posted July 04, 2009 07:32 PM
The planets are probably in too wide an orb. For example, if A's Sun is in Leo at 1 degree and B's is in Leo at 23 degrees, they will not have the Sun conjunct Sun aspect. If A's Sun is in Leo at 1 degree and B's Sun is in Leo at 3 degrees, they'll be Sun conjunct Sun...OR if A's Sun is in Leo at 1 degree and B's Sun is in Cancer at 28 degrees, they will have Sun conjunct Sun.
If you're using astro.com, you can adjust the orb. The more exact the aspects/the smaller the orb, the more you will both feel them. So pay attention to the aspects you have at a narrow orb.