posted March 22, 2008 04:09 AM         

sorry if i'm posting in the wrong place but i knew u read soul unions periodically and hoped to get ur attention. I remember when you looked at my chart the first thing you said/noticed was that it showed my experience of loss over the past year. That was true. I just found out that i lost yet another old friend. Does it show when the 'losing' will end?! I really can't take much more of it! I know this is a difficult part of life, but in the past year between deaths and losing relationships my life has transformed into a very desolate place...

I'm sure with times things will seem brighter, but i guess it's hard to see the light for me right now...

posted March 24, 2008 01:18 PM         

I'm so sorry that you lost your friend.

I post that rainbow and that angel to remind you that your friend has merely crossed over into pure spirit. Our pain comes from being left behind here in the Earth School class room to continue on while missing them. These losses and this hard work that you are doing at this time in your life is developmental stress, but I emphasize the word "Development". Unfortunately it's the most difficult times that cause us to grow the most and make us who we are.

It took me a while to find your information again because I couldn't remember telling you about the loss but now I found it and the good news is that you are definitely at the tail end of this phase, I'm even kind of shocked that you experienced another loss like this, but then it is God who is in charge of the ultimate timing of these things.

I could apply one lesson of this loss to your current situation with your Libra, if that is still brewing, or if anything is brewing in the relationship department. It can remind you and all of us that no one is guaranteed tomorrow and when true love presents itself, maybe we should go for it instead of spending too much time waiting around for things to be perfect. Perfect times rarely come. The point of power is NOW!

But aside from all that, allow yourself the time to grieve, nothing takes the place of that and it's necessary, so give yourself that time.

You have my sympathy.

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posted March 25, 2008 03:08 PM         

Let me first say that I am so thankful to have you in my life at the moment. Though it may seem trivial to you, your kind words and reassurance have been more helpful than you can know in this time in my life. I could not reply to you right away because after seeing your response I was really emotional. Your rainbow and angel made me think of my friends life in a new and very blessed way. He was suffering at the end of his life, and your message reminded me to think of his healthy and vibrant spirit and not an illness he fell to.

As far as the libra goes- it has become so messy that I can't muster the strength to push on at the moment. He began seeing a girl that he has seen on and of for the past few months. It seems whenever i'm not around he needs someone...or maybe its just wants that person. Though he says it is not serious, she is not special...etc...etc... being a bit of a feminist, i told him i could not intervene or contribute to something that could hurt another female (or person!) so i've cut off conversation. I know he is a flirt, and though he says he would never cheat on a girlfriend, I know that our level of conversations would certainly constitute 'cheating' in my eyes and heart.

Though i typically would be more forceful, given the situation with my ex, this new girl, and my drained energy and confidence from the loss of my friend, I just want to hide in a cocoon at the moment... i will keep you posted though!

Again, thank you! Though we know very little of each-other I consider you a close friend and confident. Although i cannot provide you with astrological advice, and have a very humble amount of life experience, I am here if you ever need someone to listen and be supportive.