posted May 25, 2008 05:50 AM         

when we first met, it was VERY passionate, for quite a while too. he practically lived at my house and always wanted to be with me (which was boring for me haha) but i didnt mind. but recently he's being very aloof. i dont know whether to do nothing or contact him. im such in a dilemma right now!!! ahh!

posted May 26, 2008 01:17 AM         

Bunnies is right about Cappies and planning-- if your Cap is involved in a planning crisis of some sort he may be withdrawing, even if the crisis has nothing to do (directly) with your relationship.

Ask yourself what is going on in his life. If you don't know, then ask him. This may be a good starting point in looking for clues.

Cappies seem to be pretty black in white in terms of fidelity. They either absolutely won't, or they absolutely will try. That is, some are more focued on the stability factor associated with this sign, and others are more caught up in the sensual (read: womanizing) end of things.

posted May 26, 2008 06:27 PM         

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So yeah, we got in touch cause hes working on a project with me..hes the type when you need to talk busines or work he replies straight away. But personal emails take longer....is this normal for cappies??

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Yes. Work emails are much easier to deal with overall...a mere matter of practicality. Personal stuff doesn't come easy to us. We don't operate quite like everyone else, so we spend time trying to access those feelings like a normal person, and then trying to respond in a way that a normal person might.

Sags are pretty low maintenance for Capricorns overall, though. Your Capricorns may not know astrology, but if they did, they might realize that they don't need to water down their personalities so much. Sags like the truth, and can handle a more blunt approach to things. I think you guys should try your best to let these Capricorns know that you don't require them to be ultra-sensitive like he's used to having to try to be for the more sensitive signs (remember that opposites attract and Capricorn's opposite is Cancer).

posted May 27, 2008 07:31 AM         

very insightful!! and so true I feel. yes, i much prefer an honest approach to commuication. It was interesting before my Cappie left for his year abroad he told me his worries about his business ideas and he felt like he was failing at some of them. It was so refreshing for him to be talking honestly and openly about how he was feeling. We get on so well when it comes to exchanging ideas about work (we have a very similar outlook on life and future career plans. I have a Cappie Asc so often feel like I need to appear a certain way when it comes to work but of course my Saggie sun peeks out. My cappie though has been very supportive of my Masters degree as its been a tough year for me as ive had to work 4 jobs in order to finance it. He seems to admire ambition and hard graft (as I do).

Its nice to think that Cappie and Saggie can compliment one another.

posted May 31, 2008 03:26 PM         

My friend and I have decided to go away for a two day break in Europe in the next two weeks since there are really cheap tickets at the moment...but the cheap tickets are to certain destinations...including Stockholm, Sweden where my cappie is from. He is returning from Mexico where he has studied for his year abroad and is home soon. My friend and I discussed destinations and she wanted Norway but it was too expensive so i suggested sweden. So it looks like we are heading to sweden! but my dilemma is, do i get in touch with Cappie and ask advice on good bars to go to and places to visit. Or do i just leave it until he returns to Uni in September.

Im so unsure whether, i am pushing something and expecting something. Is it synchronicity? or me wanting something?

posted May 31, 2008 05:07 PM         

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do i get in touch with Cappie and ask advice on good bars to go to and places to visit. Or do i just leave it until he returns to Uni in September.

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Sure, if you like. It won't hurt anything.

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Im so unsure whether, i am pushing something and expecting something. Is it synchronicity? or me wanting something?

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If you're wanting to see where he's from, I don't see any problem with that. I would say that's a pretty innocent desire.

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posted May 31, 2008 06:32 PM         

yes, it is a strange combo...but from all accounts of what he's told me, he's loved it! the hot weather especially.

The weekend break might be on hold now anyway since the price tickets have fluctuated :-( so as a saggie who loves travel i'm a little sad. But will keep an eye on the tickets over the next few weeks and see what comes up.

yes, its an innocent desire I think cause i find him interesting and want to see his country.

I can keep on dreaming i guess.

posted June 04, 2008 05:43 AM         

He hasn't replied! I'm thinking its not business enough for him :-)