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JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Virginia Registered: May 2009
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posted September 20, 2009 08:01 PM
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Unmoved Moderator Posts: 884 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 20, 2009 08:18 PM
I am in shock for you! I have no words to even try to comfort you! I can honestly say that I'd be just as angry if that happened to me. I am sorry Amanda!! That's disrespectful and wrong! Are you sure, though, that it's his girlfriend's things? It could be a distant cousin? I don't know! I am so very sorry. IP: Logged |
JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Virginia Registered: May 2009
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posted September 20, 2009 09:01 PM
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GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 1626 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted September 21, 2009 06:58 AM
EWWWW, I've been there! And I'm a sag/aries just like you,,,,my advice, don't act on impulse!!! I smashed his windsheild with with axe handle, I called the girls mother, I read his cell phone and texted her back messages that were really from me, I sent her messages that he sent me, private stuff....I really spun out. Yeah, nobody knows the intesity of a Sag when they get really, really hurt.I don't know what to say, except I feel for you, I really do. Just don't do anything illegal, he's not worth it. IP: Logged |
JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Virginia Registered: May 2009
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posted September 21, 2009 08:05 AM
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GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 1626 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted September 21, 2009 10:31 AM
I hear ya, breaking things stinks when you have to replace them out of your pocket. And you are SO right, age helps with this so much...You reminded me of a story I now remember fondly. I got married at 17 to a 19 year old. It was just a really immature thing to do and we were in no way ready for it. Anyway, we both worked, he was in the military, and I bartended at a VERY busy restuarant in Italy. I always took my meals at work, since I was there, probably 70 plus hours a week. I came home one day to him on the couch and a sink full of dishes, that I did not dirty. A full on battle ensued, during which, he told me that dishes were not "his job." OOOHHHH, the Sag rage reared its ugly head! I reigned in all my inner fury, and very deliberatly and calmly threw each and every dish, pan, pot, skillet, and silverware item, into the trash. He said, "Woah, what are you nuts or something?" I just told him that if dishes were going to cause us this much trouble, then we simply did not need them, and promptly brought the whole hefty bag to the dumpster. Yeah, that was pretty much the end. But just between you and me and the lampost, I sure enjoyed it while it was going on! Your right, no LindaLand in jail, excellent reason to not go there. Plus the food stinks, and I don't know about you, but orange jumpsuits don't do a thing for me. Keep up your humour, God gave us Sag's humour, abundance of friends, and huge chunks of optimism for these very times. I'll be here if you need me. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 1626 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted September 21, 2009 10:32 AM
p.s Questions, can you still get in the storage unit? Is any of your stuff in there at the moment? I have good reasons to ask this.....heh hehIP: Logged |
JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Virginia Registered: May 2009
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posted September 21, 2009 11:06 AM
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GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 1626 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted September 21, 2009 01:33 PM
Bummer I was going to suggest putting a dead fish or a dirty diaper in there, someplace hidden, but your stuff is in there, darn, we could of had some fun.Some people do not have any respect for boundaries do they? IP: Logged |
katatonic Knowflake Posts: 2005 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 22, 2009 06:59 PM
i would change the lock pronto, she might be spiteful and come do something to YOUR stuff...my ex had a girlfriend who came acourting right under my nose. i remember looking out the window one morning to see his car decorated with balloons, and she had clipped a little drawing of a tropical island onto them with the caption "isle of view"...that woman never got taught what the word "boundaries" meant! she used to call me to tell me how innocent she was, and she couldn't help it and we should all be friends and live together in polygamous happilyeverafterland... did you ever see fried green tomatoes? your story reminded me of "tawanda!!!!!!!!" IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 1626 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted September 22, 2009 09:07 PM
Thats awful Kat. *shudders* I mean why would she think someone would go for that kind of thing? I mean I know some people who do, but they search it out together as a couple.I love that movie. When it came out, that is what I bought all the girls in my life for xmas. I love the part when she says she has more insurance and rams the other car. You should change the locks, I didn't think of that! My ex also had a girl who stalked me, unawares. She knew my job and would come in there to drink socially. We didn't become friends, but acquaintences and shared many a small talk. Can you imagine? She also would find out from him what my kids were doing, like on the weekend, and show up there. She told me she spent one friday night watching my son skate at the local rink. UGGG. weirdo! That is the one I had to dismiss, I figured she would end up a bunny boiler. IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 1271 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 22, 2009 09:45 PM
YIKES.Makes me appreciate my ex (Libra) and the respectful gap period he left before hooking up with someone new. When he was my new boyfriend and I was a more-jealous-than-I-try-to-be-now baby Leo a million years ago, I HATED that he stayed friends with his exes. Now I am glad. IP: Logged |
libraschoice7 Knowflake Posts: 136 From: Arizona Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 22, 2009 09:50 PM
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cpn_edgar_winner Knowflake Posts: 1581 From: Toledo, OH Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 23, 2009 06:29 AM
put a bugger on her stuff. it really won't hurt anything and you will know there is a bugger on her stuff and smile when you think about it/. preferably a phone or something she will use by her face. sorry, i know it isn't a real mature thing to do, but it is harmless and sometimes the little things bring us satisfaction. IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 1626 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted September 23, 2009 07:50 AM
You know cpn, i love the way you think, problem with that idea is where to get, and how to retrieve said booger. I mean I wouldn't want to pick my own nose, let alone someone else's who might volunteer a booger. I suppose if you are the sort of person who can "projectile snot" then it could be worked out.*we're trying to make you smile Amanda* IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner Knowflake Posts: 1581 From: Toledo, OH Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 23, 2009 09:02 AM
dig deep and pick a winner.no big deal whip out the hand sanitizer and its a done deal! (you know i can be juvinile, I can't even spell booger) then you can call her booger face behind her back. IP: Logged |
JustAmanda Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Virginia Registered: May 2009
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posted September 23, 2009 09:09 AM
yes...I can def put some kind of boogie on her kitchen ware...ewww ha. IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner Knowflake Posts: 1581 From: Toledo, OH Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 23, 2009 09:10 AM
and rub it under your armpit. no harm done.well, she should know better than using another womans storage after taking another womans man, i think she deserves another womans booger and armpit sweat too! might as well take the bad with the good honey!
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wheels of cheese Knowflake Posts: 759 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 23, 2009 10:05 AM
Oh girls you're making ME laugh. Amanda, sorry to read about your shiteweasel and his new squeeze. Boogers are the way to go. Better not talk to me about revenge. I split some furniture with my ex, I flat packed it all down again ready for him to take away in his van. Problem was I kept some of the bolts, some of the screws, substituted other screws and bolts and odd nuts, gave him the diagrams about how to put the things back but erased some important arrows and text with white-out and photocopied it so it looked like it was the real deal. I never knew what happened, I didn't need to. All I knew was that he was a self-important shite who prided himself on his practical skills, who told me once that I had "no hand-eye coordination" and "no t!ts ". Have a titful of that then ya b@stard. IP: Logged |
wheels of cheese Knowflake Posts: 759 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 23, 2009 10:07 AM
Any flatpack furniture in this storage? IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner Knowflake Posts: 1581 From: Toledo, OH Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 23, 2009 10:25 AM
good call wheels. nice one. i hope he spent 2 months trying to put that stuff together and i hope it wobbled properly when he finished said project. the forethought and prep involved gets kudos from me...good work. perhaps spilling a can of sprite in his and her shoes by accident? ....oops....you really can't help it when a can tips over.. your mama would want you to laugh again. IP: Logged |
wheels of cheese Knowflake Posts: 759 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted September 23, 2009 10:42 AM
Yeah, I like my revenge served cold. The Libra Sun propensity for resentment, coupled with Mercury in Scorpio on the IC, with retrograde Mars in Taurus means I can wait a long time to get even and I don't have to be around. Evil woman, evil. IP: Logged |
cpn_edgar_winner Knowflake Posts: 1581 From: Toledo, OH Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 23, 2009 11:51 AM
my taurus asc and libra mars work together pretty well. if i had been a scorp mars or a aries mars...well, it probobly wouldn't be pretty. booger damage is minimal.i have seen some crazy women do some damage now! lemme tell ya! IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Knowflake Posts: 1626 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted September 23, 2009 11:53 AM
Wheels, you are a diabolical genius. My Merc in Scorp bows down to your Merc in Scorp.Guess the Taurus helps you plan your diabolicalness, my saggie self just throws a frickin hissy with expletives that would embaress a truck stop hooker. Ahhh, well, variety is the spice.... IP: Logged |
Lucia23 Knowflake Posts: 1271 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 23, 2009 12:56 PM
I don't understand why people think his girlfriend deserves to have her stuff messed with--what did SHE do wrong? All she's doing is dating a man who has probably told her he's completely available.It sounds like HE should be the target of any insanity or vandalism, if that's the sort of thing you're into. IP: Logged |