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Topic: Do I give A Cancer man a second chance?
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AriesLuv Knowflake Posts: 3 From: Sacramento CA Registered: May 2008
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posted July 01, 2008 07:53 PM
I was friends with a cancer man for about 8 months before we started to casually date for about 4 months...and 2 months of more frequent/serious dating...however he didn't want to commit (says still establishing himself in life, blah blah and also i think his ex came back into his life) anyway I basically ended it, we decided to just be friends...about two months have passed (during that time we did not see each other just talked on phone once or twice casually). About a week ago received a phone call from him...he wants to see me. I'm confused...he made it seem clear he did not see us very compatible for long term relationship and he knew I was very upset about the breakup. So, first instinct is that he wants to see me just to get into bed...but then again why would he try anything with me knowing I felt so strongly for him? I'm not sure what his intentions are...I'm at a point where with him I can take it or leave it...it was hard but I started to get over him...now this. Part of me wants to see him but the other part feels like he is just going to lead me on and then pull away again. What's going through his mind? Is it worth giving Cancer a second chance?IP: Logged |
cancersun_librarising Knowflake Posts: 1 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2008
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posted July 01, 2008 08:37 PM
Hi AriesLuv, I think life is too short, if you still feel something for him and you think something is there, I say go for it, if you don't feel for him anymore totally cut him out of your life so you don't have to be confused about it anymore (I know it sounds harsh, but it's effective). But since you posted, I think you still feel for him so maybe just see him and hear what he has to say.I'm seeing the aries guy I broke off a relationship with this weekend, I'm hoping for a reconciliation, I miss him so much, I broke it off with him cause of my own insecurity so I take full responsibility for that. Being a cancer I find it extremely hard to be friends and it will be the first time I'll be seeing him one on one in 2 months. Anyway I hope it goes well with you AriesLuv! IP: Logged | |