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Topic: Marriage and/or Love
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CrabbyFish
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From: Stranger In A Strange Land (Eugene, OR) http://www.binky.freelife.com
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted December 10, 2008 05:17 AM
 
I have posted a few questions around about this particular synastry chart.....but all I reaaly want to know is this....Can anyone tell me if this relationship shows signs of REAL love...A romantic union...marriage is secondary to me..but I wonder about that too. It seems there are some super aspects and some reaaly bad ones...not much in between. Should I walk away from the prospect? Or shud I keep some faith? Or is it just a strong physical attraction and fun times? IP: Logged |
good girl
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posted December 10, 2008 01:01 PM
Hi CrabbyFish! I think you posted questions somewhere else mentioning something like his sun, moon, venus conjunct Asc, and later said your moon conjunct his Asc.
I don't know the rest of the carts, or what the Ascendants are but I would say these are great indicators or real love, because they involve the luminaries. But if your venus' and mars are in any kind of connection between the charts OMG! you are so lucky!IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted December 10, 2008 01:05 PM
you forgot to post the chart Crabby 
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CrabbyFish
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From: Stranger In A Strange Land (Eugene, OR) http://www.binky.freelife.com
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted December 10, 2008 02:27 PM
OOps...Thanks Mystic! LolHE: April 2, 1965 4:18 AM Oakland, CA ME: July 1, 1972 1:10 AM Iowa City, IA Thnk U! IP: Logged |
CrabbyFish
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posted December 10, 2008 02:29 PM
Goodgirl...There is possibility with all those conjunctions to the ascendant that it is the physicality he's atracted to, right? I mean...anyone else with Aries rising will have the same conjunctions with him probably. Maybe not to the exact degree. IP: Logged |
CrabbyFish
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posted December 10, 2008 02:36 PM
I erad something about Venus being the 12 th house....I think this part is driving me nuts! I dont know where I stand...its not an Open affair....is he seeing other women? He has lots of freinds that are girls and lots of girls that like him...but he said Im the only one hes had sex with in 2 years...do I beleive him? I want to , but I can't SEEm to believe him. It cud be my jealous Aries Rising...or this damn Sun and Moon in 12th house. I wud love anyone to look at the whole thing..somone who is skilled in reading a chart as a whole...synthesise it and give me their take. Thank u so much in advance. IP: Logged |
CrabbyFish
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From: Stranger In A Strange Land (Eugene, OR) http://www.binky.freelife.com
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posted December 10, 2008 03:16 PM
Oh...I forgot to add...for various reasons we only see eachother about once a month...since August. We were talking once about relationships and he said to me..."obviously...I'm not the marrying type" Im not sure what that even means axactly. Im such a non-conformist when it comes to the institution of marriage that I can only see that to mean that he's unfaithful. I mean..I dont know what the "marrying type" IS! The traditional routines of marriage dont appeal to me. LOVE and COMMITTMENT matter to me. I love freedom...but I love committment just as much. Thats not too much to ask is it? LOL Anyway...I thought I shud mention that he said that. IP: Logged |
CrabbyFish
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From: Stranger In A Strange Land (Eugene, OR) http://www.binky.freelife.com
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted December 10, 2008 04:49 PM
Hey Mystic...I just read thios of yours in another thread...Thanks. Im still curious about the chart, tho. But this thread was AWESOME! Tahnk U 4 posting it!************************************* Chapter 1
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Asking You Out because if he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out
men find it very satisfying to get what they want
if a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons, needs to take things slow, he will let you know immediately. He won't keep you guessing because he'll want to make sure you don't get frustrated and go away.
don't let him trick you into asking you out
men, for most part, like to pursue women
an excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of "ruining the friendship."
you are good enough to be asked out.
Chapter 2
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Calling You
men know how to use the phone
when you like someone, they just don't slip your mind
you know they mean it when they actually do what they said they were going to do
men are never too busy to get what they want
if he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind
if he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings and needs
you deserve a ******* phone call Chapter 3
He's Just Not That Into You Is He's Not Dating You "hanging out" is not dating
a man who's really into you is going to want you all to himself
better than nothing is not good enough for you!
if you don't know where the relationship is going, it's okay to pull over and ask
there's a guy out there who will want to tell everyone he's your boyfriend
Chapter 4
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Having Sex With You
when men like you, they want to touch you, always
if a man is not trying to undress you, he's just not that into you
if you're tempted to spend countless nights just cuddling with someone, buy a puppy
there's someone out there that does want to have sex with you, hot stuff Chapter 5
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Having Sex With Someone Else there's never going to be a good excuse for cheating
cheating doesn't just "happen". It was planned and executed with the full knowledge that it could end your relationship
cheating is a complete betrayal of trust
100% of guys polled said that they have never accidentally slept with anyone
Chapter 6
He's Just Not That Into You If He Only Wants To See You When He's Drunk
if he likes you, he'll want to see you when his judgment isn't impaired
it doesn't count unless he says it when he's sober
drinking and drug use are not a path to one's innermost feelings
you deserve to be with someone who doesn't have to get loaded to be around you
Chapter 7
He's Just Not That Into You If He Doesn't Want To Marry You
love cures commitment phobia
don't spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you
if you don't feel like you're rushing, why are you waiting?
there's a guy out there who wants to marry you
Chapter 8
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Breaking Up With You
"i don't want to go out with you" means just that
always be classy. Never be crazy
a breakup is a definitive action, not a democratic one
breakup sex means you're still broken up
cut him off. Let him miss you
Chapter 9
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Disapppeared On You
sometimes you have to get closure all by yourself
there's nothing worse than hving no answer. No answer is your answer.
don't give him the chance to reject you again
there's no mystery-he's gone and he wasn't good enough for you
Chapter 10
He's Just Not That Into You If He's Married (And Other Insane Variations Of Being Unavailable)
if you're not able to love fully, it's not really love
he's married
unless he's all yours, he's still hers
don't be that girl
Chapter 11
He's Just Not That Into You If He's A Selfish Jerk, A Bully, Or A Really Big Freak
if you really love someone, you want to do things to make that person happy
you are the catch
life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with He doesnt call....he "hangs out with me"....and said hes not the marrying type. **** Him! LOL. Thats different from what he said in the beginning! IP: Logged |
CrabbyFish
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From: Stranger In A Strange Land (Eugene, OR) http://www.binky.freelife.com
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted December 10, 2008 05:11 PM
I guess Im wondering what made our "togetherness" so one-sided. He doesnt seem very into me. He did at first. I guess its those Uranus vibes. Just to let you know too...he travels alot...like semi-homelss...i dont consider him homeless...but he pretty much lives out of his truck cuz he has lots of freedom that way and he's a musician...a drummer. And for myself...ever since weve known eachother...im semi-homeless too...staying with freinds until i secure a house and my 3 children staying @ their dad's. In all fairness...I did tell him my life was topsy-turvy when we met...and to call me at a later time to go fishing or whatever ( hes crazy about fishing) But...the topsy turvy didnt end in a month...hasnt quite ended yet...but will soon. I just add that becayse i think it might be an expression of the Uranian energy in the chart...just for anyone's curiosity and reference.IP: Logged |
CrabbyFish
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From: Stranger In A Strange Land (Eugene, OR) http://www.binky.freelife.com
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted December 10, 2008 05:15 PM
I just ffelt that this was a potentially important relationship to me. I guess he didnt feel the same. Or at least it died off. I guess important doesnt have to mean that its long-term, huh?  oh well. C'est la vie!IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted December 10, 2008 09:59 PM
Crabby, here is the link that has all the links you need to learn how to paste the picture of the chart here. It takes an hour or so and you will have to create an account at astro.com as the first step. Once you get the pic up you will get more responses. I am soooo sleepy. I didn't read everything you wrote but I see you found the "not into you" stuff.  hehe Just know that the info there is highly controversial and highly debated so don't take it as absolute truth. I do think there is some worthwhile info there to consider though.
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CrabbyFish
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Registered: Jan 2007
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posted December 10, 2008 10:23 PM
Ok Mystic...will do! I'll figure out how to paste the charts...or at least I can give you a link. Sweet DreamsIP: Logged |
CrabbyFish
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From: Stranger In A Strange Land (Eugene, OR) http://www.binky.freelife.com
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted December 10, 2008 10:27 PM
And THANK U Mystic... http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_61gw_05_11_s_murphy_crabbyfish_he.12367.16431.gif&res=100&va=&cid=5hkfilejioQgk-u1194119728 http://www.astro.com/tmpd/c5hkfilejioQgk-u1194119728/astro_61gw_05_11_s_murphy_crabbyfish_he.12412.16824.pdf
HOPE THAT WORKS! If not Ill be posting the charts soon! Hehe
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CrabbyFish
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From: Stranger In A Strange Land (Eugene, OR) http://www.binky.freelife.com
Registered: Jan 2007
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posted December 11, 2008 03:51 AM
BTW...no need to really read thru all the other posts since u last replied. Just the first couple. My first post is still the one that applies to this thread...is there an indication of REAL love...or is it just a physical attraction on his part.... just casual..and good times. goodgirl mentioned that just by knowing all his personal planets exept mars conjoin my ascendant...and my moon conjoining his less than one degree (his also)....that it indicates real love. but this could just be attraction to my physicality...Right? Anyway...there r the charts. I am so greatful for any input. IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted December 11, 2008 09:28 AM
The links came up with error messages. I'm not sure the links are the best way anyway... I often read people telling other people they should not use links because then other people can log into their account. The thread I gave you give instructions on how to save the picture to your computer and then use Photobucket to "host" your picture and then post it here as an image. It is the best way. I never post my charts because it's all too much trouble. And because I am a little secretive with my exact details.Good luck... yeah, the AC stuff seems to be connected with image but that's always nice for attraction. A good connection from his Sun to your moon will create a deep trusting friendship love. That's what Heart-Shaped-Cross and I have and I love him as much as a brother. IP: Logged |
CrabbyFish
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From: Stranger In A Strange Land (Eugene, OR) http://www.binky.freelife.com
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posted December 11, 2008 04:23 PM
Hmmmm...what thread? I saw astro.com. Is that the place that will teach me?IP: Logged |
CrabbyFish
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posted December 11, 2008 09:54 PM
Ok Mystic...here goes....[img]http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_61gw_05_11_s_murphy_crabbyfish_he.10429.10080.gif&res=100&va=&cid=5hkfilejioQgk-u1194119728 [/img] IP: Logged |
CrabbyFish
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posted December 11, 2008 10:01 PM
Again.......
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CrabbyFish
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posted December 11, 2008 10:02 PM
What happened?IP: Logged |
CrabbyFish
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posted December 11, 2008 10:05 PM
[img]C:\Documents and Settings\D Gorsuch\Desktop\Lindaland.htm[/img]IP: Logged |
CrabbyFish
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posted December 11, 2008 10:06 PM
Can the noderater please delete that? And I give up...i need better instructions. this doesnt work [img] [/img]IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted December 11, 2008 11:32 PM
Oh sheesh, I didn't even post the link. I tell you I was TIRED. Way tired. Ok, here it is this time!!!
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum23/HTML/000006.html and here's the "detailed instructions" thread that is a few posts down on the above link:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum7/HTML/009076.html
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CrabbyFish
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posted December 13, 2008 02:40 AM
Hey Mystic...look what I can do... 
Thanks So Much! IP: Logged |
CrabbyFish
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posted December 13, 2008 03:10 AM
  
I found this cool tool as well to share with anyone: http://www.noendpress.com/pvachier/midpoints/index.php
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CrabbyFish
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posted December 13, 2008 03:22 AM
I think it was you who asvised me of this, Mystic, I cant remeber. But since Neptune and Mars figure so strongly in the horoscope...it's safe to give the maximum orb of influence when they touch the personal planets...right?IP: Logged |
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