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Topic: what triggered this?
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lechien
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From: Germany
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted June 24, 2008 02:37 AM
 
for a few weeks, this relationship felt like the magic of the century. i even fancied having his baby for a brief second. then now we don't even talk to each other, and i don't even want to think that i ever had anything with this guy.the synastry has some really good aspects i think, like the AC-MC axis conjunction and eros-psyche conjunction. his Neptune conjunct my AC and my Neptune conjunct his North node may indicate how we saw things with rose-colored glasses, but what made the glasses shatter and all of the sudden i felt 180 degree different and found him unattractive, boring and unbearable? we did not part in bad terms, but things went wrong and after half a year we have no contact. we were completely different people with wrong interests, sexual preferences, life styles and personalities. i even wonder what brought us together in the first place. i can only think that it was a huge misunderstanding and a mistake! for him on contrary it was a completely eye-opening relationship, and it probably changed his life in some ways. he had a long-distant girlfriend and never had the thought to break up with her, but he was heart-broken pretty hard. can anyone see what may have triggered the sudden drastic change in the point of view? i have no feelings left for him but it's sheer curiosity. what happened!? 
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lechien
Knowflake Posts: 235
From: Germany
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted June 24, 2008 02:46 AM
this is the transit of around the time we got toegther.  and this is when things started looking different.  IP: Logged |
Lana29865
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posted June 24, 2008 06:05 AM
That's an interesting question and I'm also looking forward to the answers.My own immediate observation is that you have Uranus on the composite ASC which can bring about abrupt changes (positive or quite negative) in the relationship regardless of the transits. Also transiting Uranus is in tight trine to your composite North Node, and that could mean an abrupt change in the direction of your relationship. IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 235
From: Germany
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted June 24, 2008 07:04 AM
hi Lana, i see your point about the Uranus at the ascendant... but i wonder, if this may change the point of view suddenly, what would determine toward good or bad? would it be completely random?i mean, i changed from being completely smitten to just plain be disgusted that i slept with him (aw i feel so bad saying this...) in a snap of finger! IP: Logged |
Azalaksh
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From: New Brighton, MN, USA
Registered: Nov 2004
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posted June 24, 2008 10:12 AM
Juno transits are said (by Magi) to produce encounters like this -- have a look at the interps here: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/018139.html I noted Juno in the 1st opp Jupiter in 7th in one of those charts..... IP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 235
From: Germany
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted June 24, 2008 10:40 AM
Azalaksh, there is indeed the transiting Juno opposition composite Jupiter in the chart around the time we got together. did you mean this brings unlikely people together, or breaks things suddenly or changes perspective on the relationship?this brings out a whole new question actually. i have that exact same aspect natally, also 1st and 7th house. there's this different guy who has the same opposition aspect natally with the 9th house Juno and 3rd hose Jupiter. we have the Juno (11th)-Jupiter (5th) opposition in our composite and Davison (5th Juno-11th Jupiter) too. I would like to figure out what impact this repetition may have on the relationship. anyone have an insight? i'm not familiar with the magi astrology at all. the link you posted in the other thread i would like to read when i have the time, i have to travel tomorrow and may not have internet for a bit... (i'm the perpetual traveler!) but the quick look sounds like their interpretation is quite different from the standard i know of. interesting. IP: Logged |
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