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GemGemGem
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posted February 05, 2008 08:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
May the universe give me strength, I am falling for the Aqua...What is it about these men??

Due to my recent divorce, we are starting out as friends, and taking it super snail slow. We've known eachother for 3 months and only cuddle, hold hands, hug, and kiss on the cheek. Needless to say both of us are getting a little "frustrated". haha. I am starting to feel like I am falling for him and would like to move forward.

Can anyone give any insight into our synastry?

Thanks in advance.

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GemGemGem
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posted February 05, 2008 09:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
Here is our chart:
http://s263.photobucket.com/albums/ii134/Gem_Gem_Gem/?action=view¤t=Man dAsynastryChart2.gif

Thanks.

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AcousticGod
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posted February 05, 2008 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah, astro.com doesn't allow you to link. You have to store those images somewhere else like Photobucket, and then you can post them here.

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fieryscales
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posted February 05, 2008 02:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for fieryscales     Edit/Delete Message
I say Aquas have the ability to make you for in love with them, hehe

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LibraChickety
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posted February 05, 2008 04:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraChickety     Edit/Delete Message
Ohhhh, don't get me started on Aqua men. Sigh.

I'm still not over one.

I don't know if they're ALL like this, but he left as a mystery (once he 'figured' me out) and that KILLS me. I have a hard time getting over something that I can't figure out and put closure on.

Good luck!

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Asc. in Sagittarius
Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
Jupiter in Libra
Saturn in Libra
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I feel so naked ;)

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LibraChickety
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posted February 05, 2008 04:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraChickety     Edit/Delete Message
fieryscales:

Oh yeah, WONDERFUL charmers, yet you can SEE THROUGH them....but you ignore and become blind because they're so beautiful.

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GypsyDancer1221
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posted February 05, 2008 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypsyDancer1221     Edit/Delete Message
well, he has some Cap, so he may be more stable, but if you're both frustrated, I would say that means it's mutual and you should definately go for it! Again, his Cap may make him patient, but he has a fire moon, so that adds passion. ^_~ I'm in love with an Aqua, so I'd say go for it; they are absolutely wonderful! I don't have time to do the full compatability, but your composite seems very energetic, so it looks like you're quite compatible. Good luck! ^_^

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hippichick
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posted February 06, 2008 10:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
~~~The Sun is in Aquaruis~~~

What a lovely time to fall in love with an Aqua....

I do on a regular basis....

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GemGemGem
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posted February 06, 2008 06:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
What is it about them that just makes them so lovable.

He says he has never been in love, and has always been the one who breaks off the relationship. I can only imagine the string of heartbroken girls, he's left behind. Am I next?

LibraChickety, have you been in touch with your Aqua ex at all since the break up? I think everyone has a right to have closure, so they can move on. I feel he owes you an explanation.

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GemGemGem
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posted February 08, 2008 08:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
Ok, I finally got the link to work. I added it to my above post.

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LibraChickety
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posted February 09, 2008 12:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraChickety     Edit/Delete Message
GemGemGem:

Nope, the Aqua hasn't tried contacting me since.

I would do anything to experience that kiss again.

YOU know what I mean

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Moon in Virgo
Mercury in Libra
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Leo
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I feel so naked ;)

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GemGemGem
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posted February 09, 2008 09:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
Librachickety, I know EXACTLY what you mean. The unforgettable kiss only an Aqua can give.

Maybe it's so wonderful because we secretly know it will be fleeting. The concensus seems to be that Aquas are not to be kept by any one person, they must eventually be set free to go on with their adventures elsewhere. We just have to enjoy their company while we can.

The Aqua and I are moving along slowly, but I always keep in mind that he will leave someday, and so I try not to get too attached. Like someone said in one of the Aqua threads...they are like the wind.

Have you ever thought of calling your Aqua ex for a talk, just to get some closure?

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GemGemGem
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posted February 13, 2008 08:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
It must have been the bottle of wine that I drank, or the beautiful flowers that he had sent me that morning...but last night on the phone with my Aqua, I shared my feelings with him for the first time. I told him how wonderful I thought he was, and how I felt about him.

I am kicking myself this morning!!! What the hell was I thinking? What do I do now? I feel naked, and stupid and we have plans to see eachother tomorrow for Valentine's Day which I feel like cancelling now.

I hate emotionally uncomfortable situations, I just don't know how to deal with them.

What do I do now that it's out there?

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hippichick
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posted February 13, 2008 09:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hippichick     Edit/Delete Message
don't cancel, there is nothing wrong with being honest, tho I hear ya on the wine thing...opened my mouth a time or two like that!

Just be cool and let it go.

Aquas, while very non-emotive at times, well most of the times, often have thick skins and heads and chances are, he let it go in one ear and out another anyway, registering somewhere deep in his psyche.

If I were you, I would play the Aqua role for a bit now, to balance out your emoting to him, be nice, respectful, but cool and aloof.

This also will seduce him further, as disorientation, throwing an individual off balance is key to seduction!

It would give him something to think about as well...they live their lives under the rule of Uranus and have learned to expect the unexpected.

Whatever you do, I would highly suggest not going there with the feeling thing again for a while. Much can be said with body language, acts, etc.

O, and, I have had my kids hide my phones when I know I am going to be drinking and did not want to slip and contact my Aqua...now I have built up restraint, but in the early days....yea...alcohol and phones do not mix!!!

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praecipua
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posted February 13, 2008 09:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for praecipua     Edit/Delete Message
hippichick, you're soooooo cool. and i'm sober!!!

you really understand aqua male...

what gemgemgem needs is a litlle hippichick in her bag when she goes out to meet him tomorrow.

gemgemgem, just be cool tomorrow... you said what you feel, so this is clear, no misunderstanding about that (and fixed as are aqua, we like time to adapt).... now you can just relax and enjoy your day with him tomorrow talking about anything that crosses your mind... anything, except may be the feelings thing, which doesn't need to be discussed tomorrow.

the fact that you enjoy each other company tomorrow should be more important than trying to talk again about your feelings.

i like different kind of friends (oh yes) but i love being around gems because i know their mind will be quicker than anyone to get an idea. which is essential to me. (i've got compassion for slow paced souls but i prefer intuitive or quick thinkers to avoid to have to explain everything twice )

for example the part in bracket would have been useless if i had been talking only to a gem...

gems are open and help aqua to stretch a bit their fixe side. they bring diversity to aqua who love that but are may be to fixed compare to the flexibility of a gem!

the best thing when gem and aqua are together, is that aqua know and gem think that they can talk about anything... if you have an idea, just put it forward and let's the debate start... it doesn't mean the debate as to be an argument (and even if, heated exchanges with a positive intention are highly valued), but it means that it's only when we are exhausting our strengh by exchange that we feel happy and fulfilled. one of my closest friend was gem and we shared a room together. yeah, a room! and i loved it. we were talking about everything until 4 or 5 am. non stop. that was so cool. even the feelings become discussed but in a clinical way like if we were talking about the price of the oil or the chinese economy. and then you go doing your business with more ideas in your head!

for that, gems are the best!

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CoralBird
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posted February 13, 2008 10:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CoralBird     Edit/Delete Message
There must have been something in the air last night. I kind of did that too. At least you had a bottle of wine in you and slept through the night. I was up all night worrying. Me and my big mouth; things just come out too quickly before I even think to stop myself.

I would just leave it out there. You canít really retract it (especially if you were honest) because that would make it really weird and uncomfortable...and appear fickle. Maybe let him figure out what heís going to do with it. But, who am I to give advice

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GemGemGem
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posted February 13, 2008 11:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemGemGem     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks everyone for the good advice.

So, I will...do nothing, let it hang out there, and act cool! I will just pretend it didn't happen.

There definitely was something in the air last night, because I'm not really a drinker, but for some reason I just felt like having wine...lots of it! haha.

Hippichick, next time, before I take that first drink, I will ask my family to hide the home phone, my cell phone, and my laptop!

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Mama Mia
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posted February 13, 2008 12:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Luckily for me I don't drink and if I have a glass of wine its not enough to start telling ppl off..BTW I have Mercury in the 1st house and well I speak with out the wine, but just think if I had enough wine and my mouth together..**puts head down**

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