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Topic: **** Help ME!! Taurus Man ****
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ladyleo Knowflake Posts: 1 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 15, 2009 11:25 AM
Yes, I have fallen madly in love with this seemingly wonderful man who is Taurus Sun/Cancer Moon and Leo ascendant. He is very spiritual and loving and that is what appeals to me the most about him. We have been friends for about a year now and in recent months he and I have been flirting every chance we get but one day recently, he told me he was miserable when I wasn't around and that he thinks he's in love with me. I was speechless but I did tell him I 'like' him but I couldn't bring myself to admit I had fallen in love with him. Anyhow, he has been a li'l distance since, kinda popping in and out of the picture but still sends me long warm emails, the last in which he said 'I want to settle our relationship because I hold it in high esteem...' HELP!! I am a little confused here, people! I am trying to figure him out. I am Leo sun/ Scorpio moon/ Ascendant Pisces and I feel I may be a little obsessed but he doesn't know... IP: Logged |
Peri Moderator Posts: 470 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2009 12:13 PM
thread about Taurus men >>> http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/002033.html added* why are you confused if he said he loved you? IP: Logged |
Azalaksh Moderator Posts: 217 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 15, 2009 10:29 PM
Welcome to LL, ladyleo I have to pile onto Peri's comment He said, he thinks he's in love with you. He said, he wants to settle your relationship. Why are you confused and afraid to tell him how you feel?? Life is so short, and harmonious connections with other souls are so precious. I'm a fan of telling the people we love that we love them -- when they're gone (one way or another) it's Too Late..... You sound like a lucky girl to me IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted June 15, 2009 11:57 PM
I agree with both of the previous posts...Geee....a Bull man with a Crab moon! Are you serious!!! Sensuality, loving, caring, mixed with the earthy, musky manliness of the Bull Sun!!! Ooooo, my Bull moon makes me want to drop to my knees now... Do not ever question love. Go for it, lady!!! t IP: Logged |
crabbypatty Knowflake Posts: 55 From: New York, NY Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 16, 2009 07:00 AM
Yes, indeedy. A yummy combo he's got, it would seem. And so what are you confused about? You don't have to say you love him right off the bat, just go on a few dates.IP: Logged |
Virgovenusleo Knowflake Posts: 234 From: unknown Registered: May 2009
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posted June 16, 2009 09:18 AM
When a taurus says he loves you they usually mean it and usually you stay there in there hearts for a long time i have an ex taurus.. everytime we meet it is non stop flirting. and he still asks "does this mean you have feelings for me" its soo niiceIP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124 Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Portland, OR, USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 16, 2009 11:04 PM
Tell him in person how you feel about him. I agree with all of the above that everyone else said.You lucky girl you. Taurus men are one of my favorite signs (the other is Scorpio, actually I think they're tied) IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 265 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 16, 2009 11:42 PM
Aw. he REALLY put himself out there. At least you said you like him, but a Cancer Moon is sooo fragile and sensitive. If we (Cancer Moons) have a crush on someone, sometimes we feel rejected even when the other person likes us back. His Cancer/Taurus combo will add some gentleness for him, and maybe he isn't so tough on himself as some Cancer Moons, but....INSIST on seeing him alone and in-person ASAP. Tell him you want to "settle" your relationship too (when in person.) If you are not ready to say that you are falling for him, say: "I was thrilled when you told me you had feelings for me...." and that you want to spend time being together, etc etc. Then hug him, and kiss him, and...well, you know. Make this happen ASAP. The longer a Cancer Moon is stuck wondering about your feelings, the more he injures himself emotionally worrying you don't care enough. quote: You don't have to say you love him right off the bat, just go on a few dates.
Patty's got it right. In fact, even when a guy says he's falling in love with you, you saying it back can make things seem scary, heavy and intense...(not that that's always bad!)...but there are so many great, reassuring, true things you can say that will make him feel happy and loved but not scared or suffocated...stuff like, "I get so happy being around you." IP: Logged |
GeminiFront Knowflake Posts: 3 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 21, 2009 01:28 PM
LadyLeo, I'm a Taurus Sun, Cancer Moon, Leo Mars. I think I understand what's up with him. This is a sensitive, affectionate and proud combination. Taurus is very serious in making such important decision whether to love someone or not, so when he says it, he means it. But with Leo flavored Cancer Moon, if his affection isn't returned, he feels hurt and proud at the same time. He likely has crawled into his shell and felt pity for himself and been waiting to see if you'd come and get him out. This is the not so flattering side of Cancer. . That's why he is acting a bit distance (fake!) but yet still making sure you know he cares with the warm emails and messages.I'm not sure why you're afraid of showing your feelings. Not critizing, just trying to understand. Show him you love him and he'll bolt out of his shell right away. IP: Logged |
Ariefairy Knowflake Posts: 13 From: mars Registered: Jun 2009
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posted June 22, 2009 07:26 PM
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