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Topic: Confussed by Scopian Man
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Claire007bear
Knowflake Posts: 3
From: Australia
Registered: Jul 2008
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posted July 05, 2008 03:52 AM
 
How does one tell if a Scorp is interested. I am Tauras female and I am incredibily drawn to a Scorpian man. I don't really know him however there seems to be this tension/connection. I cannot at all read him in terms of he appears to be very hot and cold. I have experienced the stare on a few occasions which takes my breath away. He on the other hand will not look at me at times, will actually move his head to not look at me like he is pretending I am not there. I know this is diliberate as when he wants to he can maintain eye contact (hence the stare). I know that I have caught his attention but cannot figure out if he likes me or hates me. Please help as I can be stubbon and at times dig in and ignore him right back - I really try not to but I get so frustrated with him. When I do, do this it does appear to bother him and he will either do one of those intense eye stare things or walk past and raise his eyebrows or wink or something. This drives me more crazey. He seems like a block of ice however I know as I can sense that there is fire in his belly. Please any advise as to get him to show me something so I can either get some guts to try and talk to him or if you think he is not interested then I will leave him be. Please Please help.
He seriously gives me butterflies. IP: Logged |
Peri
Moderator Posts: 2508
From: Kyiv, Ukraine
Registered: Dec 2003
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posted July 05, 2008 11:02 AM
hey Claire, welcome to LL  I know they can drive you mad with their stares and silence, they are good at that. Please don't give him your heart so easily, you don't know him at all yet. If I were you I would try and do exactly what he does: he ignores you? ignore him too...he smiles at you? smile at him too... try not to think too much (I know it can be extremely hard) try to get on with your life and keep your mind busy...cozz this can drive you insane...if he is really interested he will let you know no matter what...if he is just looking for mind games...well eventually you will know that too...if a scorpio guy decides that he likes you or dislikes you, your reactions and responses wont really influence how he feels, they are as stubborn as taureans are...so my only advice is prepare to be patient and don't let him rule your world...he knows what he is doing so sit back and wait for the situation to develop...and let it entertain you  Sun - Taurus
Moon - Sagittarius
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Scorp31
Knowflake Posts: 2
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Registered: Jun 2008
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posted July 05, 2008 04:33 PM
Well as a Scorp male (Libra rising, Capricorn moon) I can tell you that for me the whole eye starring/contact thing if you will, "is my way of getting into the others persons mind". Not so much to play mind games etc... But to try and devine where the person is coming from, e.g. are you really interested in me? If so ok let me see what I can pick up from your vibe so to speak. I mentally catalog little things about the other person, are the qualities I like there etc... For me once my curiosity is piqued, I tend to watch the person a little more without giving myself away and if eye contact happens will give a little smile then go back to the neutral corner. That whole eye contact back and forth thing may go on for a while it could include ignoring the other person just to see if she is really into me (that’s a little bit of game playing for you). But trust me if there were no interest at all on some level your Mr. Scorpio would not even bother to engaging you at all. Me thinks he just wants to make sure there is something there and also to build up some sensual tension. If possible try initiating a little light conversation the next time you see him and see where it goes. Just my 2 cents. IP: Logged | |
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