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Topic: How do the men here feel about twin souls
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nattie33 unregistered
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posted June 27, 2008 01:00 AM
I have to ask the men here. How do you feel about "twin souls " Twin Flames" Or "soul mates". Is there any man who feels they have found the one and lost them? are you searching for the "one" . Is there that women you can't forget above all others. Or is this just for the women. i really want to know.IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 4313 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2008 03:23 AM
perhaps the lack of responses answers the question more than anything.IP: Logged |
CrimsonChyld unregistered
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posted June 28, 2008 07:35 AM
Come on you Cancer men, speak up! LOL... <kidding, kidding>
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PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 4313 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2008 08:17 AM
are the cancer men looking for soulmates or mother figures?IP: Logged |
nattie33 unregistered
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posted June 28, 2008 09:54 AM
Yes i noticed the lack of response from the men. that speakes volumesIP: Logged |
bilbo unregistered
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posted June 28, 2008 10:26 AM
hi billy from ireland here. this is a true story. at the split second that i was about to answer your question, i got 4 text messages from my wife. yes i do believe she is my twin. when i first saw her a bolt of lightening went straight through me(not literally!). no mistake. i also believe that the law which governs twin souls is beyond astrology as we know it. compassion and understanding means that one forgives the faults and failings of the other. REAL TWIN SOULS WORK TOGETHER TO BECOME EVEN CLOSER.ps silence is golden! IP: Logged |
PeaceAngel Knowflake Posts: 4313 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2008 10:38 AM
hey bilbogreat reply. silence may be golden but your reply was priceless. IP: Logged |
jwhop Knowflake Posts: 4401 From: Madeira Beach, FL USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 28, 2008 11:00 AM
Are you sure you want a relationship with your "Twin Soul", your "Twin Self" in this life?This is no bed of roses, no walk in the park. The term itself reeks of furious raging battles littering the personal pages of your previous and perhaps present incarnations. Perhaps that's the reason the obsessive Pluto/Venus aspect must be present to bind you together while you pay each other back...over and over to finally balance the scales of Karma until the dawn of understanding, recognition and finally, forgiveness. The Planets from Gooberz by Linda Goodman
We've fought a long and bitter war, my Twin Self and I lost and lonely, fallen angels--exiled from a misty, long-forgotten Oober galaxy of stars caught in Neptune's tangled web wounded cruelly by the painful thrust of Mars tortured by the clever lies of Mercury shocked and nearly torn asunder by Vulcan's distant, raging thunder shattered by the lightning of the sudden, awful violence of Uranus crushed beneath the weight of stern, unyielding Saturn who lengthened every hour into a day... each day into a year each year....into millenniums of waiting scorched by the Sun's exploding bursts of pride as those wandering angels, stilled and helpless deep within us, cried still we fought on, in unrelenting fury striking blow for blow driven by the pounding drums of Jupiter's giant throbbing passions stumbling at the precipice of the Moon's enticing madness to fall, at last, in trembling fear before the ominous threat of Pluto's tomb-like silence consumed by inconsolable sadness and the bleakness of despair we bear... the wounds and scars of furious battle my Twin Self and I but now we walk in quiet peace...with all our scattered pieces whole together, hand-in-hand...full serpent circle back into the pyramid-shaped rainbow of tomorrow's brighter Eden crowned by gentle Venus with the Victory of Love that did not die, but has survived the night of selfish seeking to wait for morning's soft forgiveness and the dawn of understanding IP: Logged |
nattie33 unregistered
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posted June 28, 2008 06:21 PM
am i sure i want a relationship with my twin soul. the truth is i dont know. i think in my life the person who i believe to be my twin soul. it would have been better for me if i never met him. but i did. IP: Logged |
oneruledbymars Knowflake Posts: 944 From: South Carolina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 29, 2008 11:20 AM
Hi everyone. Interesting thread. I am a guy albeit gay, but still a guy, lol. I have met my twin soul, it has been a very interesting six months, as I have changed and grown alot and so has he. He is having it the worst, because we havent been together that often in our past lives, and apparently the last time, he was not very good to me and has alot of karma to work through. But when I look back on how much I have changed and how connected I have become to the universe as well as to my higher self. I am can only say that I am grateful to have met him. Whether I am walking by his side in a relationship or as a friend, doesnt really matter to me. As long as there is love between us, anything in life on earth is possible. My destiny will be realized this lifetime. And I know that partly it was because of him.------------------ Aries Sun Moon Sag Scorpio Rising IP: Logged |
Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 456 From: Mercury Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 29, 2008 01:30 PM
I believe in soulmates and I'm a guy. Twin flames? The jury is still out on that one for me but I'm leaning towards believeing.------------------ Virgo Asc & Mars Gemini Sun Libra Moon (conjunct Pluto 0º in 2nd house) Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 5656 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 29, 2008 03:00 PM
Another guy here.I'm against the theory of soulmates and twin souls. It sets up the person seeking such a connection for disappointment, because they tend to get some ideal of the perfect partner, and no one ever measures up to that standard. Lots of people actually start out with the wrong idea about what their perfect mate would be like, so chasing this "idea" becomes a really counterproductive practice. It's much better in my mind to give everyone the benefit of the doubt, and then be surprised years down the line when you realize that it worked out much better than you could have ever imagined originally. IP: Logged |
MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 1066 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 29, 2008 04:34 PM
Loving this thread and everyone's posts. I'm listening...
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MysticMelody Moderator Posts: 1066 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 29, 2008 04:36 PM
Nattie Everything will be ok. IP: Logged |
oneruledbymars Knowflake Posts: 944 From: South Carolina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 29, 2008 05:47 PM
Yeah Nattie, everything will be ok. Just breath and live, in that order,lol. And things will work out.Acoustic God- I think that you are right about people being set up with there ideals and being dissapointed when it is shattered. But does that really disprove the fact that there could be some soul out there that actually makes you better than you already are because the energy you share together was meant to create something beautiful, whether be just to bring more love into this world to share, lord knows that we can always use more of that. ------------------ Aries Sun Moon Sag Scorpio Rising IP: Logged |
Rob_W unregistered
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posted June 29, 2008 06:57 PM
I'm still looking and hoping to meet them, but no real sign so far this time around.IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 5656 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 29, 2008 08:06 PM
quote: But does that really disprove the fact that there could be some soul out there that actually makes you better than you already are because the energy you share together was meant to create something beautiful,
No, it doesn't disprove it. I think my theory leads you to finding someone you're actually compatible with. When you find someone you're actually compatible with, it becomes easy to let that beautiful energy flow. I think that noticing your soulmate is something done mostly after the fact, rather than before. When you've been with someone 20 years, and it's been mostly good, then it's likely that you're on to something. IP: Logged |
nattie33 unregistered
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posted June 29, 2008 09:10 PM
Thank you Mystic Melody The sould mate relationship just seems to fit into place. But in my case the connection was made way before i heard of such a thing as twin flames. IP: Logged |
venusdeindia unregistered
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posted June 30, 2008 04:46 AM
lovely posts IP: Logged |
oneruledbymars Knowflake Posts: 944 From: South Carolina Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 01, 2008 10:35 AM
Acoustic God- I totally understand that and it totally makes sense, your saying that after your relationship has stood the test of time that you are with your soulmate. But there is a chance that sometimes you can know from the beginning whether or not there is something deep or superficial in you connection with someone. Kind of like when you meet someone and you guys are bestfriends from the moment you say hello! lol IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 5656 From: Pleasanton, CA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 01, 2008 07:01 PM
quote: But there is a chance that sometimes you can know from the beginning whether or not there is something deep or superficial in you connection with someone. Kind of like when you meet someone and you guys are bestfriends from the moment you say hello! lol
Absolutely! The crux of my point is simply a request that people not limit themselves by overthinking what they want, because often times what you want (usually passion) isn't necessarily what you need (compatibility/the means of carrying out a long term relationship). I think that if a person is single, the best course is being open (and not expecting that they will be able to distinguish a soulmate without really giving that person a chance). IP: Logged |
Dee Moderator Posts: 1600 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 16, 2011 08:30 PM
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rajji Knowflake Posts: 1274 From: Registered: Jan 2011
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posted November 17, 2011 07:48 AM
Orbm If you are still around-I would like to truly believe in the heart of my hearts! and trust what has been advocated that- A Twin Flane connection can only be prsent between two opposite sexes. It should be noted that twin souls are the opposite gender due to the yin and yang of the twin soul bond. Each brings either a male or female energy. This factor is under a lot of controversy. I have often come across same-sex couples who insist they are twin souls. It is very likely they are close primary soulmates, but they are not twin souls. However two transexuals can have a twin soul connection. "We are often asked if the Twin Flame exists in a male to male or a female to female relationship. In our reality the answer to the question is ... No! A same sex relationship does not fulfil the fundamental premise of the Twin Flame as an exact equal and opposite intonation."
------------------ If you are, you breathe If you breathe, you talk If you talk, you ask If you ask, you think If you think, you search If you search, you experience If you experience, you learn If you learn, you grow If you grow, you wish If you wish, you find If you find, you doubt If you doubt, you question If you question, you understand If you understand, you know If you know, you want to know more And if you want to know more, You are alive-LIVING CURIOUS! IP: Logged |
Sublime Newflake Posts: 14 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 28, 2011 11:06 AM
Hello All,I have been lurking around for at least a year and enjoying your ideas and posts. This particular post is of great interest. I believe in soulmates and twin flames/souls. I am a woman. I must however respond to Rajii's post regarding same sex individuals. Rajii, do you believe that the body is a suit worn over the soul to protect it? Do you believe in reincarnation? If so, then you might agree that as an immortal, the soul selects it's journey and gender each time it reincarnates. The primary basis for gender is for procreation purposes. Secondary, to experience life from the perspective of a particular gender. Rajii, I believe the soul is androgynous because the Creator is androgynous. Every living thing holds within itself it's opposite. Example, all fetuses are female in the beginning of their development. At some point later in it's development it can develop into a male. This could explain why some individuals state that while they are male or female on the outside they feel like the opposite on the inside and decide to change their gender. Or perhaps the androgynous soul longs for or prefers the experience of one gender over another. My theory, based on these premises, is that the soul can experience the male and female energies and share those energies with another male or female whether same sex or opposite. I believe that a female can identify with her male energy and have a soul connection with another female who identifies with her female energy and vise versa. The twin flame/soul experience is a soul connection not an opposite sex connection. Hence, same sex individuals are capable of experiencing twin soul/flame relationships just as opposite sex indivduals. Just a thought...opposing views welcomed. IP: Logged |
anongrl10 Knowflake Posts: 1769 From: won't_disclose Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 28, 2011 05:35 PM
I agree with Sublime (and welcome! ). I'm a straight female and to me it makes perfect sense that the gender of the body has nothing to do with soul connections. As for yin and yang; this has been so misunderstood. They are complementary forces and exist in the same entity in different degrees. IP: Logged |