posted July 16, 2009 09:50 AM         

I'm not asking for any advice, but everyone feel free to express comments, questions, and concerns. I know enough about astrology to get a grasp of what's going on between us, but I just wanted to post our charts.

We met about a month and a half ago. This past week she said she fell in love with me at first sight. Our first night together was pure magic and I must say that I fell in love right then. It was all so fast. We've been through some intense ups and downs, broken up and gotten back together, and since she has come back to me she has practically moved in to my place. She's speaking of marriage and children. Again, so fast, but it feels so deep, I look into her eyes and it's like I've known her forever.

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posted July 16, 2009 09:58 AM         

(the time listed, 7 pm, is within 10 minutes of being precise, so our Asc/Desc may be Scorp/Taurus)

posted July 19, 2009 11:29 AM         

Yin:
It's true that I can "ground" her. Just like the last heavily Mutable girl I was dating, she too has called me her "stability". Problems come up and she says she loves how calmly I handle things. Being that I'm so Fixed and she's so Mutable, I've definitely felt stressed over how very fickle she can be. But luckily she takes good measures to show me how much she wants and appreciates me. All of our Water really recognizes each other's need for support and security.

posted July 24, 2009 09:56 AM         

Transiting Uranus is conjunct her natal Sun and she is actually going through a very selfish phase right now. Like the typical Uranian keywords, she is demanding, rebellious, and contradictory, all seemingly to suite her own needs. She's extremely self-indulgent and feigns helplessness, a constant stream of "Can you get me more ice for my water", "Babe, can you rub my back", and "Help me find my keys/phone/credit card"... I love her, but I've certainly learned that I'll have to yield many of my needs for the sake of her's.

Pisces as a sign may be self-sacrificial while Uranus may be the most self-serving planet, so current transits are making things quite different.

Yin:

posted July 25, 2009 01:37 AM         

remember she is the one who came back... you didn't change a thing about yourself....

posted July 28, 2009 12:10 PM         

She and I are coming together beautifully while the rest of my life is a chaotic mess. I have a wonderful woman inspiring dreams and goals in me, and I'm really feeling stressed now as to how I'm going to make it all happen. Ideas of a house and marriage and children... I'm 26 with no real money, no credit, and only an Associates Degree!! Luckily she's 20 and has a long way to go herself, so perhaps at this point we can at least move in-step together toward our mutual aspirations...

posted July 28, 2009 12:37 PM         

Uranus opp Mars - if Mars applies too much pressure Uranus might become unpredictable and feel like running away

posted July 28, 2009 02:12 PM         

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Moon conj NN in Cancer - she will show you how to become more Cancerian/less Capricornian

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Interesting how you view this. I have a natal conjunction of Moon and Saturn. I have my Scorpio sub-ruler (Mars) in Capricorn, and I have a loaded Scorpio 4th house... I feel I represent a lot of Cancerian / Capricornian energy.

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Uranus conj Mars - magnetic sexual attaction

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My Mars conjuncts her Uranus and there is indeed plenty of sexual attraction between us. Many of our days off from work will revolve around sexual contact. Wake up, sex, breakfast, sex, shower, sex, movie, sex...

Jupiter is my fifth house ruler, conjunct Venus and combust my chart ruler, the Sun, in Scorpio. Her chart ruler is Jupiter, which is in a natal conjunction with Mars. This all equates to SEX-AND-MORE-SEX as far as I can tell.

So we have both the conjunction and the opposition of Mars/Uranus, and I've read that either of these aspects can create extreme sexual attraction but a lack of sexual fulfillment. So far, I can't possibly see where the "lack of fulfillment" might be, but she and I are still very much in a honeymoon state, and I know Uranus's disruptive attributes aren't likely to show until the relationship settles a bit.

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Uranus opp Mars - if Mars applies too much pressure Uranus might become unpredictable and feel like running away

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So then I would be the one to run. She initiated talk of "a house, marriage, and children" very early in our relationship, so I most definitely could see a person of different values running from her. But perhaps I brought out these latent urges in her?? Until now I've never found the right woman and I was convinced that I'd never marry or have kids, but she does something special to me and I'm actually really excited by the whole idea.

posted August 03, 2009 09:32 PM         

You have both a beautiful synastry and composite. If I might, as a Pisces, tell you a little secret...

We Pisces gals sometimes don't realize that we may be putting you out. We tend to "baby" our men or do little things for them and so we begin to enjoy someone doing it for us...we view it as a sign of love/dedication. Especially your gal who has a Cancer moon...nurture and take care of me and I think you love me.

If you feel it's getting to be a bit much, there are 2 ways to handle it with a Pisces without hurting her or the relationship. The key is subtlety. You can start doing the exact same thing...baby can you do this or that...get me this, etc. She'll most likely realize she doesn't like it and and will in turn stop asking you...or at least you will have balance.

The other is...and you have to be careful with this one...to distance yourself VERY slightly when she does something you don't care for. If you do that, she'll pick up on it and the thought of losing you will freak her out. Please, at this point, reassure her that all will be well. But she'll get the idea and start making the connections to her behaviors after a while.

Hope that makes sense! All the best to you.

posted September 14, 2009 11:12 AM         

Sorry to butt in on SW's thread..

I feel we have a lot of similarities ... chartwise anyhow (Big 3 are polar opposite with the same moon sign :P, and several other aspects.. I am scorpio dominant)

I have always been .. err.. slightly jealous (well I try to suppress it). The latest guy I had a thing with, I was totally and utterly trustful and didn't get jealous at all. He ended up going back to his ex... the only guy to do this to me! lol ... our r/ship is weird though even now.. it is so utterly sweet and lovely?! and our synastry is even weirder... thats another story.

Still. it was very liberating not feeling jealous in a relationship. It feels 'right'. JMO