posted May 22, 2008 04:39 AM              

I don't have my moon in Scorpio but my yummy capricorn does. I do remember feeling exactly how you felt really early on in our "dating" phase.

I knew that he was into me because he pursued me but everytime he called me or we hung out he would never make any attempt to engage in any sort of REAL conversation. Just normal small talk stuff, you know.

So it really, really started to get under my skin. I felt like he didn't want me to know him. So one day, about a month into it, I just bluntly put it out there. I asked him "Do you not WANT me to KNOW you?" and he just blinked a couple times and asked me what I meant by that. So I told him what was bothering me. After that, he definitely started to put his emotions on the table in a real way and it allowed us to CONNECT. Maybe you should try being blunt too?

**Unless you're thinking its too early or it would freak him out.

I think Scorp mooners are highly sensitive and are protective of their emotions so that they won't carelessly be thrown into an emotionally vulnerable situation. Maybe he's just feeling you out to see if he can trust you?

posted May 25, 2008 06:34 PM              

deux and other snowflakes

"most of the times we are playing games but we dont realise"

posted May 30, 2008 07:11 AM              

and communication? forget it.... as Miss Libra said - conversation seems to only be about small talk stuff (My deep heart yearns to talk about deep stuff most of the time).

I was pushed to the very last of my patience... I said "That's it! I'm out of here definitely this time!!!".... and then.....

...my partner suddenly reverted back to the happy Leo Sun person they were when we first met.

We are back on track now (it's been 2 months).... but it was certainly a two year test of my character!!!

If you really want to have a reln with Scorp Moon, you will experience loyalty like you wouldn't believe.... but don't expect to chat about your feelings to open listening ears, or be able to pry into their feelings.

It'll be easier to climb Mt Everest with a gorilla on your back.

posted June 01, 2008 01:20 AM              

"I am a sun libra, aquarius asc, moon aries, mars cap, venus scorpio... if anything, I have been called quite severe.. I am not really! There's just a few things I can't take.. 1) People who are not straight forward (even though I am still working on my complete and utter forthrightness, I expect that from others, otherwise I am gone) 2) People who are not SERIOUS (in life, in relationships... but should be able to act the fool with me when necessary which is most of the time) 3) People who are PASSIONLESS annnnd... Interestingly enough, I am not that into sex... Although I am quite sexual in nature. This has been a problem, no doubt. Not for me, though. I have had great, great intellectual/emotional relationships with a cap man with venus in scorp and also a taurus wth a pisces moon and venus in scorp... But these men were great for telling secrets and mental stimulation... I definitely couldn't deal with their issues in a day-to-day relationship (aw hell no!). Now married to a gemini/cancer cusp with a libra rising, scorp moon, mars in gemini, venus in leo... Couldn't ask for a better (or prettier) man... Although sometimes I wish he were bigger and scarier (ha ha) but I do seem to stick to men who really have it together. Nice upstanding citizens. They just need a slight evil streak, I guess."

And as far as loyalty goes? Well, in my current LTR I would never even think to be disloyal. He is that perfect for me, and I am no idealist. Something about him has changed me, and our relationship is ultra communicative and it's really only been a handful of individuals I have ever been able to achieve this with. I absolutely cannot stand people who can't open up to me. I hate hate hate small talk. That said, I have been in relationships where I felt the other person was not being completely open with me so I didn't feel the need to be completely honest with them either... Also if I don't feel an immediate spark for someone, I usually know there is no potential... but that may have nothing to do with the scorp moon. Although, I almost always get who I want. Except for aries.. Been head over heels with one or two and they are just immune to my magnetism.. But that's all right -- who needs 'em?

posted June 05, 2008 10:16 PM              

That's probably a typical scorpio moon response.

posted June 05, 2008 11:26 PM              

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tatyh:
Also, if I share my emotions, people will probably realize that I'm a little paranoid and emotional, which is the last thing I want people to know because they might not like me so much.

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Complete agreement here. I have to probe and feel to know first how the person would react (even a close one), before I'd really be able to just... "let it out".

It's not that I do not want to. The problem is that I want to so much, that having it being unrequited just sux. :P

For me, this applies to close ones only. With complete strangers and coworkers, for example, I couldn't care enough, really, to show much of my real emotions.

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Sun: Pisces
Moon: Scorpio
Mercury: Aries
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Pisces
Jupiter: Cancer
Saturn: Virgo
Uranus: Scorpio
Neptune: Sagittarius
Pluto: Libra
Lilith: Leo
Asc node: Virgo

posted July 30, 2008 03:23 PM            

Is this normal for a scorpio moon? I'm thinking after reading all these posts about how scorpio mooners don't really speak their true feelings, that maybe this guy is being insincere.

posted August 10, 2008 11:53 AM              

i might be a bit too forceful as am taurus sun....

gemgemgem, saggi sun and aries asc, i find asc always is misleading, in that it usually shows up in alot of their actoins but the sun is always where the core lies, so surely his behaviour is direct and so on,fiery, blah blah blah but this person will still be quite wary of boredom and getting caught in routine i believe...typical saggie i believe, even if his needs and emotions and reactions are scorpio-like, as in intense,etc..

i also read somewhere that it is no good to push these people in that they take their own time, so u are into the mysterious business and finding out for the long-haul

it is true though that pushing them means the cold shoulder... in my experience...

posted August 10, 2008 03:23 PM            

It's like he's so warm and charming, and affectionate one minute, then a switch turns off, and he is distant and cold. Just 3 weeks ago, he was telling me all these feelings he had, and even took me out to dinner with his whole familly last week, including his mom. He insisted on going out with me and my friends last night, then when we were all out, he was on his blackberry the whole time and said he needed to go pick up his cousin or some BS, and had to leave early.

He is really sweet, and "there" for me in that he calls everyday, and txt messages me, and even offers to drive me home a lot, but it's like he's not there emotionally.