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From: new york, new york, USA
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posted April 15, 2008 04:57 PM         

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Well Knowflakes,

I believe my 6 year relationship w/the Cappy has come to an end. After a very angry and frustrating argument he's cut me off. Just wanted to know if this is expected at this time... I finally stood up for myself and I guess that was more than he could handle, so of course, like always, he shut down and shut me out... Here is my info. let me know if you see something that I might not have.... thanks

Me
Nov. 2, 1979
NYC
4:19 am

Him
Dec. 24, 1977
NYC
11:45 pm

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posted April 30, 2008 01:12 PM         

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Oh.... Hang in there. Break ups are tough. But u should be proud of urself
" I finally stood up for myself "

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posted April 30, 2008 02:37 PM         

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I am a scorpio too and I know how hard breakups can be for us b.c we are so passionate and love so deeply. But just stay strong. One of our best qualities is our amazing resilience!

Best of luck to you.

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posted April 30, 2008 03:09 PM         

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I know that this may be hard to hear now, but perhaps it is for the best that you two are not together anymore, or it is a test of your relationship.

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posted April 30, 2008 06:27 PM         

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I too am in the middle of a sort of break up. It was more one sided here, but when I open my heart, I open it wide.
The advice I was given was to try to take a few steps back and give him breathing room.
Like that old saying goes...
"If you love something, let it go. If it comes back, then it's yours forever. If it doesn't, then it was never meant to be."
So my problem here is the letting go part. And when he doesn't respond, I get angry and say hateful things. And now I'm sure he's plenty ****** off enough to stay away.

But hang in there, it hurts like hell at first, but it does get better, I promise.

And also.. kudos to you for standing up for yourself! That can in no way be a bad thing. I've been in my share of relationships with controlling men and the best thing I did in both of those was standing up for myself. You'll look back and be glad you did.. even if it cost your relationship, at least you can walk away with your pride.

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