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Topic: A Scorpio threesome?
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AsphodelElysium Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Virginia Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 08, 2009 11:58 PM
Now that I have your attention, lol...I could really use some objective, third person advice. I recently asked my astrologer for some Scorp/Scorp compatibility advice and got a rather dissatisfying, flippant response. I know you all are very thorough and very thoughtful (I should've come here first) and thought I might ask you all for your opinions. I recently met, not one, but two Scorpio males. I've been friendly with both, had a few conversations, and they've both shown some level of interest, but I'm keeping them both on the periphery until I figure a few things out. I'm hoping, if nothing else, that I end up with a couple of good friends, but I'm wondering if there might be more. Its a sticky situation and I haven't settled one way or another but I'm a one man woman, so...just weighing the odds right now. Without further ado, the charts and the aspects with each. We'll call the first Brad and the second Ken for the sake of names. My chart is the inner wheel and horizontal on the aspects. Brad http://www.astro.com/tmpd/c3kafilewEm46P-u1233638430/astro_61gw_01_32_d_brad.82364.30123.pdf Ken http://www.astro.com/tmpd/c3kafilewEm46P-u1233638430/astro_61gw_01_22_d_k.82509.656.pdf Thanks in advance for all your time and consideration. If I can be of any service, just let me know. Cheers! IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 645 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 09, 2009 12:36 AM
Hello--are these based on exact birth times for both guys?IP: Logged |
eyeslikepisces Knowflake Posts: 5 From: Minneapolis, MN, USA Registered: Jul 2009
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posted July 09, 2009 12:58 AM
I'm not an expert at charts...but I can see why you're having trouble choosing. Yours and Brads chart are so similar its uncanny. Your personalities and emotions, and communication styles are quite alike. But ken is likely to have just as much as affection for you as you do for him because you share the same Venus in scorpion. You both want someone similar to yourselves. And the rest of his chart isn't that far off either. You might have better luck with ken because of your venus, but in my experience venus never influenced me much. I wish you best of luck with whichever you choose! IP: Logged |
AsphodelElysium Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Virginia Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 09, 2009 01:04 AM
Lucia, Oddly enough, yes. I've only run into that "on the dot" time once before, with my Dad. He was born precisely at midnight. Pisces, Thank you so much for the advice! You're right it is hard to pick. Ken is very charming, very charming. We banter quite a bit, which is exciting, but I think I have more common interest with Brad. He's so brooding though and harder to read. I'm less sure of his affection than I am of Ken's. *Sigh* You see the dilemma? IP: Logged |
Peri Moderator Posts: 626 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 09, 2009 05:16 AM
It depends on what you are looking for: fun, excitement, crazy short-term affair?? go for Ken then; if you want a nurturing, deep and long-term relationship go for Brad.chart #1: I like that you both have Moon in one sign (you are on the same wavelength emotionally) + he also has Venus and Mars there (sextile Scorpio placements), I see amazing compatibility there chart #2: you have Venus conj Uranus, Venus/Venus is the same sign and Jupiter conj Sun which might feel quite exciting especially at the beginning but in the long run Moon/Saturn and Moon/Chiron (opp Scorpio placements) will become more and more noticeable and these particular aspects are hard to deal with; Sun conj Jupiter is often seen in the synastry of friends, so I'd say he'd make a better friend than boyfriend (if you want long-term) but sexual chemistry is definitely there! IP: Logged |
AsphodelElysium Knowflake Posts: 35 From: Virginia Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 09, 2009 06:47 PM
Thank you so much Peri! I could see that, from both of them. Ken is so much a flirt and Brad...well, I don't even know what to say. I can't read him. No idea what he thinks about me, nothing. I'm actually kind of afraid to make a move on him. I don't want to put him off. I wouldn't mind the fling and then the long term . I've been studying house placements and some of the personal planets, but how important are the outer planets in synastry? We're all three ruled by Pluto, so I thought maybe it would be important. I also wondered about Chiron, as I have so many oppositions there. Are they over-ruled by the other aspects or should I give them a look-see too? IP: Logged |
Peri Moderator Posts: 626 From: 49N35 34E34 Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 10, 2009 04:40 AM
you are welcome in my opinion, outer planet contacts especially generation aspects are not very important but slow planets to the angles and fast planets are; I also don't think Chiron aspects override the other aspects so the whole synastry should be taken into account. As for you all being Scorpios there is nothing especially important about it, it depends mostly whether you get along well with people of the same Sun sign as yours but you sure will have a better understanding of them than any other Sun sign will. IP: Logged | |