posted February 18, 2008 04:47 PM         

To show you how they are I have been knowing a Aqua guy for almost 4 years now and all can tell you there has been some deep stuff going on btw us all this time. I stopped all communication and contact with him bc he acts nuts and needs to get a revelation. Back in January he was sending out his telepathy towards me I caught it bc we have that kind of relationship, I ignored it for a lil while until it became overwhelming for me and I just said ok what does he want..So I text him and say hey how are you whats going on, he text me back and says I am ok been looking for you yada,yada..I say ok just checking on you when it was him checking for me..Two or three days later I text him again just remembered what he said that he was looking for me (which I knew) I make small talk and ask him why was he looking for me, he never responded. Thats been two weeks ago..Today is his bday, I hope that he is not waiting for me to contact him and wish him a happy bday, cause it aint gone happen..I do hope he has a good one he just won't hear it from me..Its all mental with them, just gotta ignore them almost to toture sometimes..And it is very clear to me to leave this alone, and I am now very capable of doing so..

posted February 18, 2008 05:07 PM         

Do you think if I got in touch with him pretending to be 'friends' that would make things worse? In case he isnt interested wouldnt that give him the security all is back to harmless friendliness?

posted February 18, 2008 05:47 PM         

by the way I'm not a pisces. He's the one with a strong pisces influence. His aquarius sun is in the 12 th house, also he is a pisces ascendant and lots of strong neptune contacts in his natal chart.

posted February 20, 2008 08:48 AM         

Not sure really, but I bet he will get back in touch. In five years. In twenty three years, four months, 6 days and eight hours. You just never know. I'm sure he thinks of you, but as someone in another thread said, to give in and admit he 'needed' someone would be catastrophic for him.

Not sure if that helps at all, but it's what could happen.

Or he could show up in forty seconds with a container of bubbles and seventeen daisies tied in a silver ribbon.

We're weird.

posted February 20, 2008 10:33 AM         

i must say I find it very difficult to keep my hope up to ever hear from him again. I find his behaviour very strange. In some situations getting the impression he really truely values and respects me and in other situations as if he couldnt care less.

posted February 20, 2008 11:12 AM         

I don't have any water besides Uranus in Scorpio, 8th house sextile my sun by 2'13.

Aqua Mars and Mercury 11th, 10th house Venus in Cap., Sun opposite 5th house Leo moon and an Aries rising. Pretty much a jumble of stuff, very little water, airy aspects in thought and action.

I've always wondered why I seem to be more emotional than other Aquas are percieved. But I have my moments of drifting off to Neverneverland.... I always drift back at some point.

It's really not fair for others to put up with this behavior, I think I'm more up front with people about my wanderings though. Leaving them in the dark just isn't kind... I've done that in the past, and have resolved to not hurt anyone in that way again.

Mayhaps he needs to come to that realization as well? Or you just need to realize you shouldn't waste your time if that doesn't sit well with you, know what I mean?

posted March 18, 2008 05:30 PM         

You break up and want to stay friends? Fine

You break up and never want to see them aagain?
Shame....but fine.
You wouldn't have a relationship with them if they were the last person on the planet?
Strange.....but fine.

You can't imagine ever loving anyone else as much?
Expected but fine.

You will refuse to talk to them for the forseeable future?
Your choice, but fine.

You will play all the games you have in your arsenal to make you come to your senses Aqua person?

Feel free, fine by me.

The thing is, that we never really care enough in relationships, for it to really matter.
We don't.
Not like other people. There is never that depth. We may feel a bit odd for a nanosecond when things go pear shaped but hey ho....tomorrow is another day.....what was your name again?

The diary of a broken hearted Aquarian.

MONDAY "It's all over. I feel dreadful"

TUESDAY "something happened yesterday. What was it? Oh yes. I have a broken heart.

WEDNESDAY "I suppose it's all for the best. I do feel surprisingly light in fact.

THURSDAY "Today has been good. You know I only thought of whatsher/hisface once.

FRIDAY Whats his/her name? It's on the tip of my tongue.

posted March 18, 2008 07:34 PM           

wow, i also have a strong Pisces influence-1st house neptune making the most connections with my other planets, and again, like you, have sun/mer/ven in the 7th; Gemini sun/ven, Cancer mer. it's funny, cause i just posted a thread on the subject of a Pisces. pisces sun/mer in the first house; aqu asc; aqu ven in the 12th, and i have a very strong psychic connection with him as well. (although we both have that Taurus moon Taurus mars thing going on, which may be the explantion) we have made our emotions apparent, but i want to know whether it's destined for failure. i know we can be friends, so that doesn't worry me much, but more may be too complicated for me to handle. the emotions he creates in me are WAY TOO INTENSE, and even though he says he can handle them, i'm not sure that I can. whoah, and geeze, these aqua/pis boys and their allure! hehe. i'm not sure why you wouldn't want to be friends with yours, but if he hasn't made his intentions clear that he wants a friendship, maybe it's cause he knows what you want (that psychic connection again) and isn't prepared for a real commitment. dang those pesky commitment issues. i can't even make up my own mind as to whether i want one (Gemini sun/venus) but then i again, i do, i just want it to be too darn perfect (sun/ven 7th; venus opposition to neptune in the 1st dang house) bah i say to all (=

but i hope it all works out, and i love to talk more about these pesky aqua/pis fools of fancy. hehe. i'm sendin good vibes, and happy days your way (=

posted March 19, 2008 05:26 PM         

I agree see this in my situation, but us Pisces will only remain that way for so long, then once we make up our mind and realize things are not balanced then its gonna be a struggle for both ppl..When we decide to do something we are unbendable..

This is what I tell all my girlfriends thats inlove with a Aqua man that is not acting right and they are trying to get past him..Put your needs FIRST, get selfish, don't worry about any of his issues or problems thats for him to work out..This is how I got back on track bc I too was once in a bad place with this..If he can not give what I am giving or try its over and I stayed on that note, its about me now, thats it thats all..

posted March 20, 2008 08:59 AM         

I like what you wrote about Aquas and your "Aqua diary" however, this is merely the negative expression of the amazing Aquarian energy. Unfortunately, alot of people are able to express only, well, mainly the negative aspects of their sun signs. We can learn much from Aqua, and I have. Detachment, in a good way, more like non-attachment to people, material objects, situations....freedom, free-thinking, to name only a few. Letting go of emotional attachments is the big one for me.

As the Aqua matures and grows, as all of the sun signs mature and grow, if one is moving toward greater spiritual growth, then I see the positive expressions of their individual energies emerge more and more.

There are many octaves of expression of energy and I think people tend to gravitate to and look for the negative expressions more than looking for the positive side.

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I was thinking about, just yesterday, that I have learned so much from Aquarians, one in particular, maybe what has he learned from me? Maybe how to love a bit more deeper, to be able to emote a bit more comfortably. Or atleast to experience these things through a deep connection to another.

Mia is correct in saying that we Pisces woman can stay in a situation for only so long, for me usually too long....and when we do make up our minds it is no good, there is no stopping us. We love and care so much it is SO difficult for us to become so totally self-absorbed to not consider another, even the vacant Aqua-man who has left us crying in despair for ever...

I have been trying to tell this to an Aquarian friend for so long, the day is near when I will swim off, long and deep and will be only a memory to him...and I want to atleast be fair and be able to say,

posted March 20, 2008 10:13 AM           

please explain Pisces a little to me? i am so in intrigued with mine, it's ridiculous, but alas he is very Aquarian to top it off. what does that mixture do? also, he has Taurus moon/mars, like myself, but i just want to know how attached he can become. do i have to worry constantly about his feelings, does he lie to me? those kinds of things. my neptune is pretty active in my chart, so i think that intrigues him; my ability to dream and bring him in, but i worry a lot, and i think that irritates him. it's hard to just be myself, because i'm so worried about what he thinks, which he can't explain well. oh, we have never truly met, but have been having an online romance for over half a year now. i want to meet him, a tarot reading said it was a very good idea, but this communication in writing is so elusive, and i want to make the right decision to see him. i need more info from (i am a Gemini) but he can't explain himself as readily, or willingly as i can. is that typical of Pisces sun/mer?

i have another thread entitled "gemini and pisces, destined for failure?" which has our astrology stuff in it.

i hope that by being a Pisces yourself, you can help enlighten me about what love truly means to you <3