posted June 05, 2009 05:40 AM         

This polarity is there in our Venus, Pluto and quite a few other positions too. I haven't checked with every planet yet but our horoscopes do seem to fall in this strange 7-7 pattern every time!

The first time he looked at me I actually went "Woah." aloud. Months later when he did summon up the courage to propose to me <3, I told him about it and he says he felt the exact same thing.

We connect on this very deep level. We've had a couple of huge fights, and have disagreements off and on, but largely I know I can't get along without him and I think he feels the same way.

We seem to complete each other.

Since you guys are all pretty well-read about Linda's take on this, would you please tell me what you think? Possible soulmates?

PS: I adore this forum.

posted August 07, 2009 11:58 AM         

According to Vedic astrology, our sunsigns, moon-signs and ascendants are Virgo-Pisces, Pisces-Virgo and Libra-Aries (like I've mentioned before).

But on most of the sites that are referred here and elsewhere on the net, even with my proper birth location our moon-signs and ascendants are revealed to be Aries-Aquarius and Scorpio-Taurus.

Why does this happen?

posted August 07, 2009 01:39 PM         

but isn't synastry between the charts calculated with different methods than tropical?

edit, i mean taking different factors into account.

posted August 07, 2009 01:44 PM         

Please refer to me any reliable site where I can get a good synastry chart done

Thanks a lot!
Much love

posted August 07, 2009 01:51 PM         

here is a free vedic comparison, after you register with the site (free) http://www.astroastro.com/Reports/Reports.asp?Content=compatibility

this one you can go to for a free tropical astrology synastry comparison, albeit brief, no registration needed http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f

posted October 19, 2009 04:25 AM         

The guy I mentioned above (Pisces sun, Aries ascendant, Virgo moon) broke up with me about a month ago.

My relationship with him was always a little weird. When things were good, they were fabulous. But every now and then he would lash out at me without warning. Something similar happened the time we broke up. For no major reason, he began yelling at me in front of our friends. And at the end of it, he broke up with me. I was very hurt but I accepted it and tried to get over him.

A week later, during which we didn't even see each other, he apologized to me profusely and asked for another chance to prove himself. (He'd done this once before, although not publicly that time) I told him I'd need him to show me he wouldn't do this again, and we'd see where it went.

A few days later he broke up with me again. This time I was more or less okay with it, since in my head we were apart anyway. Then he had some sort of an OCD attack and kept calling me like 30 times a day.

His sister, who lives in the US, came down the next day and he seemed alright after that. I didn't call him and he didn't talk to me either.

A couple of weeks later I spoke to his sister about it openly. She asked me to not give him so much importance. He'd apparently always been like this. She asked me to just be friends with him for now and let him grow up.

I was okay with this. But now I don't know. My friends say he's never going to change, and that even he did, he's already treated me too badly to forgive and forget. I sometimes think so too. After all, if he were having problems he could always have spoken to me about it instead of lashing out at me like that over and over again.

I missed him so much that one day I told him I'd be willing to wait for as long as it took him to get comfortable with the idea of being in a relationship. He said that he still loves me, but he couldn't be with me because he's paranoid about losing his personal space.

I'm so confused. Should I move on? Should I wait? I don't know what to do.

I miss the good times so much. But I don't want to be taken for granted and treated like this again, either.

Please help.

Lots of love.

posted October 19, 2009 12:37 PM         

My family and friends don't think I should.

I probably shouldn't. It's just very very hard to get over. Especially since I have to see him everyday. I don't know whether to ignore him, keep being friends, it's very confusing.

posted October 20, 2009 01:12 PM         

if "later" will be better, you will find out! for now check out your own life!

posted October 21, 2009 01:08 PM         

I like spending time by myself and it helps me regain my balance. (I've a Libra asc. if that makes it any easier!) But whenever I see him I miss him, and I feel so bad about how he treated me before. I think I've forgiven him but this resentment mixed with longing keeps returning. It's not even healthy, I'm sure.

The last major communication I had with him was when I mailed him (in a last ditch attempt to fix things) saying that I loved him and was willing to give him space and time and whatever he needed. I'll just paste here what he replied:

"First off, I'd like to clear up something.
I love you, alright?
There is no one else
I have loved as much as I have you."

-- This just made me melt, of course! But then, my heart sank --

"I do not want to be in a relationship anymore because I cannot handle this very responsibility, however natural or little it might seem. I've tried."

I don't know what to do. I keep shifting from thinking I deserve better to but I still love him and although spending time alone, and getting a move along in MY life helps for the time being, I don't know how much longer I can keep it up.

You see I told I'd wait for him till he was ready. But then I think why should I? Although he's young he should not have treated me badly, like he has on quite a few occasions. I mean I'm young too, I had problems too. But I never yelled at him or broke up with him just to come apologizing two days later. :'(

I'm so torn. I really feel awful about it all.

posted October 21, 2009 02:54 PM         

I'll check our synastry just to make sure

But thanks so much for listening. Means a lot to be heard out when you're feeling a little crazy