posted June 03, 2008 02:02 PM              

I'm not looking for someone I can't be myself with. I mean, eventually if it works out I will want to let him know I care and he's gotten to me, and I don't want the type who will run the minute that happens. Games aren't for me. Thanks again!

posted June 03, 2008 02:33 PM              

I would just be honest with him and tell him bluntly (he's an Aries he can take it) I like you but I want to take things slow. If he really likes you he will wait if you're just another name in his cell phone then don't waste your time.

Tell him you just don't want one of those instant relationships where the people don't even really know each other and then get into a relationship (by title only and no real substance) with somebody that they don't even know and eventually break up. Had they taken the time to get to know each other they could have decided whether or not getting into a relationship would be in their best interest.

posted June 03, 2008 02:53 PM              

I know he's younger than I am, but he's 30 and actually has a daughter from a relationship he was in 5 years ago and seems very responsible. I know he's had quite a few long-term relationships (2+ years), and is wanting to settle down and have kids. In fact he's freaking me out about THAT too because while I know I'm not getting any younger and DO definitely want kids one day, he seems to be ready for that any day now - WTF?! LOL I do know his last relationship ended after the girl cheated on him. We have a mutual friend so I have confirmed that what he's told me is true.

Anymore thoughts? I don't know that much about synastry (still learning) - is there anything in our charts showing he would have such a connection to me? I thought if anything MY aries moon and mars would be wanting HIM more, since he's an Aries sun.

posted June 03, 2008 10:46 PM              

you have almost identical planets to my bf lol

he is
leo sun
sag moon
scorpio rising

posted June 04, 2008 07:42 AM            

Oh, I'm a sag.

posted June 04, 2008 09:07 AM              

oneruledbymars - Thanks for the response. Hahaha well it would be NICE for us all to have what we want when we want it, but it doesn't always work that way lol It's good to know that maybe he is at least SELECTIVE and doesn't treat EVERYONE this way because that is what concerns me. He's moving so fast I'm not sure if it's ME he really likes, or if I am not special to him and he just wants SOMEONE - you know? Hahaha well if he loves the chase he should be in HEAVEN with me then because I keep runnin'! LOL

robyn.c - Uh oh!! Wow! Good to know It's probably because we would both go off on adventures and forget to come home LOL

posted June 04, 2008 11:32 AM              

the aries i know has mars conj uranus and goes his own way nevertheless

posted June 06, 2008 11:36 AM            

Sag-girl= I understand. I would be the same way. But speaking for myself, when I pursue somebody I just pursue them, they are what I want and no one else. They're some aspects in your chart that can lend some validity to his feelings if they are real. Check it out.

But I definitely agree with everyone else.
Take it slow and let the feelings develop and you will know better than any of us if this man is all that he says he is.

posted June 06, 2008 12:45 PM              

winky_winky - Thanks! Yeah, I typically like peace, though with my moon and mars in Aries, I do get a little riled up now and then lol

posted June 07, 2008 09:46 AM              

Sun Aries
Moon Leo
Mercury Aries
Venus Taurus
Mars Leo
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Leo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
True Node Libra
Ascendant Capricorn (which I know is probably off bc of a lack of birth time)

I still can't decide about him. I am having a good time with him and like him so far, but I am just really skeptical he likes me as much as he seems to, so quickly.

posted June 07, 2008 09:50 AM              

Sun Sagittarius 13°29'16 in house 9 direct
Moon Aries 15°48'20 in house 1 direct
Mercury Scorpio 25°32'20 in house 8 direct
Venus Capricorn 28°21'52 in house 11 direct
Mars Aries 25°55'24 in house 1 direct
Jupiter Aquarius 9°07'49 in house 11 direct
Saturn Cancer 2°39'55 in house 4 retrograde
Uranus Libra 26°19'09 end of house 7 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 7°23'45 in house 9 direct
Pluto Libra 6°29'26 in house 7 direct
True Node Sagittarius 28°40'46 in house 10 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Pisces 18°01'38
2nd House Aries 28°03'01
3rd House Taurus 28°04'50
Imum Coeli Gemini 22°26'45
5th House Cancer 15°44'47
6th House Leo 12°23'00
Descendant Virgo 18°01'38
8th House Libra 28°03'01
9th House Scorpio 28°04'50
Medium Coeli Sagittarius 22°26'45
11th House Capricorn 15°44'47
12th House Aquarius 12°23'00

posted June 10, 2008 01:42 PM            

"his need for romance is so strong that he's capable of looking elsewhere if you don't keep his illusions alive constantly. The minute you let your mutual love lose its storybook flavor, he may wander off .the steady path. In case you're not sure, storybook love, to him, does not include going to dreamland at night with a female who has Vicks salve on her chest to clear up her cough. It also does not include watching your intimate personal toilette, such as polishing your nails, whitening your teeth, bright­ening your hair with "blondes have more fun" bleach, peel­ing your sunburn, filing your nails or fighting with your mother for hours on the phone. Somehow, in his mind, this is not the way storybook princesses behave. And good­ness knows, Juliet would never have sat with her feet up, chewing taffy and watching TV. Wear your perfume when he's around, and giggle with your girl friends when he's not. He finds it difficult to visualize himself as Prince Charming when he kisses you awake and you either snore, or shout unpleasantly, "For gosh sakes, let me sleep, will you?" Now, really, is that the way Sleeping Beauty would have acted when she woke up? Be prepared to greet him dewy-eyed and breathless each morning, fresh from your dreams, thrilled to find his handsome face so near. And let him know it.

Aries males whose sweethearts neglect romance are heartbroken at first. Then they become angry. Then they go looking for a princess who doesn't snore and things like that. This isn't dishonest as far as he's concerned. He didn't break a promise. You did. You made him think you were a lovely nightingale, singing in the moonlight, like it says in his favorite song. Now he finds out you're a chat­tering squirrel or a nagging blue jay and the jolt rouses " him from his heavenly world of angelic choirs and bells ringing every time he touches your hand. How can bells ring when your hands are always full of dirty ashtrays, and how can he hear choirs when you're screaming at him that he stayed out until after midnight for two nights in a row? (Which he did, of course, but who are you to think you can dictate his every move? Marriage is not a prison, and you are not his warden-that's his attitude.)"

~ Linda Goodman "Sun Signs"
above excerpts from "Aries Man"
http://mizian.com.ne.kr/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/aries.htm