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triplecancer
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posted June 01, 2008 09:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for triplecancer     Edit/Delete Message
What do you think of the synastry between these two people?. It's for a good friend of mine and her boyfriend. They broke up two days ago and both are very sad because they care a lot for each other and get along well, but there are differences. Can you look at their charts and tell me what things make their relationship difficult, and if there is a chance that they'll get back together (I really hope so). Thanks.

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triplecancer
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posted June 01, 2008 09:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for triplecancer     Edit/Delete Message
Let's see if her chart comes up, if not you can clic on the link in the first post.

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posted June 01, 2008 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunshine9     Edit/Delete Message
tripleC,

Oh, how very sad!! Mercury is retrograde now, and is making everything difficult. I myself am going thru something with my man (hoping it isn't over), and I do believe that things will be better once Mercury stations direct again, around June 19th. Tell your friend to hang in there..

And, if you could post the synastry chart, hon, it would be so much easier to see the aspects between them. You know how to do that, right?


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triplecancer
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posted June 01, 2008 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for triplecancer     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you Sunshine. Here is the synastry.

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posted June 03, 2008 12:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunshine9     Edit/Delete Message
tripleC,

I see that there are not very many hard aspects in their synastry that would be challenging - mostly sextiles & trines, combined with the one opposition of his Moon squared her Neptune, which should not be alien to him as he has that aspect natally. There are squares from his formal, serious Cappy Venus to her Libran Sun which could cause some tensions. His Mercury conjunct Uranus might make him say outrageous things, but she would be able to understand him, with her Mars conjunct Uranus making her want to do wild, outrageous things! There seem to be a lot of harmonious aspects here, and they would've been like peas in a pod, yes?

He has a lot more tense aspects in his natal chart. The Sun-Moon opposition jumped out at me right away - my guy shares this aspect and it challenges his very expression of self and can lead to him acting like two very different people when he goes from one extreme to another. This guy has Sun squared Mars, which might challenge his ability to act due to internal conflicts. His Virgo Mars would be critical of his desire to express his extroverted Sagittarian Sun. And given his age, he is coming up on his first Saturn Return now - that can be pretty challenging.

I don't see anything else major that could be disruptive at this time, but for that Saturn Return. It is a tough period, very unsettling for many.

Has your friend tried talking to him about what caused the breakup?


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triplecancer
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posted June 03, 2008 07:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for triplecancer     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Sunshine,
Thanks for the response. The actually have a very harmonious relationship and get along very well, but they view life differently. She's very disciplined, hard working, ambitious and likes to plan. He is more of a "I live day by day" kind of person who doesn't worry about the future. He's still studying arquitecture and isn't even sure if that's what he wants to do with his life. So for her it's hard to see herself together with him in the future, constructing a relationship and growing, because he doesn't think about it so much. She has tried to talk to him about this, but for him it's hard. I know that he loves her unconditionally and that this breakup has broken his heart. But he always says: "this is how I am and I'm not going to change". He really is a great person, but this difference is too strong for her. And to not be able to see hersefl in the future, well, it makes her wonder if she is in love or not. She has moon square mercury so what she feels is different from what she thinks. It makes me sad to see them apart. I find it strange that he is like this since he has saturn conjunct ascendant. You would think that he is more disciplined and structured.

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