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Topic: virgo just crushed aries heart...
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etoile03
Knowflake Posts: 68
From: Allier, France
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 06:49 AM
 
well it happened, mr virgo broke the news to me that in his words...
"as you see i have put some space between us. everything has been so quick between us and thats made me scared. I dont want to hurt you because you are so kind with me and as well you're not well at the moment (signed off work ill)
i dont want you to waste time with me who doesnt know what he wants. im not ready for the moment to give any more. Im sorry to do this but i prefer to say it now rather than to hide it."so there you go, it hurts soooo much.... from i love you so deeply to this in 4 days... virgo men expert at U turns....????? IP: Logged |
wheelsofcheese
Knowflake Posts: 1027
From: UK
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted September 25, 2008 07:28 AM
He sounds scared to me. It sounds like you have also had a lot on your plate if you have not been well, perhaps he does love you but feels that he might not be helping you at the moment. In any case he needs some space to sort out his feelings. I think you should talk to him if you can. Try to understand his reasons and be comapssionate. He may really love you but is scared. Those don't sound like the words of a horrible man. Don't lose faith.  IP: Logged |
broken dream
Knowflake Posts: 8
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Registered: Sep 2008
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posted September 25, 2008 09:27 AM
I would give him some space maybe a day or two so that you both can sort out your feelings. I dont believe that he intened to hurt you. I think he was trying to save you alot of hurt in the future. Just give it some time then try to talk to him so that you can try to understand where hes coming from. Good Luck!------------------
I am a thousand shooting stars going to waste in his arms i will always be his wish but never his truth! IP: Logged |
etoile03
Knowflake Posts: 68
From: Allier, France
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 09:43 AM
he is a really nice man, thats what hurts so much, we get/got on so so well.Things did move quick between us admittedly, but it was not a case of me chasing him for a declaration of love, he gave it first and willingly, it does really seem as though hes just done a u turn... our astro stuff is great between us from what i have researched, a real karmic type thing... i was wondering about sending him a mail basically to say take your time im not going anywhere sort of thing, but i dont know if i could cope with a straight out rejection to that... melanie... IP: Logged |
wheelsofcheese
Knowflake Posts: 1027
From: UK
Registered: Jan 2008
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posted September 25, 2008 09:55 AM
I think you have to give him a little time. A little time to go "D'oh! What have I done?" if necessary. This might not happen, so you have to be prepared for that. Approach him as a friend. Leave it up to him to explain himself, I'm afraid all you can do is listen right now. Don't close any doors though, it might still be ok, it might not. Virgo men don't generally act out of spite or with the intent of mind-games. But he may well feel he has bitten off more than he can chew (they are the natural bachelors of the zodiac) and if that's the case then you will have to accept it. I know you're in turmoil today as it's so new but please try to relax and tell yourself, if it's not right for him then that means it's not right for you. IP: Logged |
etoile03
Knowflake Posts: 68
From: Allier, France
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted September 25, 2008 10:05 AM
of course youre right wheels, i want him to be happy above all else, so i will give him his time, i just keep everything crossed that he decides he really does want me...IP: Logged |
bunnies
Knowflake Posts: 396
From: U.K
Registered: Mar 2007
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posted September 26, 2008 05:15 AM
petit etoile.
Calm down cherie. There is nothing more attractive to a man, than a woman who does not chase.
Leave him alone completely for a while.
His brain will work like this."Oh I do feel better now that is off my chest"
"It was all for the best"
"I expect she will contact me and I will have to explain myself all over again" Fast forward 2 days. "Mmm I thought she would have at least texted me. How strange"
"She looked like the type who would want an explanation"
"But of course I did make myself clear....but still.... 2 days later "Why hasn't she called? I thought we had something special.
Who the hell does she think she is? Did SHE really want to dump me??? I'll give her 2 more days then I will think up an excuse to ring.
I know (lightbulb over brain!!) I will call and ask her about her health. Hello etoile. I am just calling to see if you are any better. (thinks) Seriously lady you are one cool pece of work) Result!
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etoile03
Knowflake Posts: 68
From: Allier, France
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted September 26, 2008 06:58 AM
love it bunnies!!!ill try it, in fact i had two texts from him last night... one to tell me he was going to bed and wishing me a good sleep with kisses (usual thing everyday since we got together) the second to say he hopes im feeling a bit better health wise as he doesnt like to know that im not well and signed off big tender kisses This M. virgo is one weird bloke arrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggggghhhhhhhh "take another little piece of my heart now baby, break it break another little bit of my heart......" IP: Logged |
Lucia23
Knowflake Posts: 471
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Registered: Feb 2007
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posted September 28, 2008 04:47 AM
Bunnies has it absolutely right. That's your best shot at having him come around.IP: Logged |
etoile03
Knowflake Posts: 68
From: Allier, France
Registered: Jul 2007
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posted October 01, 2008 03:06 AM
just an update...we have had a bit of contact and I think with time it *might* me ok, he is a confused man at the moment, he knows what we had is good, i just have to keep faith that he might come back for good... mel IP: Logged |
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