posted May 07, 2008 10:24 AM         

Do u reckon it would show somewhere in my chart?

posted May 08, 2008 05:39 PM         

I blame it on my saggie sun which seems to love people who travel too and hence are international and return to their homelands.

It sucks since my libra mars and venus earns to be in a partnership. But then theer is my leo moon which loves a bit of drama which the long distance thing provides.

posted May 09, 2008 09:38 AM         

it is not easy and you have to have complete understanding with each other and a HUGE BOWL OF TRUST!

for me it was a very slow heartbreak because you just wanted to be with this special someone and express your love for them in the flesh but you can't! it's just not for me...i have no regrets though both experiences has left me with beautiful memories....hey you LIVE AND YOU RE MEMBER right?

good luck to all that is living strongly in a long distance relationship, it can happen it might not happen for me, but the beauty of miracles has happened to others!! may the power of LOVE guide you to that beautiful place

posted May 09, 2008 06:06 PM         

What sign is on your 9th house cusp?

What condition is your 9th house ruler in, what other planets aspect the 9th house ruler?

Do you have Venus in your 9th house?

Where is your Jupiter by sign and house?

What house does Jupiter rule?

These are just a few hints as to what could be going on.

No matter what, it is NOT your fate to keep getting into these relationships where you have no physical contact with your significant other. A strong, healthy relationship demands proximity, as you are stating.

Don't allow yourself to get seriously involved with someone who can't be with you or someone who you are not willing to go and be with. Or make sure it's someone who is willing to move heaven and earth to be with you, whether you go to him/her or the other way around.

...I preach cuz I been there, done that.
Geocosmic Valentine

posted May 10, 2008 05:24 AM         

Geo,

good point. May l ask how they will move heaven and earth for you if you move to their city please?

posted May 10, 2008 09:27 AM         

im in a long distance also but not a very far one - same Country with a distance of 2hour and a half car trip.

At weekends we try to be always with each other but sometimes its not possible.
However,neither me or him regret of anything - by the contrary.

When we met,knew it was strong and True - if you feel that,then you have no to worry.

AS Geo says,both must be totally committed to each other,and both to trust one another fully.

It demands very strong feelings,and a wide dosis of patience and understanding.

Like Winky says: " makes the Heart grows fonder" or " makes love die altogether" - then if the 2nd happens,it´s cause it wasnt worth it.

posted May 10, 2008 06:25 PM         

What sign is on your 9th house cusp?
-closest is my mars, 2 degrees into the 9th house.

What condition is your 9th house ruler in, what other planets aspect the 9th house ruler?
-it's my sun, and it is in my 1st house, conjunct venus (8 degree) mercury (6) juno (2), squared by midheaven, trine chiron (5th house), saturn (9th house), opposed by jupiter and lilith in the 7th house.

Do you have Venus in your 9th house?
-i know someone who has this. all his girlfriends have been foreigners except one.

Where is your Jupiter by sign and house?
-jupiter is in the gemini 7th.

posted May 10, 2008 07:35 PM         

why?

What sign is on your 9th house cusp?
ARIES

What condition is your 9th house ruler in, what other planets aspect the 9th house ruler?
Mars is in my 9th house!
mars semi-sextiles moon
mars semi-sextiles venus
mars square jupiter
mars trines uranus
mars opposes neptune
mars trines pluto
mars squares AC
mars conjuncts AC

Do you have Venus in your 9th house?
in placidus, yes. In equal it's in the 8th.

Where is your Jupiter by sign and house?
Jupiter is in 12th house

What house does Jupiter rule?
5th