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Topic: Big fight
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kissher
Knowflake Posts: 26
From: US
Registered: Mar 2008
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posted September 25, 2008 01:32 AM
 
I am a Cancer involed with a Scorpio. We got into big fight today over the phone and I cried like a baby. My eyes are still so puffy. I'm disappointed in myself for displaying weakness, but I was so hurt. I can't believe he wasn't phased by my tears. He never apologized. He actually called back and acted like nothing! It made me upset all over again. He said "what is there left to say?" How about sorry, jerk! He says he was being truthful. Now I feel insecure and I want to run away and hide. The only thing that is keeping me from doing this is that he called me out on it. "You're going to be selfish and ignore me, then come and talk when you're ready."He said I have issues, I'm selfish, self-centered, narrow-minded, defensive ... I mean, he really called me out on ALL of my negative traits. Why does this person continue to pursue me? What does he even like about me? I think he is MEAN! Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Here is what I'm having a hard time with. He's joked before that he likes the arguments between us. Do Scorpio men like this type of behavior in relationships? Love-hate? Thank you for listening to my psycho story. IP: Logged |
writesomething
Moderator Posts: 2144
From: meet me in montauk
Registered: May 2006
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posted September 25, 2008 01:58 AM
scorpios are mean. theyre the "cruel to be kind" types.IP: Logged |
OrangeRedSun~Chelle
Knowflake Posts: 5
From: de kalb, il
Registered: Sep 2008
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posted September 25, 2008 04:09 AM
wow sweetie! others are a reflection of yourself... or in this case what he "called u out on" sounds more like what he sees in himself! to me it sounds like he was being self centered, and selfish, etc. and even more than that-turns it around on you by 'pointing out' that he can anticipate your reactions! well- who is the one who called as if nothing happend? he set you up for a certain behavior or reaction to his actions and again- turned it around on you.i dont want to be negative or give u bad ideas and i dont know how often the 2 of u fight-- but just make sure he isnt making a habit of manipulating and toying with your emotions (cancer, honey!-you do that enough to yourself!).
and thats coming not from the fact that ur a soft/emotional cancer and hes a quick-to-sting scorpio... but simply from the fact that i dated a manipulitive man for yrs, and sadly just didnt realize it till i had been spiritually and emotionally beaten down.
hope for your sake its just simply a fight.. and some passing words in the heat of the moment.  have faith!
the Czechs have a saying: "wine is for drinking and words are for saying."
addmittingly im sure Linda may not approve of such a cop-out.. but the saying does make a point.
i wish you all the best. let it go and set aside your analysis of the situation for now, maybe till tomorrow- and as linda says maybe you'll see it differently in the morning light!
love be in your heart!
~Chelle
ps- if he is doing these things on purpose consciously or subconsciously- or you truely suspect that he does- then go ahead and call him out on it!!- make him put it out in the open.. why does he feel the need to do this?? ------------------
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