posted November 04, 2009 09:23 PM         

I met a really nice man and I am wondering about general compatblity since where and the time he was born, i haven't asked yet

Me 10/10/1968
He 05/07/1966

Never dated a Taurus before, don't know what they are like...

What do you guys think

posted November 12, 2009 03:18 AM         

Your sun is in Libra, moon in Gemini and venus in Scorpio.

Well, both your Sun signs are venus ruled and that is a good start, seeing that you are airy in nature(more talkative and intellectualy curious) and he more earthy(consistant,grounded and placid), there is definatley work that you both have to put in to adjust to this pairing.

You both want similar things out of life; beauty,peace,serenity and an abundance of well-being. However, you both differ strongly on asthetic tastes and what your ideal "well-being" standards realy are.
This is realy no train smash and hopefully both of you have keenly developed diplomatic skills (especialy Libra if they want to get Taurus to do anything) that enable you to get the other to go along with your idea, when needs be.

Earth is usualy not a good mix for air signs and can create a feeling on "heaviness" on the air sign(especially if the earth sign is capricorn)which contrasts vastly with the more "non-attachment" approach of breezy air.

Air can also be frustrating for earth sign,well unless there is a capricorn,scorpio moon to bridge some sort of understanding, as many of the sensual and practical wonders of living in reality are completely lost to an air sign,given the fact that they do most of their living in their head.

However, with Taurus (being venus ruled), the earthy qualities often associated with being overly serious, pragmatic and realistic, are greatly subdued. In their place is usualy an unassuming charm and peaceful nature that is patient, calm and endearing.

Add to that that this Taurus doesn't have a serious moon in the form of cancer, capricorn or scorpio, one can deduce that this Taurus is one of those easy-going types and conforms very much to the above description.

You on the other hand have a gemini moon. This moon often endows a playful,flirtatious and versatile nature. This basically means that you are not stubborn,you often make the adequate changes when the need arises and are not difficult to convince, should there be other alternatives to do the same thing.Infact, you may welcome diffreing point of view because you believe the best solution is found by considering all alternatives.

This moon will often surface your Libra sun , and you may indeed love the articulation of words, intellectual stimulation and the ability to relate to others. It does, however , increase the "indecison" factor that so many Librans are infamous for; there are no longer the scales (libra) to weigh the pros and cons but the twins as well(gemini) and so reaching a decison with these 4 people at the table can take time.The Taurus man will have to use hispatient nature at such times.

Your venus is in commited and serious scorpio whilst his is in impulsive,honest and straightforward Aries.

Interestingly both your venuses oppose each others suns and this suggests that you found each others basic natures attractive.
Your approach to relationships,however is different.

The Taurus loves a woman that can be self-sufficient and interesting.He also would love for her to behave with a certain level of class and decorum. Often old-fashioned, the Taurus man appreciates cooking skills in a woman as well a projection of a peaceful, docile and gentle nature.

He,however, has a venus in Aries and this can add interesting dimensions to whom he is attracted to and finds beautiful.
Often Aries venus are flirts and spontaneous, they are often risk-takers in the game of love and are prone to marry more than once due to their nature of rushing in head first and then later realising the boredom and monotomy that is associated with a long-term relationship.

To balance this nature ,however, he has the steady Taurus sun. This implys that he is not likely to sacrifice the promise pf security and longevity with someone who is reliable for the joys of being able to be with whomever, whenever. Hopefully, you are not the jealous type of Libran and may overlook his past discretions with other females as just that "discretions of the past" and do well to remember that loving someone is loving them wholistically and accepting them as they are.

You, on the other hand, have a venus in scorpio that strongly contrasts your playful moon in gemini nature. You are often attracted to people that become "too hot to handle". Scorpios are a deep feeling sign and gemini tends to filter any feelings through their mind.You love a little danger and passion in a man and may even find this sexy and alluring. All the while , however, you are paradoxically overwhelmed by the very nature that you find so sexy.

Luckily, your Taurus man is not the heavy,serious type and he wont cause any major upsets unless you push him overboard or his basic nature is strongly challenged by other aspects. In such an instance, the Taurus man can become that very nightmare that you find overwhelming and realise your worst fears through becoming possessive, jealous,tense and emotionaly charged.

All in all this relationship will need a bit of work, as earlier said, and if both of you are wise enough to know when to push and when to step back, it can work marvelously well. Venus endows a probability for compatibility, as both of you are peace-loving people, this may mark the essence of what your association with
each other is all about.