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From: jamestown,ca,usa
Registered: Sep 2008

posted September 18, 2008 11:02 PM         

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I've been dating this wonderful Scorpio guy for about five or six months.I'm a scorpio as well so the whole relationship is pretty charged with sparks. Its been a pretty dramatic ride ever since it first started.
We met over myspace (as lame as that sounds) I didn't take him very seriously because I didn't want any kind of relationship. I had just ended a 14 month long, serous relationship with a virgo man.
Needless to say he charmed me. We fell for each other pretty fast. Never bother to meet because I was always busy and he lived about an hour and a half away. Although throughout our phone courtship he was always warning me "not to be to charming or sweet because he would fall to hard or to fast" Yeah I know what your thinking but it honestly wasn't a line.
Late april he came to my town wit ha friend and they rented a hotel. The lobby was the setting of our first face to face meeting. I would like to say it was love at first sight. But it was much more of a fear at first sight.
He completely charmed me, although I tried to keep a straight cool face, I couldn't help but shaking inside it was if I knew that from now on he would have more control over my heart then I ever would.
We ended up sleeping together the second day he was in town. Which may be looked down upon but we are both extremely sexual creatures and it was (as strange as this sounds)easier to open up after.
We grew closer and closer from that point on but three months later, he called me saying he needed to end things.
He told me he was becoming far to attached to me, and he knew it would only end badly so it would be easier ending it now.
He did it so completely out of the blue that I didn't know what hit me. I was heartbroken needless to say.
Fast foreword through a month of rebounds, tears and bad chick flicks and one day he emailed me saying he was wrong. He loved me and he had known for a while but he couldn't bring himself to tell me because he knew from the first moment he told me it was over that it was a mistake.
We have been back together since then. A few of my friends think he is just going to break my heart again, and for a while I was waiting for the day he would call and say he didn't want me anymore.
Since then though I've trusted him again, and things have only gotten better.
But in a few years I'll be moving out of the state. And I wonder what I'll do about this relationship. I know I can't plan ahead, but (and I know I'm being extremely stereotypical to horoscopes) the only kind of relationships I've heard about between Scorpios are short term heated ones mostly based on lust. Can Scorpios stay together for the long run?

I'm asking this more out of curiosity because I find it so interesting that my feelings have only grown stronger for my scorpion over time.

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posted September 18, 2008 11:16 PM         

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post this in the astrology section, you'll get more responses there

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From: jamestown,ca,usa
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posted September 19, 2008 12:11 AM         

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thanks for the suggestion!

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posted September 19, 2008 03:10 AM         

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It's either heaven or hell. I dated one briefly, but the relationship was so short I can't put it in either category. We were very much into each other but I knew deep inside we were both cautious. The relationship broke down because of a power struggle from the get go. We didn't survive our first fight And no one wanted to be the first one to surrender. But that was before I learned astrology. If I knew then what I know now, I would have stayed around longer. I guess it helps a lot when you both know who/what you are.

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posted September 19, 2008 07:01 PM         

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Post this in Astrology and also Soul Unions!

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