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Lucia23
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posted January 25, 2009 07:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
I'm learning a lot about Leo woman/Scorpio man relationships and communication differences lately, so I thought I'd share some of the things I've experienced and come to realize.

Scorpio tests: When the Scorpio man is testing the Leo woman to make sure he can trust her to be loyal and true and not hurt him, sometimes it seems to her like he's playing games...like, foreplay games, or power games, or a sparring match. These tests are not games!!! If she doesn't fight/spar/play back in self-defense, and instead stays sweet, honest, open-hearted, loyal, and true, he will reward her by opening up.

Sex vibes: A Scorpio man mates by luring his victim, I'm sorry, I mean, his woman, toward him with intense magnetic rays. I have learned that it doesn't matter what the woman says or does, even if her actions include touching him or saying "I want you"...it's all about the vibe she's sending out herself, from her own chest.

So for example, if I'm sitting next to a Gemini man I'm attracted to, and I'm feeling nervous and freaked out, but attracted, and I touch the Gemini's knee and say, "You're cute," the Gem is like, "Yay! The Leo wants me,' and he lunges in for a kiss.

Same scenario with the Scorpio, and he reads the nervous and freaked out feeling instead of my words or actions, and feels rejected becuase I'm scared to give myself to him completely.

The reverse is true, too. I can be saying something off-putting to the Scorpio, and my body language can be sexless and hands-off, and if I'm SECRETLY feeling mutually attracted with him, all down my torso, he KNOWS that, and he just fixes me with that look, and he's so happy. It's really hard hard hard for Leo women, because many of us--me definitely!--need to be adored BEFORE we feel safe enough to open up in that deep and intense a way sexually. And the Scorpio needs to feel that we are open to his vibes BEFORE he feels safe enough to nakedly love and trusts us! Yikes, it can be a nasty bind.

Leos show our love by choosing a man, and treating him so differently than our acolytes or our entourage or our groupies, and being proud to have him on an arm. We open up to lots of people...not everyone, but we are pretty honest sorts, and many of us are pretty simple, even ones like me with a packed 8th house and watery chart who are bright. I ultimately just want/love typical Leo/5th house things--romance, creativity, true love, fun. We show our love by spending time with the man, letting him into our hearts and beds and lives and friendships.

A Scorpio man shows his love by TRUSTING you and opening up to you and letting you see all the gooey innards under his carapace. When one opens up to you at that deep a level, when he trusts you enough not only to let himself love you but to let you know he loves you, this man is soooo vulnerable. One little poke at the innards, and he dies.

If you poke a Scorpion, he stings. If you jostle him by accident, he stings. When he stings, he hurts himself as well as you. This is sooo hard for the Leo lady. Curiosity killed the cat, after all. When we see a beautiful scarab or other shiny bug, our first impulse is to bat it around between our claws. Not because we wish it harm, but for the opposite reason--BECAUSE we like it! Because it's a magnificent creature that draws our attention and fascination, and because we love to play.

I am beginning to think that Leo/Scorpio relationships might be a very interesting learning experience for both parties.

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Xena
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posted January 26, 2009 10:50 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Well, hm, yes... it's worth the experience, if only because you may never want to repeat it afterwards...

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downtomars
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posted June 30, 2009 10:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message
My thoughts exactly Xena!

I'm a Leo woman (Libra moon, Aquarius rising) and I have no time or patience for games or tests. Regarding Scorpio man as the song goes, "Never going back again"!

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Lucia23
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posted June 30, 2009 12:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Yep, I'm hoping the next guy I fall for is a nice Sag and I don't learn anything from him except how much fun it is to have multiple orgasms twice a day while other people are at work.

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aerialcircus
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posted June 30, 2009 04:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for aerialcircus     Edit/Delete Message
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Yep, I'm hoping the next guy I fall for is a nice Sag and I don't learn anything from him except how much fun it is to have multiple orgasms twice a day while other people are at work.

Lucia, I know a whole handful of Sag's that would LOVE to help you out with this, haha.

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Lucia23
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posted June 30, 2009 08:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lucia23     Edit/Delete Message
Seriously!! Why don't I know any Sags right now??

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