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Knowflake Posts: 2
From: Sacramento CA
Registered: May 2008
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posted May 29, 2008 06:50 PM
 
So many posts about Cancer Men here! Since I just went through a Cancer 'relationship- or not' whatever u want to call it. Here is hopefully some insight: Cancer men play emotional mindgames...mine even admitted to it...they love to draw u in, but then pull away...and yes they are very much aware of it. Mine even smoked pot to ease the burdens in his life...which trust me only makes the cancer male that much harder to understand...after one year of friendship and about 4 months of dating...asked him how he felt about our 'relationship' guess what he drew in his shell for 2 weeks...complete avoidance...but then called and expressed so much interest...only for same thing to happen again. Ladies, men are not that difficult to understand, if they are interested (no matter their sign) trust me they will make an effort because even silly cancer men know that they can't compeltely withdraw or they may end up losing the girl. this is especially true if they have really been hurt in the past by other women. Their attitude is I'm not going to stick my neck out there and get hurt, so you make the effort and if I feel like it I'll reciporcate, but only on my terms. So whichever way you look at it...trust your instict. they love knowing they have you wrapped around their finger and will try to manipulate you with emotional blackmailing...string you along in other words. Now I have met Plenty of Cancer men not like this, who are way more stable but you know what...it takes a long time for a Cancer man to reach this stage. Usually not until later on in life or if they had to be independent early on in life. Bottom line...move on if you feel like something is not right...a GREAT HEALTHY relationship will never leave you feeling this way. Yes, there are bumps but not of this magnitute.Hope this helps !IP: Logged |
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