posted April 16, 2008 01:16 AM         

Lol. Funny you should mention...I have always had a thing for Scorpio men, and I am a Sag female...I always have this chemistry with them.

There is a gay guy at work who is a Scorpio...if only...sigh. We have a rapport that just fits really well. My Mercury is in Scorpio, so that makes it easy.

Sometimes Sag humor can be a little sharp for a Scorpio, especially if your words are unguarded and you hit a nerve. They will call you on it and look out for repercussion when you don't expect it. Tread carefully.

posted April 16, 2008 03:08 AM         

I've had experiences with two (one was a boyfriend, one a close friend) where they both kept things from me. Major things, where I thought our relationship was one way, when it really wasn't what they had led me to believe. And then they both ended our relationship by giving me a speech where they finally let me know their complete thoughts.

They both acted like they were flexible about letting me be who I am and accepting who I am, but I think they both wanted me to be someone else. And neither discussed that with me until the end.

I contributed to the poor communication too though. Although I'm a Sag, I have a Sco Asc and Mercury and maybe it was a case of our negative traits being too similar. Both too private and secretive.

posted April 16, 2008 08:55 AM         

Here's our stuff is anyone wants to look...this is the part I'm not good at, but I can do a little detective work on astro.com...

me
December 16, 1970
1:55pm
Roanoke, Virginia USA

him
November 7, 1970
1:36am
Roanoke, Virginia USA

posted April 16, 2008 09:49 AM         

after looking at your synastry chart I'm EXTREMELY interested to hear how you experience this connection.

First of all, oh my God the number of saturn aspects between you, especially oppositions, is unreal!!! Especially, I've noticed the venus opposite saturn double whammy. How does this feel to yo, very karmic by any chance? as if you already knew the person from somewhere? I see this double whammy very rarely in synastry charts, but I have it with a man I will probably never get out of my mind.I experience this double whammy as extreme inhibition towards each other, as if there is an invisible wall. Difficult to explain - very strong attraction, but at the same time blockage. How is it in your case?

The second thing that really struck me in your synastr chart was how heavily your venus is aspected by his planets. LOTS and LOTS of conjunctions to them, including a 0°!!!!!conjunction between your venus and his sun. Very, very curious how this feels to you! Do you find him breathtakingly beautiful?? Who 'spotted' whom first?

posted April 16, 2008 10:10 AM         

I knew this man from high school...we moved in the same circles but didn't really associate with each other much...and not for any particular reason other than I guess it just wasn't our destiny for that time...recently I located him on Myspace and asked him to be my friend but that was like sometime in March and he didn't respond until April 9th, of which by that time, I had completely forgotten about it. Since then we have talked daily online of course but I feel an intense drawing to him and he has admitted that to me as well...

The blockage would be my unhappy yet still married status. I mean, I don't hate my husband..however we live as roommates..and have for many years now.....and it's unhappy in that aspect...I'm not looking for an affair or anything...but I just find all of this rather...interesting...especially the immediate and intense attraction that can't really be explained...

and oh my yes...The Scorpio has proven to be a VERY beautiful man...very...and I'm flattered beyond belief by his attention, no wonder since I've not had any attention like this is forever.

posted April 16, 2008 10:25 AM         

What I'm a bit confused about is that this attraction only suddenly appeared now? So back at Highschool, you didnt feel any chemistry? Or have you always thought 'wow, what a man', but just never more up until now?

posted April 16, 2008 02:57 PM         

We had the same circle of friends, yet I don't recall us hanging out or anything...and we never dated.

All I can say is that I truly believe in destiny, I believe in fate, I believe that nothing happens without purpose..noone comes into your life without a reason...and hearing all this makes me believe that even more...

I'll def keep ya posted and THANK YOU so much for looking at our charts...I appreciate it so much.