posted November 18, 2008 09:59 PM         

So here goes...

Does this make sense? It seems Mars counteracts the Venus here in both our signs...
I don't have my scorpio's birth time so I used the default.

Here's his....
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Mars in Cancer - Venus in Sagittarius
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With Mars in Cancer you have a sensitive and moody sexual energy. Your need for emotional connection must be satisfied in order for you to fully enjoy physical sex. In fact, you are likely to become emotionally attached to anyone you sleep with. It's difficult for you to separate love and sex since they are, for your sign anyway, two sides of the same coin. You have a primal need to nurture and protect both yourself and those you love. This can make Mars in Cancer a sign that becomes too self protective and even passive aggressive in the pursuit of desires. Mixed signals are likely from this sign. When you are in pursuit of your desires however, you're likely to be very romantic.

If Venus is in the sign Sagittarius then you love with an adventurous spirit and searching mind. You need freedom in love, that's for certain. Any forced commitment or overbearing lover is likely to send you running for the hills. But at the same time, if a romantic partner can engage your higher mind and click with your ideals and beliefs then you might never get that itch to escape. Then you know you've found a soul mate. Venus in Sagittarius attracts others easily through a fun loving personality and infectious sense of optimism and idealism. Venus in Sagittarius will need a sense of humor in love and may tire easily if romance or sex becomes too predictable.

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My placements follow:
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Mars in Gemini - Venus in Pisces

With Mars in Gemini you have a great energy for communication. This power in your words is most assertively used in matters of love and sexual gratification. You have very little problem verbalizing your needs in sex or telling a partner that you want to try something new. Mars in Gemini does become bored quite easily and since this is the planet of action in restless sign romantic pursuits should always have a fresh trick up their sleeve if your desire is expected to last long. Mars in Gemini has a strong intellectual drive so mental pleasure can sometimes be more important than sex. In love, some good pillow talk will be the biggest turn on for this sign.

If Venus is in the sign Pisces then you need to transcend the boundaries of physical love and completely surrender your body and soul to romance. You attract others easily with your compassionate and forgiving ways however this sensitivity does make you vulnerable to being easily taken advantage of. Venus in Pisces can confuse sex with love and expect impossible ideals from romance. It's so easy for you to lose your breath and get carried away with a dreamy enchanted world you've created. You may fall in love with someone who another sign would quickly discard. Venus in Pisces is capable of seeing the potential for love in anyone. If someone understands your imaginative, dreamy tendencies and can respect your need to escape reality without using you, then you've found true romance!

posted November 19, 2008 12:33 PM         

his mars and my venus, (Cancer & Pisces)

and my mars and his venus (Gemini & Sag)

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posted November 21, 2008 08:30 PM         

Has this topic (Mars & Venus relationships) been posted before?

posted November 21, 2008 09:09 PM         

I saw your other thread a few days ago and it looked like you had some replies there so I didn't bother adding my limited knowledge on the subject to this one.

You can Google "Venus in Pisces" and read that and then Google "Mars in Cancer" and read that (I read the interpretations from a lot of sites not just one to make sure) and you can Google any astro sight and look at how the Sun signs interact with each other (you know, it says put your sign here and see if you are compatible) and apply that to your knowledge of what Mars stands for and what Venus stands for ... and you can Google Mars Trine Venus and further your understanding...

It just takes a lot of work and it's almost giving me a headache just thinking about it. You have to be deep in your obsession over a person to take the time to look up everything... but that's the funnest way to learn astrology in this Libra's opinion.

http://www.cafeastrology.com/synastry.html

http://www.falconastrology.com/astro_compatibility.htm

I also put a really cool beginners link in Know Two Are Alike in the Newbie Party thread. I think it's called Compatibility 101 or something.

posted November 23, 2008 11:29 PM         

I will look up what you said and go read the "101" course your posted.

Things are going good with me and my scorpio. I'm learning so much and he is too, and it's funny, I really believe it's all about whether two people really want to be together. If that is so, then you can find out the "whys" or "wherefores" of what makes them want to stay together. From there you can develop further in understanding your differences as well as similarities. Then you can value what you both bring to the relationship and want to keep it.