posted June 27, 2009 02:01 PM            

Well, I have known this guy for three years and there has always been an attraction between us. I have sort of started seeing him again recently. I won't go too deep into it, but I feel we are getting closer and closer even though I gave up on us so many times: we are SO DIFFERENT! I am a Pisces sun and I am soooo emotional and fall in love easily. Saying this, I am skeptical about people having been hurt many times before.... and this guy is a Capricorn, so his aloof pragmatic ways make me feel so unsure about us sometimes =(

However, after so long of silly annoyances, I am beginning to believe he really cares for me. I think he's maybe just very shy. I LOVE capricorns, one of my best friends is one, and even though when we were younger I used to think I related to her least out of my friends, through the last few years, ironically since we moved away from eachother, we have gotten so close. I think I was really there for her through her dad dying very unexpectedly (she was only 18 at the time) and though she was always so rational and almost abrasive, she has opened up a lot. We laugh a lot about how different we are but how great we get along. I have looked up my natal chart and although I don't know my boy's (I will try to find this out), here are my details.....

I do have a lot of Capricorn in my chart.

Sun in Pisces 15°48’ 1".
Moon in Libra 13°20’13".
Mercury in Aquarius 18°32’17"
Venus in Aries 29°42’ 5"
Mars in Capricorn 8°35’18"
Jupiter in Aries 29°29’ 7"
Saturn in Capricorn 1°30’23"
Uranus in Capricorn 0°40’ 3"
Neptune in Capricorn 9°49’52"
Pluto in Scorpio 12°27’38"
Mean Node in Pisces 23°43’ 2"
True Node in Pisces 23° 3’22"D
Chiron in Gemini 23° 8’38"
also my Ascendant is Capricorn.

posted July 07, 2009 12:14 AM            

Caps are slow movers and will withdraw when they have been hurt.

My advice would be to follow his lead. Until he makes a move, just continue on as you have. TALK to him, however, don't assume anything. I've found they are very direct about how they feel, especially if you have gotten close enough to them.

posted July 07, 2009 12:43 AM            

I wonder if his Sun is conjunct your ASC, that's an aspect that leads to lots of mutual interest and attraction!

posted July 07, 2009 11:37 AM            

HMM! he is a complete enigma.
thank you for your help btw =)

Lucia - i will try and get his birth time!

posted July 08, 2009 06:52 AM            

Not only is the moon sign also referred to as the so-called "subconscious side" but I also think of the moon sign as your most vulnerable placement(especially if its in water like mine).

It is through the moon that we "feel" safe or threatened, at peace or confused. Most of our reaons for drawing certain emotional and psychological experiences into our lives can be safely attributed to the moon sign e.g

A moon in Taurus is never settled in an enviroment that is all about "hustle and bustle" and if they find themselves in such situations, they will actively seek an exit to a more slow-paced existence(without even being aware that they are "choosing" this experience).

A moon in Aries does not like stagnancy or inaction and will often be attracted to an atmospehere that is "busy" and tumultuous.

Many may find themsleves being drawn to demanding careers that require a high level of antagonism and competition. These people often "choose" a life that is more on a fast lane(also being blissfuly unaware).

Yes, the sun sign is also important as it indicates where your priorities and the kind of energies that you emanate to each other on a daily basis. It is better to have two positive people affirming each others' drive for existence(which is what compatible sun signs can accomplish).

In addition to this however, consider the behavioral patterns of a person that are usualy associated with his/her background and home environment.

These are the things that the person is less aware of and may expect you to "know" once you are in a relationship with them.

These patterns are difficult to change as they are deeply ingrained into the sub-conscious as established patterns of what brings a sense of security to the person.

In short....look to his moon and your moon to see if you can get emotionaly closer to him.

Note: An Aq,Gem moon will be ideal (especially within close orbs to yours)

Sag, Leo are also good(orbs also included).

Libra moon is amazing , so long as you can differentiate your feelings from theirs.

Aries moon is exciting at first and troublesome later (it can also be the other way around).

Cancer, Capricorn are difficult personally but very significant for business partnerships.

Taurus and Pisces are tricky as they come with deep emotional issues that you(or your partner) have not dealt with. They can bring out the worst in you but also put old habits to rest once and for all...

Scorpio and Virgo moons are alright, but you may feel like they lack that extra "voom" that'll make them attractive to you.

Good Luck!

posted July 08, 2009 09:41 AM            

I have got his natal chart now =)
here it is:

Sun in Capricorn 9°42’42"
Moon in Gemini 4°13’15"
Mercury in Capricorn 14°44’54"
Venus in Aquarius 11°55’58"
Mars in Scorpio 24°53’ 1"
Jupiter in Aries 20°13’52"
Saturn in Sagittarius 25°27’27"
Uranus in Sagittarius 27°39’33"
Neptune in Capricorn 7°47’ 1"
Pluto in Scorpio 11°59’48"
Mean Node in Pisces 27°10’16"
True Node in Pisces 26°43’ 7"
Chiron in Gemini 25° 9’14"
Ascendant is Virgo. 20°56’15"

posted July 09, 2009 06:38 AM            

His moon trines yours..although not in a close orb, but that is also fine.This can promote an exchange of ideas and feelings through words.

His sun sextile yours in close proximity. This is good for long-term friendship, even if you guys are not intimately involved, it can promote friendship between you.

His venus sextile yours(although not in real trine)..but that is also fine...you guys express love in similar ways and have similar views.

His mars is also sextile yours..although also not in real sextile....but that is OKAY, this just means that you both have similar approaches to sexual conduct(not intimacy: Pluto rules that part).

Even if these prospects are "good" or "bad", go with what you feel.

posted July 12, 2009 12:46 AM            

Pisces and Capricorn get along very well. One word of advice though. With capricorn men, it is very much about sex...I don't care how shy they are. Sex is big with them and they are hot. If you have not been intimate with him yet, MAKE HIM WAIT FOR IT. MAKE HIM WORK FOR IT. He will have SO MUCH respect for you if you are not an "easy lay". No offense.

While he may love you very much, make him SHOW you how much. You will lose something if you give it up too fast. He is WATCHING your every move and remembering EVERYTHING you say. He has GOT to feel like you are a woman who is waiting for the best a man has to offer -- in a very complete sense, because he is striving to be the BEST. Otherwise, if you move give it up too soon (by his standards, yes, it will ALWAYS be by HIS standards) you could be classified as someone less desirable to him.

Take it slow. Enjoy his affection and honesty. Respect the fact that he RESPECTS you and wants to impress you and treat you like a valuable treasure.

posted July 22, 2009 09:38 AM            

I think I just have to be really patient with him.... my problem is, as a typical Pisces (and I have Venus in Aries.. do you think this adds to this?), I just really want some affection and reassurance, so I get wound up feeling like I've been forgotten or something. This is especially hard just now because we are far away from eachother for weeks - when I am with him, he is loads more affectionate and dare I say romantic recently... but I hardly get to see him for a few weeks!

I just wish there were some little things I could pick up on to read him better... like little giveaways he's really interested. I can say my feelings at the drop of a hat but I know it takes so much more from him. ARGH!!! But I don't want to scare him away. Just need something to set my mind at ease.

Silly me. Always thinking...

=)

posted July 22, 2009 07:13 PM            

As a capricorn female myself I found this thread so interesting that I couldn't help posting my comments about the description you all made about us capricorns.

Would love to see if Acoustic God could add sth more, as a Cap himself.

I think you'd get a good picture of Caps in real life and use the information to understsnd better your cappie guy.

Here goes:

Warm-hearted sign
(How accurate)

Not easily known. Most people need drawn out, repeated exposure to me in order to get me
(AcousticGod I couldn't agree more)

Caps are slow movers and will withdraw when they have been hurt
(That's for sure)

Follow his lead. Until he makes a move.
Let him set the pace
It will ALWAYS be by HIS standards
(We're born leaders, so don't be surprised)

I've found they are very direct about how they feel, especially if you have gotten close enough to them
(Hm not quite. Sometimes we actually say the opposite of what we feel. It's just to test you.)

He was always quite emotionally unavailable
(Most of the times but occasionally we let sth go, inadvertedly...)

Very affectionate with me when we are together
(Yes and we also hunger for afection, you know)

Enjoy his affection and honesty
(Our afection is one of the purest kind; true for honesty, as we usually don't lie.)

He has definitely, very slowly, become more open.
(We 're just like that but our innermost feelings will be kept hidden)

they never let go
(Yes, if you care we don't want to lose you. We'll even be obssessed with not losing you)

Sex is big with them and they are hot
(We're super hot volcanos beneath the shell. Believe it)

MAKE HIM WAIT FOR IT. MAKE HIM WORK FOR IT
(This one I'm not so sure. I'd say we don't want you to make things easy for us because it would be less interesting. But don't exagerate, ok?

posted July 25, 2009 01:23 AM            

Keeping him interested is by keeping your life. Don't always be available whenever he wants. Make him work for your time and then when you give it, LAVISH him...but then become a little unavailable again. I'm not saying play a game really, but if that is your life (that you have one, thank you), you have a better chance of getting him.

Cappy men like a challenge and they like to win. Winning your time when you have "better things to do" besides be with him will make him value you more and his (genuine) interest will increase.

posted July 25, 2009 11:39 AM            

I married a Capricorn guy 18 years ago.

Let's see....slow moving? Well, the first time he saw me, he told his best friend that I was the girl he was going to marry.

I wanted absolutely nothing to do with him, as I had my head firmly lodged up the backside of a Virgo at the time.
He followed me around.
He showed up to give me rides.
He was "there" for me when I was upset.

He was like the "guy friend" every girl hopes to find. And it was Great!!

So what do I do?
Complicate everything with sex!!!
True about the sex and caps, btw.
That put a different spin on the relationship entirely.
That first week, he gave me 3 different engagement rings!
I was like "whoa, it was just a thing!"
Not to him.
He was dead serious.
He thought when I said no, it was because I didn't like the ring! So he just kept getting another one!