posted February 11, 2008 06:26 AM         

i was seeing someone for seven years but ended it about a year n a half back...will not get into that now...but since then i've not really come across anyone i'd really want to marry...i dont know if i'm ready for it...maybe i would be if i really cicked with someone....i really want to find that special someone....but i really dont know when and if that is gonna happen..i really feel there is a lot of pressure from everywhere and everyone....i cant understand how you can marry someone without loving them?...my parents want me to see guys the arranged marriage way.
for those who dont know wat that means , in india if u are of marriagable age and are'nt hooked up yet you can find guys / girls thru marriage bureaus or thru friends and relatives, get their charts match, let them meet a coupla times and decide...and some how that really puts me off!!my parents arent breathing down my neck or anything...infact they have been very supportive.... but i know that that is the thought playing on everyones minds...

i feel i'm beginning to crack under that pressure....my biggest fear is that what if i dont meet that special someone?...do i settle for an arranged marriage then?...even if the guy is good i somehow cant get myself to meet him that way...i really want someone to love me....and i really want someone to love....is that too much to ask for?..why is it so difficult to find someone you can love?....and why is it that i have such a difficult time staying single?....really dunno what to do....

thanks fr letting me rant..

posted February 13, 2008 01:44 AM         

ROBYN
i can say no so i prolly will talk to these guys...is ur friend from india? i know ppl who meet this way can be happy....but i think i've been in relationships fr too long to understand this kind of thing..but i guess i need to keep my options open...spoke to a coupla astrologers who seem to think that i shud be open to an arranged marriage since my stars fr a love marriage passed last yr!!!....i'm not sure i believe them....or at least i dont want to...hopefully i'll fall in love again!

posted February 19, 2008 04:27 AM         

want to just say that no one's forcing me...but i just feel that i am the one cracking under pressure....actually i'm feeling a little better....some strange stuff has been happening...i've been writing about it in the astral realms section...so i'm feeling more positive....but i'd really like to know more about these exercises..

also want to say thanks to all of u'll

posted February 19, 2008 07:49 AM         

When I lived in India I had a college friend in the same situation as you. I advised her to tell her parents exactly the kind of man she wanted -- liberal, open minded, well educated etc.

I also advised her that when she met someone she liked after a few meetings she should tell him she wasn't a virgin etc

She followed my advice -- was married in the next 2 years and is still happily married 15 years later.

All the best.

posted February 20, 2008 01:02 AM         

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Speaking of sex, I realized why many cultures insist on post marital sex only. There is a very spirtual scientific reason.
Auric Imprinting of the wife occurs post coitally and this vibration stays for months after every few days of contact. If the girl has pre-marital sex and marries the same bloke, no problems but if the husband is different, now there is a remnant frequency of another man in her aura.
If that boyfriend is afflicted by some Karmic misdeeds and is in anguish, some of that frequency will resonate in the girl's aura and this will affect her health, her mood and also her husband's mood and so on.

Same works in the reverse too. If you notice many businessmen suddenly having badluck after they get a fortune, it is because the first thing they do after making a million is celebrate with an addition of slutty mistresses who could have been imprinted by drug dealers or convicts a few weeks back.
The girls here are luckier though, they aurically drain the wealth consciousness of the newly rich fool.

The solution to this sex auric imprinting pi WR,
Its a very simple method, the basic of which is simple chakra balancing and breathing. There may be hundreds of ways but this will work well:

First a connection to your Higher Self. I use this method:

PART 1: Color Therapy:
Step 1:
Relax in a chair, eyes closed. Breathe very deeply, fill your lungs slowly and then exhale slowly. Do this till you are very relaxed. Try to smell the air intently as it comes in and goes out, this way the relaxation effect will be more pronounced.

Step 2:
After some relaxation, imagine a stream of bright yet very pale pinkish light or white light entering the top of the crown of your head from a silver colored elastic channel connected to a bright sun at the top of your head. (This represents your Higher Self).
You can visualize a Silver Colored Infinity Symbol in your crown to enhance the communication [Source: Janet Swerdlow ]

Now imagine this stream of light going down your spine, all the way to your legs, then returns back through the same path. On it's way back, imagine black debris being forced out through the top of your crown by this light, through this elastic
channel. This debris represents all toxins and all negative experiences and negative thoughts accrued lifelong from inside your Aura, your physical body and your genes. Allow all of this negativity to go out. A few steps of this exercises cleanses your Auric Chakras or Energy Centres.

Step 3:
Imagine surrounding yourself with a violet bubble. This prevents bad energy from electronic devices and harmful people or events from affecting your Aura. [Do this part every 12 hours for protection in heavy crowds etc.]

Step 4:
Imagine a brown cylinder surrounding your feet upto the edge of the thighs. This is for grounding you to Earth . Spin the cylinder in any direction you choose, preferably clockwise.

Step 5:
Visualize a pale red colored cylinder in the are surrounding your genitals and lower spine. Spin it in the same speed and direction as the brown cylinder. Allow 15 seconds to 1 minute for this visualization. Pale Red represents basic creative energy.

Step 6:
Visualize a pale orange colored cylinder in the navel/kidney region.
The color should surround every cell in the regions and even surround the aura or a part of you outside the body in this region.
Spin it in the same speed and direction as the brown and pale red cylinders. Pale Orange represents truth and filteration.

Step 7:
Visualize a pale yellow colored cylinder in the stomach and middle back region upto the Solar plexus. Spin it along with the other cylinders. Pale Yellow represents intelligence, logic, absorption.

Step 8:
Visualize a clear, bright, medium green colored cylinder surrounding the heart region and upper back region. Spin it synchronously.
Bright Green represents abundance, oxygenation, health, happiness.

Step 9:
Visualize an ice blue colored cylinder surrounding your neck, throat, teeth, lips and mouth region. Spin it synchronously.
Ice Blue represents communication, voice, music.

Step 10:
Visualize a royal blue colored cylinder surrounding your brain, eyes, nose, ears, back of the head. Especially focus on the "PINEAL GLAND" inside the Brain Centre. Spin it synchronously. Spin this for 2 minutes. Royal Blue represents the Hyperspace Link, Pineal Gland, Advanced KNowledge, Brain, Super Intelligence.

Step 11:
Visualize a violet colored cylinder surrounding the top of the head and a little bit over the head. Spin this synchronously with the other cylinders for 2 minutes. Violet represents ultimate protection, selflessness and connection to Angelic forces.

This completes the Chakra Energization and Balancing Exercise. It is best to do this every alternate day in the morning for perfect health and removal of psychic toxins that if not release to your Higher Self [The Sun connected to thetop of your Head], wil manifest as disease/accidents/emotional outbursts.

PART 2:
Specific Imprinting Removal:

After completing part 1, you have to mentally focus in your Pineal Gland or third eye region, a poin between your eyebrows in the centre of the head. Now verbally say these affirmations 7 times.

1. I release all negative auric imprints in all their forms, including physical, of all the men in my life to their respective Higher Selves, through my Higher Self.

2. I protect my Aura from any negative auric imprints and from any negative vibrations from any source for all time to come.

3. I accept a clean and healthy aura with perfect energy flow between my self and my Higher Self at all times.

After the seventh utterance, mentally surround your entire brain and then body with brown color. This represents grounding this healing into reality.

After a few weeks, you can substitute these affirmations with what you really need as your Higher Self can guide you a zillion times better than me. All you gotta do is ask.

Oh BTW, using condoms minimizes imprinting.
It is the mixing of fluids that enhances auric imprints because DNA is a very powerful frequency. Even people who visit hairstylists with unclean scissors are affected, albeit lightly as hair of another person is also DNA!
So this healing is useful for even celibates.roblem is quite simple. Strict Monogamy or 3-6 months gap between relationships and some heavy duty meditation to cleanse the aura before forging a new relationship.

Now, when you meditate sufficiently to release all unreleases auric imprints from all your relationships and even your thoughts
(every deep thought creates a psychic cord form you Aura to the Aura of he one you though about. This is why the masses can be subliminally controlled by film stars/celebrities who capture the imagination of millions.)

Likewise, everytime an ex thinks of you a psychic cord is created from him to you.

So you must tell your Higher Self to remove all these unwanted cords. Using affirmations, clean up your Aura and release all the memory imprints of the past.

I RELEASE ALL UNNECESSARY PSYCHIC CORDS.
Visualize all these cords disappearing. Imagine a clean and wholesome Aura with the proper chakra colours.
This affirmation works very fast along with the visualization.

Next, forgive your twin soul in meditation.
Forgive yourself for all the past lif ehurt you caused. This double forgiveness and release of guilt paves the way to allow your true love for the present lifeline to arrive.
The barriers vanish. Guilt must never exist about any past mistake. Guilt is a real enemy along with arrogance, haughtiness, anger etc. I am sure you dont have the other evils but guilt is a sneaky evil that many associate with good.

PLease read the Labour of Love forum, my post to Kim Rogers on a colour based meditation. Try it out for a few weeks. It is wholeseome, safe and works quickly.

Once you do that, mentally download Pale Pink colour from your Higher Self into your Aura while removing black debris of residual hatred/jealousy/envy/guilt.

Now here is a vital secret . Send Pale Pink colour from your heart chakra to your OverSoul. Then from your heart chakra to God. Imagine this reaching all other OverSouls. This is a meditation that will make you feel very very very air headed if you do it right. You are sending unconditional love from your very core to the Infinite Cosmos of God, Oversouls and subsequently all that exists in all planes. This is one of the most spiritually generous acts.

posted February 20, 2008 07:33 AM         

I had absolutely NO idea that anybody knew all this! Before I found my soulmate my pink energy made pink clouds which was really fascinating. I mean real pink clouds in the sky.

Through all this it is essential to connect with God and the cosmos.

posted February 20, 2008 04:53 PM         

that was a wonderful information.

Now i see that somehow me and my Jonnhy kind of were "waiting" for the other

No one of us wanted to BE with a person unless it felt totally right and so when we met we knew no more time were needed to wait.

posted February 21, 2008 06:09 AM         

sag cap cusp
i think the reason i am confused and unable to move on is because i do have a lot of residual emotions and i need to deal with them first...but i wii look at people who come my way...have been having some wierd experiences about which i have written in the astral realms section...i will hopefully be clear about what i want in some time...

posted February 21, 2008 11:35 AM         

I notice that you and Venus are from Bombay. I was born and raised there and have some great memories...

Good wishes.