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armychic91
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From: wiesbaden, ge
Registered: Nov 2009

posted November 16, 2009 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for armychic91     Edit/Delete Message
Hi everyone. I am pretty new here and havent figured out how to post the charts yet. I really need some input. My heart is hurting from all this and I just dont know what to do...
D and I met and fell in love. Due to some of my insecurities, I messed up the relationship and now he can't open up to me anymore. We haven't seen each other in a year but we cannot let each other go. I love him and it is a love like I have never known. I feel that I am supposed to be with him but now I am wondering if it would just be best to let it go. I still open up to him but he cant with me. Can anyone offer insight to how we effect each other and if he will ever be able to open up to me? I would post the chart but I can't figure out how. LOL.
D
may 21, 1981
5:05 pm
providenc,Rhode island

C
July 16, 1982
6:24 pm
columbia, sc

Thanks so much for reading and any input is very much appreciated.

I sent him a email recently asking him not to contact me until i figure things out. What do you think I should do?


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blue moon
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From: U.K
Registered: Apr 2009

posted November 16, 2009 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for blue moon     Edit/Delete Message
Often I do feel that too much time is spent thinking about and analysing relationships. Ultimately it comes down to whether you want to spend time together or not.

What do your instincts tell you? What do you feel?

Here is your synastry chart:-


I notice you share Sun SQ Pluto. That is an intense connection, but there is something of the power struggle game-playing to it that can get tedious after a while. But you have a bit of my personal bias slipping in on that one! You have some strong aspects on your synastry, but to quote DD, "the heart should always decide."

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armychic91
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From: wiesbaden, ge
Registered: Nov 2009

posted November 16, 2009 04:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for armychic91     Edit/Delete Message
BlueMoon, thanks for your reply and thank you for posting the chart. You are right, I do have to decide. I love him so much and feel like we will be together in the future, but the power struggle is so exhausting and painful. I guess I am looking to other things to help me with an answer. I just want it to be 50/50 again. Love is so painful!

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LetsDance
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posted November 28, 2009 08:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LetsDance     Edit/Delete Message
I don't know if Love is painful. I think what can be said as "painful" is to submit to love. It makes one vulnerable.

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