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Topic: It pains me to see him like this...
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lotion
Knowflake Posts: 96
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posted November 11, 2009 05:58 AM
 
The man I love is going through a personal crisis right now. Onset by the saturn/pluto square, and also the beginning of his saturn return in late degrees of Libra. He is so discouraged in his studies right now. He lost his job (of 12 years) this summer and it has had a very big affect on him. He is studying to me a lawyer but chances are becoming more and more slim. He said he feels alone in this world and that maybe he's "got it all wrong" and that he doesn't know what he's doing. He is totally lost and discouraged from life. Some of the things he said really worries me... All I can do is listen to him. And it really hurts me that he is feeling like that and i can't do anything about it... Can anyone here give me (or him) any advice on his crisis? Or has anyone here experienced anything like this, or has dealt with an identity crisis in a loved one? Please share your experience ... this is his chart and transits:
 Any advice, astrological or not, is much appreciated. IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted November 17, 2009 05:27 AM
Are you still around, lotion?
How are things?IP: Logged |
lotion
Knowflake Posts: 96
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posted November 21, 2009 07:19 AM
MysticMelody! I didn't even realize you have commented here until just now!Thanks for asking 
things have definitely progressed in a very sudden and powerful way
in the past week, we went from almost breaking up, to an unfolding and revealing of deep insecurities which resulted in a new understanding and affirmation of each other's feelings. it was all very dramatic (a whole lot of tears and confrontations)
the 2 most overwhelming things he said to me over the course of the week were
"my love for you is a different kind of love from anything i've ever experienced before"
"You caused me too much pain" (I was SO shocked to hear this as it's the last thing i wanted to do) My insecurities about the relationship was answered, and his insecurities was revealed to me in such a jarring way it hurts me :S
In the end, i feel like our relationship is more defined than ever before... boy that was some experience... IP: Logged |
lotion
Knowflake Posts: 96
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posted November 22, 2009 03:36 PM
things just keeps on coming.
he is possibly getting into some legal mess. I feel like he never gets a break! and "we" never get a break  IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
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posted November 23, 2009 01:08 AM
It sounds like a lot of transformative experiences... very Plutonic. I'm sorry to hear things are still so tough. I keep hoping for a lightening up of the energy since everything is passing into Sag and out of Scorpio but... hmmmm.... 
All I can say is that I hear you. A favorite spiritual teacher of mine said that we think things are always darkest before the dawn because it takes until things are darkest before we finally break down and ask the Universe/God for help. Don't be afraid to ask for a miracle. 
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lotion
Knowflake Posts: 96
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Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 24, 2009 03:50 AM
Thanks for your kind words, MM
love is such a curious thing, isn't it? Sometimes i don't even know what keeps me in this relationship but that i love him and want to be there for him. Crazy...IP: Logged |
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