posted December 03, 2009 04:16 AM         

Here are our other "stuffs"

Merc trine Pluto
Merc trine Uranus
Merc trine Mars
Venus trine Uranus
Merc conj Venus
Merc sext Saturn
Mars oppos Saturn
Sun conj Asc
Sun trine Jupiter
Jupiter oppos Nept
Sun sq Sun
Sun sq Pluto
Mars conj Jupiter

posted December 04, 2009 10:12 AM         

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Sun square Pluto:
What does it mean in a relationship when your natal Sun is square your partner’s Pluto? A Sun square Pluto aspect can bring challenging insights. You and your romantic partner are likely to have a profound effect upon one another and you will experience romantic life on a whole new spiritual level. If your partner’s Sun is square your Pluto, you may find yourself giving up everything you thought you had in order to begin your relationship, likely to be the most intense partnership you have known.

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When the Sun in your chart forms an aspect to another person's Pluto

No matter what, this relationship has a powerful impact on both of your lives. You find your partner utterly fascinating, intriguing, and even mesmerizing. You are drawn to the Pluto person in a way that can be hard to verbalize. After meeting him or her, you feel like a fish out of water if that person is not around! The fascination is mutual, in fact, although your partner tends to have the "upper hand", so to speak, when it comes to the ultimate fate of the relationship. Why? Because you feel intensely expressive and unique—special, if you will—as a direct result of the Pluto person's attention, and he or she may feel the need to control that expression as the relationship passes the initial stages (which is likely to have been characterized by intense mutual attraction). Your partner can sometimes feel threatened by your displays of independence, ego, pride, and autonomy. He or she has an extraordinary window into your soul, and can easily see both your strengths and vulnerabilities. What your partner does with this privileged perception is the question. He or she can certainly help you grow, but there can be a temptation to subtly undermine your confidence if your partner would rather keep you dependent.

Because the nature of your relationship is deep, and because your connection to each other may seem other-worldly and hard to define, there can be downright explosive moments in your relationship. You may feel thrown off-balance now and again, fearing the loss of your partner, while he or she needs to take extra care to avoid trying to control the direction of your life. You draw out each other's dark sides, and there can frequently be battles of will between the two of you. There is a compulsive quality to your partnership that can be unnerving at times, and exhausting as well. Your connection certainly runs deep, and the very nature of your relationship makes it an especially significant one.

This interpretation is most apparent when the cross-aspect is a conjunction. With the sextile or trine, you might find that the expression is easier and less dramatic. With the square or opposition, challenges (and drama!) are more likely.

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posted December 04, 2009 12:32 PM         

somewhere on the page:

mars conj jupiter

not sextile but trine of merc saturn

posted December 08, 2009 07:37 PM         

If we are going to be anything like Brad and Angelina, boy, am I in big trouble.

Interesting though, that the Pluto person FEELS just as intensely as the Sun person, but yet, still has to manipulate and control, by keeping the Sun person guessing.

Well, that just described every relationship of my life!!!!