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Topic: PLEASE explain this libra reaction! PLEASE!!!
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bombshell
Knowflake Posts: 24
From:
Registered: Apr 2007
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posted March 04, 2008 10:27 PM
 
So the libra and i were catching up and i mentioned that i rearranged furniture in my apartment to have better feng shui...except that i couldn't get comfortable moving the mirror in my bedroom anywhere else. So i made a joke that its also because i like to watch myself having sex because i'm egotistical (i'm a taurus sun, leo moon!!!). He had this immediate reaction "Who are you F*cking"...i responded with none of your business because thats what he would say about his private life in the past. For those who haven't followed the fiasco- i dated his friend for 6 yrs...fell for him but didn't want to ruin friendships...admitted my feelings to him...he never said much except that he didn't know what to do...recently admitting that he would have seriously considered a relationship with me if it were for the friend issue...I told him i would have wanted a relationship with him, but that i needed to be able to love someone freely and openly. I also told him i no longer had feelings for him- that i love him (in a more friendly way) but i know i need more (than some secret relationship or half-as*ed friendship/desire). So- was his reaction out of jealousy? Anger- that he wants to tell my ex who is still in love with me that i am seeing ppl?....i have no clue Truth be told i haven't seen ANYONE since my ex, or had feelings for anyone but the libra (and for over a year!)..should i tell him that it was just a joke? Or should i make him jealous... I do love him and want him...but i want him to want me as much as i want him...is this an opportunity or problem? IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
Moderator Posts: 3312
From:
Registered: Dec 2005
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posted March 04, 2008 11:44 PM
Just be as honest as possible as often as you are strong enough to do it. If that means he runs the other way or back and forth in insanity, let him do what he has to do. It's the only way either of you will find out what you want. And make sure you actually want him.
I know you think you do. But make sure.And you might as well enjoy the ride instead of trying to manipulate the outcome. Be careful what you wish for... "Careful what you wish
Careful what you say
Careful what you wish
You may regret it
Careful what you wish
You just might get it" ~a favorite lyric of mine from a Metallica song But you don't have to listen to me... I'm in a weird mood tonight.
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fieryscales
Moderator Posts: 81
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Registered: Jan 2008
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posted March 05, 2008 12:36 AM
Tell him it was a joke. I htink it was just curiousity on his side.IP: Logged |
writesomething
Moderator Posts: 1155
From: meet me in montauk
Registered: May 2006
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posted March 05, 2008 02:15 AM
I wouldnt tell him I was kidding...why should she do that? If he didnt want to be with you when he had the chance, forget it..he lost...Hes jealous, good. You want him? Let him prove himself to you. Tell him to prove himself, if thats what you want. Dont apologize for being yourself.IP: Logged |
cat71
Knowflake Posts: 838
From: Neverland...
Registered: May 2002
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posted March 05, 2008 07:02 AM
I couldn't go past this one without commenting - being a Libra Sun with stellium in Libra:
First I agree with WS, I don't think you should justify yourself to anyone.
BUT...!!!
Do NOT get into the 'make someone jealous' game - with anyone, but especially Libra. Although we come across as big flirts and players sometimes, that's just a front, Libras value loyalty, honesty and fair play above all other qualities, so, my advice, tell the truth about your feelings, don't play games and see what happens... The one guy I admire the most from my past is one that was in the same position you've described yourself in and he said to me he wouldn't get involved with me because of the friendships at the time, ok we never did get together, time changes things, but given the opportunity I would take him on even now if we were both free because he was truthful and honourable.
But think hard, like MM said, 'be careful what you wish for...'
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bunnies
Knowflake Posts: 56
From: U.K
Registered: Mar 2007
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posted March 05, 2008 11:17 AM
I agree Cat71. The make 'em jealous game is a never ending wheel that once you get on, trust me, there is NO getting off.IP: Logged |
bombshell
Knowflake Posts: 24
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Registered: Apr 2007
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posted March 05, 2008 12:06 PM
Thank you everyone!!!! I ended up telling him it was just a joke (but not explaining whether i am seeing ppl or not) and told him that i just wanted to make sure everything was alright since we are just rebuilding the friendship and i care how he feels. The funny boy being the libra that he is tried to turn it around- "oh i just had to go, you are the one freaking out...bla bla..." But i know that he is the type to ask me if I'M fine really to see if he is okay (does that make any sense). Anyhow... it blew over! Thanks for all your responses- i think not playing the make-him-jealous game was the right thing to do... i hope it works out in the long run BIG HUGS IP: Logged |
hippichick
Knowflake Posts: 1914
From: The Ether
Registered: Jan 2006
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posted March 05, 2008 07:16 PM
Mel~~~Nice quote...don't we always get what we wish for??? Then find out it is not really what we wanted.... t IP: Logged |
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