posted June 07, 2008 04:24 AM         

Just for the record... I have a Scorpio Moon, but I don't like to play games and I don't play them either. I probe, probe some more, and when I'm sure, then there's the long, warm hug, and the gentle caressing of partner's face with back of fingers, and then who knows what else. :tongue:

And when I don't feel the connection with the person, I just back off. While I might not just say "I'm not interested in you", I would by my actions make it very clear that there's no future between us, so to speak. I don't let the other person doubt, because I know how painful that is.

I'm really sorry to hear about your pain. If I knew what to tell you to make you feel better, you know I'd do so in a heartbeat. I wish I could feed you a piece of chocolate and give you a hug and squeeze you until that pain is replaced by another pain...

Uh, wait... check that...

However, I think it wouldn't be a good idea to just rule out ALL Cancer men, ya know? I mean, even ones with his Moon in Scorpio. I still believe that as a person grows and evolves both mentally and emotionally, s/he can transcend the tendencies dictated by astrology.

It's what I'm trying to do myself anyway.

I think that astrology (or any fortune-telling, personality profiling technique) is a pretty good statistical reference, but I think I'd be shooting myself in the foot if I just "believe" that Pisces and Sagittarius wouldn't really get along, reject the notion of having any kind of relationship with two of the most happy-laughter-inducing and fun and heart-warming girls I know just because they're both Sagittarius' and born in the year of the Rat (which, incidentally, conflict with the year of the Ram, which I am).

Ya know what I'm saying?

posted June 07, 2008 10:56 AM         

dont worry about feeling foolish, when the scene plays over in your mind, visualise shrinking it very very small, like on a tiny television.

i once ran after a boyfriend in just my bra and pants...then a family who lived downstairs were having some kind of party and all filed in, while i was stuck in the corner mumbling appologies, unable to get upstairs to my flat cos they would all see my bum (while my boyfriend made his break)

i guess what im saying is, we all done it.

posted June 07, 2008 02:26 PM         

They're not all bad... Cancer men... but you must remember the red flags. If there are games, even if the drama is fun for a while, it could lead to pain.

Have hope, sweetheart. You are worth a heck of a lot more than you are giving yourself credit for.