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JustAmanda
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posted July 13, 2008 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
I'm so sad today...I really don't like Sundays. They are the most depressing day of the week and it has nothing to do with the weekend ending or work resuming..I just get really depressed on Sundays.

Anyone else share this torture?

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bunnies
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posted July 13, 2008 06:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bunnies     Edit/Delete Message
I dreaded Sundays as a child. I hated that sombre religious overtone that seemed to say "No fun today ,it's Sunday"
And everything closed down.
And now we have a 24 hr society and I still think there is a weird vibe to the day.
The key is to do something and not slump around.
But if you are having a hard time or you have just broken up with someone it always feels ten times worse on a Sunday.
Why is that???

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Azalaksh
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posted July 13, 2008 07:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message
quote:
Anyone else share this torture?
Sometimes.....
Mostly it's depressing for me because I never seem to get done all the things that need to get done :-\ So when Sunday night comes to a close I can't get to sleep because I'm fretting about all that still needs to be dealt with and all the things I have to do, over the next week.....
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But if you are having a hard time or you have just broken up with someone it always feels ten times worse on a Sunday.
Why is that???
Maybe it's because for some cultures Sunday means "endings" - ie, ending of the week, a new week starts the next day. Being alone at an "ending" may lend a sense of abandonment to the day's passing.....

I'm sittin' in my room, starin' out the window
And wonderin' where you've gone
Thinking back on the happy hours just before the dawn
Outside the wind is blowin'
It seems to call your name again
Why have you gone

City streets and lonely highways
I travel now
My car is empty and the radio just seems to bring me down
I'm just tryin' to find me
A pretty smile that I can get into
It's true, I'm lost without you

Another lonely park, another Sunday
Why is it life turns out that way
Just when you think you got a good thing
It seems to slip away

It's warm outside, no clouds are in the sky
But I need myself a place to go and hide
I keep to myself
I don't want nobody else
To see me cryin' all those tears in my eyes

Another park, another Sunday
Why is it life turns out that way
Just when you think you got a good thing
It seems to slip away
Another park, another Sunday
It's dark and empty thanks to you
I got to get myself together
But it's hard to do

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JustAmanda
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posted July 13, 2008 11:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
Sunday was the day my Scorpion and I spent together...and a few nights as well.

So I guess it's a hard day and night to swallow...

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BlueTopaz124
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posted July 13, 2008 11:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueTopaz124     Edit/Delete Message
Aww JustAmanda...here's a hug.

Saturdays are my favorite day of the week (Sunday my least favorite) because I have the whole weekend ahead of me to do whatever I want to

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bunnies
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posted July 14, 2008 03:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bunnies     Edit/Delete Message
I may be alone in this one but I kinda like Mondays.
They're so...so.....FRESH!!!!!

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PureGem
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posted July 14, 2008 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PureGem     Edit/Delete Message
Amanda I'm with you.
It's probably not the 'day' itself but 'him'!

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koiflower
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posted July 15, 2008 02:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for koiflower     Edit/Delete Message
you are not Just Amanda - you are THE Amanda!!!! Breaking up is hard and esp. painful on those days that you spent with that someone.

It might be time to create/formulate YOUR Sunday. Make a plan and stick with it each Sunday - develop it as you go along!

Eg,

1. Sleep in to 9.30am
2. Cook your fav breakfast
3. Read the newspaper
4. Call a relative
5. Spend 45 minutes on housework yep - only 45
6. Have a long hot shower with your favourite shower creme
7. Dress up in your favourite jeans and t-shirt
8. Go to the markets with a friend or by yourself.
9. Buy yourself a really cool book/trinket/ice-cream/pot plant
10. Dream about your next update of ipod songs
11. Go home and spend hours and hours on Lindaland!!

Voila! The perfect day!!!

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Xena
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posted July 15, 2008 06:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Xena     Edit/Delete Message
I am s/e so every day is the same as far as I am concerned. I can pick any day to be depressed on LOL...

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JustAmanda
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posted July 15, 2008 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
You guys are the best! You always know how to make me feel better! Thank you!!!

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