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Topic: Bad Synastry & Composite: Musings
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winky_winky
Knowflake Posts: 414
From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted June 02, 2008 12:48 PM
 
just have been told by a wonderful astrologer i highly respect that both my synastry and compost with my aries crush are not good enough to make the distance so hoped i would let u stargazers help me to cut it off with him...Sad thing is the rship keeps dragging on so i wondered if u have any examples/experiences where u have overcomed atrocious synastry and want to make any comments... i think i already put up this syn & compost but never mind... 
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MysticMelody
Moderator Posts: 3916
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Registered: Dec 2005
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posted June 02, 2008 01:25 PM
The astrologer was probably looking at the lack of Saturn contacts. If the case is that it is not meant to be, then Destiny will probably take care of the "end" part... but you can focus on the love and gifts you shared during the time you touched each other's lives. You can practice enjoying the contact for what it is and seeing what you can learn from it. It seems like when you begin to have the skills to do just that, it is the time "Destiny" begins to give you more.
It is also good that you have his astrological information because you can begin to notice what energies you are continually attracted to and begin to look at what combinations of these energies and in what areas might be best for you. You can also get to know the energies which in a way, is actually getting to know your future long term partner. 
I hope you are feeling ok.  God Bless
Something better is on the way, and I mean that not as a trite saying, but from the depths of my heart and soul. 
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arcnpi
Knowflake Posts: 18
From: portland, oregon, usa
Registered: Sep 2006
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posted June 05, 2008 12:31 AM
Winky,First of all, what reason(s) did this "repected" astrologer give to you that your synastry and composite were bad??? Second, your birth times appear to be estimated. Accurate birth times can make a big difference. Third, I don't necessarily agree with the "bad" assessment. People need to follow their hearts. That's how you grow. Perhaps this isn't a "perfect" union but it may be one that you both need at the moment. If the two of you are willing to relate then wait and see what happens rather than give up on it. -arcnpi
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Lana29865
Knowflake Posts: 261
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Registered: Mar 2007
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posted June 05, 2008 12:39 AM
I agree with the above posts. I'd like to hear why she thought your synastry and composite are "not good enough to make the distance"?I just took a quick look but your composite Venus and Moon are excellently placed, so there is great potential at least... IP: Logged |
winky_winky
Knowflake Posts: 414
From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted June 05, 2008 01:42 PM
thanks snowflakes for ur support and insighti am rather crushed actually the astrologer said there is a lot of love and sex but, * there is disharmony as to the bad to good ratio, in that the bad outweighs the good
* not so with the composite, which isnt very good either
* also, this astrologer mentioned the fact that there are many squares to my venus conj mars from his stellium which makes it difficult looking forward to hearing ur comments IP: Logged |
winky_winky
Knowflake Posts: 414
From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted June 05, 2008 01:44 PM
also it was mentioned that the many squares are karmic in nature and that therefore this should be worked ati am really looking forward to hearing any more comments or analysis thanks snowflakes IP: Logged |
triplecancer
Knowflake Posts: 106
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Registered: Jul 2006
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posted June 05, 2008 08:09 PM
I’m no expert, but I don’t see this synastry as “bad”. There are “good” house overlays: her sun in his 7th, his sun and venus in her 5th, his moon in her 7th. Also his moon is conjunct her venus-mars.
It would be good if you could post both charts separately so that we can see the degrees the planets are in. But I don’t see no Saturn contacts. Her Saturn could be widely conjunct his moon, his Saturn might square her venus-mars. I can verify if you post both charts. These contacts have their negative aspects, but they are, from what I have read, “glue” aspects.
Challenging aspects can be good if both of you are willing to work and grow.
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Lana29865
Knowflake Posts: 261
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Registered: Mar 2007
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posted June 06, 2008 02:23 AM
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