posted March 18, 2009 01:34 AM         

I am a male:

14th July 1967

7:30 am

Banghazi, Libya

She is:

20th July 1985

7:15 pm

Karachi, Pakistan

We are soul-mates. We have a strong connection.

Our Plutos and Venuses are in in square and sextile aspects. It means that we are soulmates but we need to be good to each other two and use the power positively, right?

Please shed some light on our profiles

posted March 18, 2009 06:25 AM         

So much for her love...

Telepathy do exists between us too (Moon sextile her Uranus) (Venus trine her Neptune)

Linda said that Pluto/Venus contacts indicate soul mates. There is no power play on my side. She does not listen easily, in some matters, but she does that with others too . Others call her "thick head"

posted March 19, 2009 04:27 AM         

My Jupiter is opposite to her Jupiter but it is sextile to my Moon and my Moon is trine to her Jupiter.

posted March 19, 2009 06:49 AM         

No, Venus/Pluto is not automatically a soulmate. Pluto is a generational planet. Everyone has the same Pluto sign for a long time - the odds of Pluto and someone's Venus making an aspect is high, so it's not an automatic 'guarantee' (and there are none for that matter). I've had plenty of Pluto/Venus contact (in fact, you and I do, very tightly in synastry when I look at the degrees! That should tell you something - there are no guarantees)

Look at her chart alone......is there a problem right now? What do you want to know?

Moon/Uranus in her chart? She's her own person. You will never talk her into doing anything - she's very independent. In some ways you need a close, cozy relationship....Moon in aspect with your Saturn shows you like a woman who holds close and doesn't let go. Good luck with her, because she's not like that
She'll challenge that in you - that was why I said be careful of power plays. You guys are able to change each other at a very high price. Don't do it. Just accept.

posted March 19, 2009 07:52 AM         

I don't want to change her. I love the way she is

She does love me strongly... I have give you all the good aspects above. You know that love does things wondrfully. There is unknown mystery and aura. Our love is special. Her female cousins and her 2 of her sisters likes me and wants us to be together. They pray for us too.

Problem is some folks belonging to her relatives ie like her one of her paternal aunt (Kamo) and her "agent", son of elder paternal aunt, ie girl's cousin... They have got our matter into troubled waters. It was her elder sister who has got everyone in girl's family agree and say "Yes" to our getting married but suddenly this cousin got all "worried up" and came visiting me and said many bad things about me and the girl's father(who is over anxoius) and brother and her paternal uncles step back. This plan was fully backed by her aunt Kamo.

Now the family is going towards a "No" second time.

What happened:

30 October 2008 = "No"

10 February 2009 = "Yes"

12-13 February = "Cousin/ aunt starting show strong reactions"

25 Feb = "family meeting and a 'No'". But I am not officially informed.

Now I want to proceed in such a manner that we may get together.

Venus-Pluto do give us a chance to be soulmates, though

Please tell what you can in this regard so that we may become one.

Venus will be direct on 17th April and conjuct Mars in the coming days and they will be close throughout May- June and conjuct in June again...

posted March 20, 2009 04:07 AM         

The on morning 26th 5:38 am... She said that I cannot marry you. Do you know how much it hurts. WHen I am true to her, I love her and she loves me...

I prayed and tried and waited... On 3rd She called me.

That test was over. Do you know that Allah (God) test us?

Now it is to go for getting married to her.

posted March 20, 2009 07:34 AM         

I don't know how it will affect him. Rising sign at the time is almost same as my natal. Transist Venus/9th and Transist Pluto/5th trine it. They aspect 7th house too.

posted March 25, 2009 06:25 AM         

I am posting reply here to emma's post March 29, 2009 01:46 PM . Just can edit but not add reply...

emma_duncan,

Thank you very much. Your advice is taken well. No more sms to her father. Met him on 20th April outside a masjid for a few minutes. It was okay.

Should I meet him more often? So that we can be friends?

emma are you saying that she does love me much?

what can I do to increase her love for me?

We talk on phone as meeting her is not feasible.

I meet her at her backdoor for a few minutes sometimes. Shake hands only. No sex before marriage is our motto

I want to marry her. Please tell me how can I progress in this matter.

Thanks

posted March 29, 2009 01:46 PM         

venus conjuct moon is good too...

family interference (and specially that of extended family) is very annoying and is probably very normal part of some cultures.

I dont understand why are you sending smses to her father with spiritual context and warnings... first of all use of sms for these matters with father of yr gf is not a very smart thing to do. you might annoy him and look v desperate.

posted April 24, 2009 03:18 AM         

Thank you very much. Your advice is taken well. No more sms to her father. Met him on 20th April outside a masjid for a few minutes. It was okay.

Should I meet him more often? So that we can be friends?

emma are you saying that she does love me much?

what can I do to increase her love for me?

We talk on phone as meeting her is not feasible.

I want to marry her. Please tell me how can I progress in this matter.

posted May 19, 2009 02:54 AM         

It is her Uranus aspecting my Moon in synastry chart. My Moon is helping soften her Uranus/Venus oppostion through communication(3rd)/higher aspirations(her 9th) of love

And My Saturn is giving soft stability to her Uranus/Venus opposition through communication(3rd)/higher aspirations(mine 9th)about love.

And My Asc/Jupiter giving her support and love as these are in her 7th and sextile/trine to her Venus/Uranus