..

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