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sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted April 29, 2008 09:21 AM
 
I thought there used to be a way to search old post for certain subjects you may be interested in....anyone ever have some square aspects and how did it play out
my sun square his mars
his moon square my mars
my moon square his neptune
his venus in my 5th
my venus in his 1st
pluto conj. vennus
my moon in his 12th its like playing with fire...i'm not sure it is good for me and yet I can't stop running back for more. There is an aggressive quality to our relationship that is scary and yet puts me over the top with passion. someone tell me those squares are too crazy to deal with. or share thier experiences, something keeps drawing me back over and over. came in like a tornado...can this calm down into something a lil less... whatever???we bring out some things in each other...I act out of character...as does he..hhhmmmm....love to see any responses.. IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 194
From: Germany
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted April 29, 2008 01:52 PM
i think it also depends on the other aspects connecting to these squares as well, but i got whopping how many squares?? with a real good friend of mine.sun square sun
mercury square mercury
venus square venus
mars square mars
node square node
sun square mercury
double sun square venus
jupiter square sun
neptune square sun
moon square eros
double moon square ascendant
mercury square venus
venus square pluto
mars square midheaven
jupiter square venus
jupiter square mercury
double ascendant square pluto ...list still goes on. well, we had a very emotionally violent period (2-3 months). we crashed and argued all the time, but we still did not walk away from each other. after each conflict, with difficulties we both apologized and assured that we still cared for each other very much. after that period was over, we became extraordinarily calm. it's as if we can communicate without talking. we feel comfortable with each other's company and we feel that we are allies. so from this experience... i wonder if the squares can give good tension once stabilized and understood. of course we have a few very good aspects for communication and working together, like my mars trine his jupiter and his moon trine my mercury, also some good aspects in composite. it may become very difficult, but i don't despair because of it. i believe if it takes the right people they can work it out to reach the place beyond it. IP: Logged |
winky_winky
Knowflake Posts: 397
From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 29, 2008 02:13 PM
i find the squares i had with this person did entail friction but u really have toa) have an overall vision
b) see if there are other aspects that might offset this friction, or make it more tolerable
c) look at ur own chart to see if u can relate to any of them and make them more bearable
d) be both mature and try to identify the rocky bits and work on them All in all, a certain amount of friction will be there, that is for sure To give u an example, this guy and i had many saturn squares and also some nasty uranus mars squares. but we had very beautiful venus and moon aspects, so i tried to talk it over with him so that we might spend much more time together because moon aspects tend to smooth out the more worrisome ones, but as it was too early and he wasnt very into committment, the friction gave way to..........separation  IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted April 29, 2008 02:40 PM
I guess it is good in the bedroom, but hard to relax sometimes and I acted way out of my character the other night and have no excuse. I think some of it might be relating to my tough transits right now too, (pluto 8th, sun, moon 12th)
we have
merc sun conj .28*
merc mooon conj 1.29*
neptune sq moon .55*
pluto conj pluto .49*
neptune conj neptune .10*
lots of tight orb synastry... nI guess I will see where it goes. the mars thing scares me though because i abhor violence and with him i think we both lose boundries and i projected back to him in myself what i find unattractive in him..if that makes sense....eg. i think he may drink too much,,,, so sat night i actually got drunk and made him jealous deliberately, and then of course acted up and refused to apologise. I didnt even do that at 25. what the he#* am I doing? The tension is unbelievable and it may just be too hot for me to handle without getting burned, but what is life without passion (to a leo)....ah....could be my crazy transits, i dunno. I think too much for someone with a 5th house pileup. now that does not make sense for sure.
Mars, pluto, neptune and saturn all very prominent in our synastry. but i feel like its those tough aspects to mars and moon, mars and sun, that keeps us off kilter and yet running back for more. i hope it settles down because I can't do topsy turvy at this point in my life, then part of me says, just hang on and enjoy the ride for as long as this merry go round is on....thanks for your input.
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sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted April 29, 2008 02:48 PM
also, in composite we have grand trine in water signs and we both play guitar and creativley we are really well matched, (i made him an awwesome collage) and he inspires me.. so there are some good things there too. just enough or too much of the edginess for my comfort zone. but hey, comfort zones aren't that fun.IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted April 29, 2008 02:57 PM
winky-winky - thanks for your input....sorry how that went for you. IP: Logged |
winky_winky
Knowflake Posts: 397
From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 29, 2008 03:36 PM
hello sunshine,well yes a pity, trouble is there were a lot of saturn ties in our synastry and i believe real nice composite so he keeps phoning and being a pain... hm...aries stronghead! i think that maybe as a leo u relish this kind of intensity but the jealousy business is typical pluto, and u have quite a few! where´s ur moon? U see sun square mars is competitive and unless u sort of play sports together or try to do sthing to release this energy i find this aspect challenging. Moon sq mars is extrmely sexy and makes for passion, but the moon person might find the mars person coming on a bit too strong i believe... IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted April 29, 2008 03:46 PM
my sun moon merc in 4th house (leo)
venus uranus pluto in 5th my sun and moon in his 1st house
his venus pluto and uranus in my 5th I light his 1st, he lights my 5th (mind you I have been in a drought since Aug)
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sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted April 29, 2008 03:50 PM
I would be the moon person. Makes sense what you said. He likes to be in charge for sure. Taking direction only works for me when it was my idea. hard headed i am.IP: Logged |
winky_winky
Knowflake Posts: 397
From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 29, 2008 04:05 PM
GASP, u DEFINITELY light up his life! they say luminaries in the 1st signify u are the ideal partner... so u are that for him, according to many astrologers i have read...So that is nice, i suppose, but dunno really this house overlay if it is that determining, i think it is though. Surely with your ego/will and your feelings - moon in leo u are very fiery indeed, although placemtns in the 4th do indicate u like home/are private (?) and would feel a strong bond with anybody that touches your 4th... then again he also might be important for u since he lights up your 5th and u are so much leo-ruled. fun and romance are important 4 u i suppose... IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted April 29, 2008 04:05 PM
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?cid=wqofilerRDPxz-u1202755741&lang=e&gm=a1&nhor=1&nho2=11&btyp=61&mth=gw&sday=29&smon=4&syr=2008&hsy=-1&zod=&orbp=&rs=0&ast= did that post the chart? IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted April 29, 2008 04:12 PM
should i run for the hills? this man does scare the He*& out of me...BTW, I am private, like to be private, like to mind my own biz...go thru dry spells and actually ok with being alone. Hate judgemental people and when you let someone in your life, you become volnerable.IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted April 30, 2008 10:40 AM
I guess I don't need help with this one. I am done. I have too much going on in my life right now to deal with this energy.
Walk away in silence.IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted May 07, 2008 09:21 AM
winky winky, or valentine, A whole 8 days later and I miss him like crazy. I really think we can do better than what we did and I want to try again. Any imput would be apprecaited if you can look at the synastry link I posted. Maybe it is just my transits giving me a rough time. Maybe I am blind. But inside I feel it is worth it and maybe just maybe we can really love each other the right way, with kindness and understanding and patience. I am usually not the humble one, but I think sometimes my pride has been to my detriment and I so want to get past that and to do that I have to be volnerable and lay things on the line. Please take a look any imput would be appreciated. i think i love this man. IP: Logged |
winky_winky
Knowflake Posts: 397
From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted May 07, 2008 10:50 AM
sunshine i have mars sq sun with somebody i really fancy but it is hell and the pain is unbearable so i have decided to let go...try to do the same please otherwise u ll go nuts...IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted May 07, 2008 05:34 PM
i am sure you are right. it wont last long again, probably. I am sure it won't be long and i will be back to hiding myself from the world in my safe little cacoon where no one can hurt me.IP: Logged |
sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted May 21, 2008 03:05 PM
I let this go. he is stalking me and I am scared. I threatened to call the law if he contacts me again. I am scared. My daughter will be gone and I will be alone all weekend. Things got REAL ugly REAL fast. Please Please GEO valentine look at my transits or something and tell me this nightmare will end soon. I know I have to live with the consequenses of a bad relationship decision, I know this, but I dont feel safe...and other than not responding and calling the law if he tries to harm me, i cant really control anyone but myself. Please please look at my chart or any advise will be appreciated. LEsson learned.
7/29/65 monroe mi 12:31am.
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sunshine_lion
Knowflake Posts: 39
From: ann arbor mi
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted May 21, 2008 03:07 PM
his is 8/23/65 toledo ohio 4:37am..i just want him to leave me alone. i dont think it will happen anytime soon. I gave my secretary his name in case anything happens. please god let this nightmare be over.IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?
Knowflake Posts: 455
From:
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted May 22, 2008 02:30 AM
Look, Sun square Sun is a HARD ASS aspect to deal with if other aspects in the synastry are difficult too. Its like the negative effects of the square between the Suns are multiplied if other aspects are bad too. I swear, if I ever deal with another squared Sun to mine, we better have some heavenly aspects throughout the rest of the chart. ------------------
Virgo Asc & Mars
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
Knowflake Posts: 6673
From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted May 24, 2008 11:38 PM
I hope everything turns out OK for you, sunshine 
(did you used to be sxycrzykewl??)
Just a note that transiting Uranus is conjunct your natal Chiron at 22Pis04 in the 11th. Uranus and Saturn to Chiron can be some very uncomfortable/unhappy transits to deal with.....
tUranus will turn retro on June 27th at 22Pis39 and go back to 18, turning direct again in November, so you'll get 3 hits -- my feeling is that the first pass is the worst (it's at 22Pis13 today), so you've already gotten that electrical shock to the system.
You're dealing with your situation the best way you can -- but please be very very careful.....  Zala IP: Logged |
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