posted June 26, 2008 11:33 PM              

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Seriously? soulmates? twinsouls? they cant RECOGNIZE US?! Come on now....I use to believe in that stuff but realized something...NO, it's not that hes scared or doesnt realize youre his twinsoul/etc whatever...he just isnt into you, because you can bet your a-- he wouldnt do half the sh- he does if he thought for 1 minute you were the one...or someone he couldnt live without.. we're all kidding ourselves...cancer men topic as an example....aquarius men...pisces men...whatever...we really need to get a grip on ourselves, and find the strength to realize we deserve to be treated better.
Yes, I realize we're a bunch of self conflicted, masochists..(dont deny this, because i already think most people are)....

so yeah this is my "angry" rant.

so as the saying goes "hes just not into you". something ive had to learn.

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posted June 26, 2008 11:44 PM              

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I agree with you writesomething. I think that if it's a "twin" then there's a mutual recognition. I've even heard it said even when twin siblings are seperated, they can experience each others feelings, pain, etc. So then not only would there be a mutual recognition, there would be an empathic connection. (just speculating). How could the same not be true for twin souls?

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posted June 27, 2008 12:03 AM            

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posted June 27, 2008 12:41 AM            

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Actually the quote "he's just not that into you" comes from an episode of Sex and the City. Anyone see that episode?

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posted June 27, 2008 01:08 AM            

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Fatinkerbell- yeah the line came from sex and the city BUT 2 of the writers of sex and the city then wrote a book called 'he's just not that into you'.
It was on Oprah and everything, oprah said it was something every woman should read.
I haven't read it tho

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posted July 01, 2008 12:36 PM            

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I'm a simple soul, and run on the principle that either people want to spend time with me or they don't. If they don't, trying to force them is a waste of everyone's time.

This could be Aries ruling the 5th at work. If so, that's a nod for Placidus.

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posted July 01, 2008 12:58 PM            

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Just wanted to add-
men do the same things sometimes.
Men have overanalyzed things I have said, thought I was WAY into them when I wasn't.
Thought i would sucumb to manipulation, but I will not respond to baiting-I LOATHE IT. I think the main difference is they want to bait you when they find out that it isn't true (you are not into THEM). They want you to believe something is wrong with YOU-for not wanting them (you are angry, bitter, had bad experiences, don't like sex (the real problem is you don't like sex with THEM)) for not wanting them. i don't think women do that, they think something is wrong with themselves. maybe we should take some lessons from men.

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posted July 01, 2008 11:22 PM              

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i think some boys need to be pushed into things. Seriously.

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posted July 02, 2008 09:36 AM              

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Agree Lavlee

but l also agree with thedividedsky that some guys need an INITIATING kick up the A**

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posted July 02, 2008 03:06 PM            

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Say no to romantic masochism!!

What you want is what you want, and if he can't give you what you want, and you've established that what you want isn't unreasonable...well, you know the whole square peg/round hole thing....find the one who makes you happy instead of the one that has "potential". Cause when a guy is really into you and it's right, you'll have little doubt.

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posted July 02, 2008 06:37 PM            

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I wouldn't go so far as to say differ all the men you consider to have "potential." I was fortunate enough to have taken up a potential and he, my friend, did change for the better. I helped him kick drugs and live in sobriety. Now he's more spiritual than he's ever been. So I say sometimes you just know when the kool-aid's right!

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