posted August 25, 2008 08:39 PM
I noticed today that the day I met my SO chiron was exactly conjunct his natal chiron at 12 Aquarius 21. It was retrograde at the time. His chiron opposes his natal uranus, which is conjunct almost exactly my natal mars. My saturn conjuncts his chiron.His Chiron appears vitally important in our relationship. (Forms many t-squares in the synastry).
In our composite it is in aquarius, at the same degree and sign as my sun, and in the 3rd. It opposes uranus there. In the Davidson chart it's in the 3rd in pisces (the sign of my natal chiron in the 3rd), opposing pluto.
He's a scorpio (that should explain it, but I'll elaborate). He says I know him better than anyone in his life. He also says he tells me "almost everything." I think this chiron thing is part of what I don't know. Natally it's in his 4th - family wound. I know his bio father left the scene early with some kind of scene.
it's obvious our relationship is significant somehow. I've read all I can find about chiron in aquarius in the 4th - i.e., not fitting in or feeling at home anywhere, perhaps including home, and not being understood by family.
My question is how can I help??? What role can I serve in his healing process? I feel like these aspects are significant in our relationship and to understand my role for him I need more information. I really do try to respect his need for privacy (which hugely conflicts with my own insecurities - but that's another story entirely).
Has anyone encountered significant chiron aspects? How have they played out for you?? It's really difficult without all the information from hi to explain the "wound' but until he's ready to talk about it how can I help? Any thoughts appreciated.
Lindaland
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posted August 25, 2008 08:39 PM