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posted September 09, 2008 12:33 AM         

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fairly easy question: what does my chart say about what i need in a significant other?

i ALWAYS get conflicting reports. some have evaluated my chart and told me that i need space and others have told me that i need absolute control over my relationships and others have said that i need someone to control me at times, lol.

so, in one collective place, i'm just asking for everyone's thoughts on what my chart says about me in relationships. just out of curiousity.

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posted September 09, 2008 12:36 AM         

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posted September 10, 2008 07:12 PM         

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I'm not very firm on how that would be done but I would ask it aswell :P

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Sun: Pisces
Moon: Libra
Rising: Scorpio

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posted September 10, 2008 11:59 PM         

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i could be mistaken but start with a Cap rising, Aries sun, /Sco moon. I know it seems impossible to find just that but i believe it can be done.

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posted September 11, 2008 12:25 AM         

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I always hear that you first look to the Descendant (Aries), then the ruler of the descendant (Mars) which is in Pisces in the 5th house. So far you want an aggressive man's man who believes in fairy tale romance (Aries) and you want him to be deeply emotional and an enlightened dreamer (Pisces) and since it's in the 5th house (Leo-like house) you want romance romance romance, and might as well throw in that he likes kids.
Since you are a Cancer you want security, to create a home, and to be taken care of and to care for... your Scorp moon wants a deep soulful person and a deep soulful connection... and your Gem Merc and Venus want a mental connection.

The Gemini planets are square to your Mars so you have a little tension between your vision of the ideal man and your vision of your intellectual ideal. But squares are still connections... it just takes more open-mindedness in others' perspectives and what different and interesting mental ideas and styles you are willing to explore. I would guess that the Uranus in Sag that also connects to your Mars (another square) would make you willing to explore new ideas so there shouldn't be too much problem there.

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posted September 13, 2008 12:12 AM         

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thanks for the responses.

i feel lost right now about what i need. i know what i want... but what i want is sometimes what i don't need...

i'm only 20 so i suppose this is a phase. who knows what i'll figure out in the years to come.

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posted September 13, 2008 04:04 AM         

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Honestly, no one can "tell you" what kind of guy you need. Only you can find that out through trial and error.

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Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚
Gemini Sun 24˚
Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house)
Gemini Mercury 25˚
Cancer Venus 29˚
And yes, i'm a guy!

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posted September 13, 2008 05:35 AM         

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Wow, Mystic, I'm impressed with your interpretation. I don't have those placements, but I can relate to alot of what you said.

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