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Topic: Soul mates? Why are we not together then!
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stargirl200
Knowflake Posts: 3
From: Norwich, Norfolk,UK
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted November 21, 2009 07:18 AM
 
I would appreciate your thoughts on something that blows my mind, that I've tried to walk away from, but can't seem to.A year ago I met a lovely Libra (I'm Gemini btw) we went on our first date and kissed, when we kissed I saw fireworks, and he said it was the most amazing kiss he'd ever had in his life. I almost missed my train home, and he ran onto the train station to make sure I got my train, he talked his way round the guards by telling them that he'd met the most amazing girl he'd ever met and he wanted to make sure I was ok. When my train pulled off I felt a physical pull in my chest towards him..... We dated for about 6 weeks, and then he seemed to panic,he admitted he was scared and ended it and said he wasn't sure that he could provide what I needed....I was gutted, I was about to go abroad for 3 weeks. When I was there I was really ill and almost at the same time he contacted me and said he was really worried about me, was I ok? When I came back we saw each other as friends but he still said he wasn't ready. I dated other people, so did he....I had a terrible time with my family, police, violence etc and he phoned me the day it happened and said he was worried about me, was I ok? He came over straight away and was like a rock whilst I sorted it out. Still no realationship though. A few months ago I was feeling a bit down, and felt like someone was giving me a hug all afternoon and evening. He phoned me the next day and said he was thinking about me and had been sending me a hug, when I asked him what time, it was the time I felt it! The thing is, there are times when he sends me late night texts that are a bit saucy and I'm worried that he might be a player and I'm just a challenge because we didn't have sex (I wanted to wait) I emailed him recently that because of the texting it was clear that he was just interested in my body, not me, and we shouldn't see each other again. He phoned me and apologised profusely, he always has me in stitches, and I agreed to see him this week. I don't know much about astrology, but hope the following would help? My Sun Gemini, his Libra
My Moon Cap, his Leo
My mercury Gemini, his Libra
My Venus Cancer, his Scorpio Thank you for any insight you may have IP: Logged |
MysticMelody
Moderator Posts: 359
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 22, 2009 11:28 AM
It sounds like a wonderful opportunity and experience. Sounds like he is even willing to take it slow. You have the best of both worlds.  Be patient and enjoy the ride is what I would say for now. Your energies seem to be of similar elements and your Cap moon interacting with his Leo moon might be what is giving you the "player" vibe, whether or not it is true. Only time will tell on that one. IP: Logged |
stargirl200
Knowflake Posts: 3
From: Norwich, Norfolk,UK
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted November 23, 2009 03:24 PM
Thank you mysticmelody - guess I'm not very patient! IP: Logged |
moonstruck
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: Bloomington, IN, USA
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted December 01, 2009 11:20 AM
Your venus signs are compatible! That's a great start. Your story was so sweet. Don't give up!IP: Logged |
stargirl200
Knowflake Posts: 3
From: Norwich, Norfolk,UK
Registered: Oct 2009
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posted December 01, 2009 02:47 PM
Thank you moonstruck, we did see each other this week, for the first time in 9 months, and it was like we'd never been apart, we talked non stop. He apologised for running away before, and said he has had therapy to help. The kissing chemistry is still there! He said he has never felt so emotionally connected to anyone else before me or since. However I am not sure where 'we' stand, he said he wanted to see me again, and we have made a tentative date, but I am worried he might get scared again, but it seems so right at the same time. Patience is a virtue!IP: Logged |
yuajah
Knowflake Posts: 2
From: toronto
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 29, 2009 10:13 PM
hello my name is yuajah...usually i would write a longer response...but it kind of "got lost" ill leave it there.. the gist of what i wanted to tell you is...this guy is seeing you in a different light now...and to actually lay down with him would be a waste of time. the best you can hope for now is "best friends" which will take a few months...to achieve and actually perhaps from that title you both can be more...he is apparently afraid of something that has nothing to do with you...so dont take the whole thing personal. you can check out my website for what it means to be soul mates in astrology. www.12zodiacsignspersonalitytraits.com/soul_mates IP: Logged | |
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