posted August 16, 2008 05:23 AM         

I find myself with my cappie sun/Saggie moon and Asc/venus pisces lover becoming very soft and sensitive.

I am normally a very fiery Saggie sun/Leo moon/Cappie Asc/Libra Venus but with him, we have our fiery moments (normally work related where we are doing projects or bouncing around ideas) but at the same time, he is a softie underneath and I become more gentle with him.

is this my libra versus his pisces venus coming into play? But i seem to know intuitively when to be gentle and tone down my fire.

But i hope im not losing my fire and passion(which I love)....

posted August 17, 2008 06:28 AM         

Yes you're right, it's about the blending of elements together. I normally struggle with the pisces tone but I think in the love planets it can be lovely! Particularly as I have libra (quite intellectual) sign, it's good for me to feel soft a little. My venus in libra is also great to his saggie moon! I love it...but then you've got his poor pisces venus up against my fiery leo moon.

anyways, i love it when i'm with him, he makes me smile and happy and I think that's the most important thing :-)

posted August 31, 2008 10:46 AM         

I juts read Linda's chapter in love signs on libra and pisces...interesting stuff as I wanted to see how our venus energies would work.It doesn't seem the easiest combo.

But I think attraction wise, it helps that my Asc conjuncts his sun and vice versa. Also, my libra venus adores his saggie moon.

Actually, a little water isn't bad either...I have no water in my chart, its mostly fire, air and my cappie asc. (thank goodness for that keeping me grounded!) so its good for me to soften a little.

just some thoughts....

posted September 04, 2008 07:07 AM         

Thanks for your response. yeah i think its a good balance between fiery and earthy. I'm very thankful i have a cappie asc to stablise my fiery nature, and he is similar.

I have a cancer desc (that's what you look for in someone right??)

but yeah, I see my guy in about 2 weeks, he's been abroad for the past month.

posted September 15, 2008 10:31 AM         

just wanted to share :-)

posted September 24, 2008 05:49 AM         

Thanks for your wonderful post...wow we are quite similar :-) Yes, i find the cappy earth soothing to me. he has the fiery saggie moon to keep it exciting. Also I feel we have a lot to learn from one another, in terms of professionally and personally. But i have a cappy asc which helps I think.

But you are luckier with your venus in scorpio, that compliments well. Im not so sure my libra venus compliments his pisces one. But i know intuitevly that despite his saggie asc/moon he is a softie which always intrigues me. One of my best friends is a pisces and i've found that she has helped me soften and think a little (not always go charging around like I do... ) and ive learned to love and appreciate who I am, and who others are too.

posted September 28, 2008 06:14 AM         

okay am a little frustrated with my Cappie. To be more precise, his coldness sometimes.

Last night we went out a bunch of people ( alot of his guy friends)and he was a little cold (its more like he is hiding his emotions).

So i was like okay, he can be like if he wants the space. So i was my normal gregorious self and chatted to everyone, danced.

Later he warmed up and put his arm around me in the territorial way he does and i felt better.But yeah, my saggie nature gets confused by hiding emotions cause i communicate all that feel (leo moon/libra venus).

But there is something extra special about the way a cappie guy can look me in a coded soft way and i melt inside.

anyways, just my thoughts on a sunny sunday morning.

posted October 03, 2008 04:40 AM         

am now loving his romantic pisces venus! He took me to a beautiful italian restuarant..with candles and everything. he chose the venue and paid.

it's blissful. Makes my libra venus very happy that he takes me to beautiful places with good food!!!

He is currently assisting me with a project at work. I love the fact we can work together professionally but still have our own things going on.

Just to share,

posted October 05, 2008 09:51 AM         

am in shock....my cappie guy turns around to me last night and says he doesnt feel anything for me and isnt interested. He said it so matter of fact and cold. This is after a week of cooking for me and taking me to a lovely restaurant.

posted October 06, 2008 04:30 AM         

But i have to remember that i am worth more than this, and any guy that makes me feel insecure and unhappy isnt worth it. I deserve more...but my heart aches right now.

Sparkling

posted October 06, 2008 11:38 AM         

thanks for the support. yes, i am still in shock but am more angry now (fiery spirit coming out). At least i had kept my dignity in tact and didnt let him see me cry. It's his loss but i am terribly hurt by his behaviour. He was like two different people. One person when were were alone and confiding initmate thoughts to me, we got along amazingly well both professionally and personally. Its hard for me to be open and vulnerable.Yet at night, if a pretty girl walked by, he'd be flirting and this was not cool for me.

Maybe I had a lucky escape, i cant see how i can be friends with him; we have a good connection but i feel he may use all the good parts we have but i wouldnt really get anything from him.

posted November 09, 2008 11:27 AM         

interesting developments....

so i kept my distance from the Cappie, attempting to keep some boundaries. Then i needed some specific books that i needed for a meeting so asked to borrow them. He gladly obliged. I finish with them a few days later so text on a sunday afternoon when im in the office to finish up something and he says i can pop by that afternoon. So i go there and when he opens his door he has no shirt on! i didnt know where to look considering our conversation weeks earlier and he knew i was coming. he'd been studying and his room was tidy. So i just wanted to drop the books off and leave but he invites me in so i have to sit there while he is stil shirtless and isnt making a move to put some clothes on. Then his guy classmate drops by unexpectedly and then the cappie puts a shirt on! i left.

Then a week he texts me, he is trying to get my flatmate onto a day trip he is organising cause he knew she wanted to go...but the trip was full. But he text me to tell he was planning to hire another bus and to tell my flatmate. I found this strange as he has my flatmates email, so he has no need to tell me or go through me. It was a bit like, he wanted me to think of him as a nice guy. Then he bumps into me on a night out and im wearing my salsa dance dress and he tells me i look lovely but i am there with one of my close guy friends so we dont talk for long.

Hmm, i have a werid feeling...its like he is almost regretting being so harsh and cold cause ive withdrew really. even on a friendship level, i am a bit all business, not so open anymore.