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Topic: help! what is going on between this peron and me?
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seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 16, 2009 07:49 PM
 
can you all give me insight to our dynamic?
http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cihyfileR1vYRI-u1259387874/astro_w2gw_01_c_b_hp.2878.14153.gif?14216 and mine;
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seeker3030
Knowflake Posts: 28
From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 17, 2009 08:42 AM
Hi 
Just tried to access both of those but it says the charts have expired. Can you copy them and host them on a pic hosting website such as photobucket or something and then people will be able to see them and help?
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seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 20, 2009 09:54 AM
here...i will give our info...
female:
july 14th, 1977 @ 7:45 am
van wert, ohmale:
july 16th, 1976 @ 10:37am
cooperstown, ny I couldn't get the images to work...sorry.
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seeker3030
Knowflake Posts: 28
From: UK
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 20, 2009 01:34 PM
Hi
I'll just post you synastry chart but have to go and get dinner started so will take a look after that if that's ok? I'm certainly no expert so hopefully someone else will come along in the mean time and be able to see what's going on x  IP: Logged |
Nine
Knowflake Posts: 323
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Registered: May 2009
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posted December 24, 2009 01:51 PM
What's the back story?? When did you meet? Do you share a space? New relationship, or existing one experiencing turbulence?IP: Logged |
seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 24, 2009 06:39 PM
oh wow...a back story...ready for this? okay my soon to be ex husband and I, several months ago decided to divorce. We had been having problems for years and years. In and out of counseling and all that. I even took antidepressants in order to keep the peace between us. When I decided to go off of the anti depressiants (which yes, I did it the right way and wasn't on a huge dosage anyways). I couldn't really stand being with him. we were basically roomates that occassionally had sex and took care of the kids. I loved him but I wasn't IN love with him. Everything I tried to get our lives to move in a different direction that felt right to me, he would sabatoge it immediately. So for many years, I felt defeated.Anyways, what happens when we resist change? something or in this case, someone entered into the scene and made sure I knew loud and clear it wasn't working. But instead of it being him (my ex) falling in love with someone else. It was me. I feel deeply and madly in love with someone else, a friendship that was rekindled over the internet. Now, I decided to divorce (well actually months ago we decided and it is already filed) and I haven't met this person as of yet in person (luckily they live a state away). I decided to divorce because the feelings in this relationship with my soon to be ex is dead..seriously dead. He went on a date the other night, and I honest to god didn't care. I know that sounds bad but I knew right then and there that there was no hope. I hope he ends up happy. HOwever, there is this other guy and I. Instead of throwing myself into this relationship, I am finding myself hestitating. Scare of getting hurt. We get along in so many ways and he has walked with me through some pretty dark personal stuff. I have overwhelming/obsessive feelings towards him which I have worked through alot with Shamanic techniques (thank god for my spiritual training, or else I don't think I would have survived this experience) I worked on lessening that affect, I have things to focus on here, like my kids and starting my new life (which does not include him moving in with me...well not yet anyways). I have responsibilities. I also have a relationship to heal from before I run into another one. So I still feel the tug, but it isn't overwhelming or causing me to ask him to phamper his life at all and he doesn't ask that of me (well not as of yet). But still...the love, the feelings are still there. He makes me feel good, I had forgotten what it is like to love. I know on a karmic level he was sent to help me realize that my marriage had died years ago. however, what now? I am in no rush but and I am trying to keep in mind that though astrology is a wonderful thing, it doesn't include a person's free will or how they will react to situations, just the energies that will be present. Please help this confused girl out! There are some things in this chart that are alarming but good at the sametime. need some help sorting it all out.
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seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 27, 2009 11:31 PM
can someone PLEASE take a look at this????IP: Logged |
Lonake
Knowflake Posts: 592
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 31, 2009 07:05 AM
I'm taking a look since my pet puppy is personal planet conjunctions. You're feeling understood and soothed a bit by the interaction which makes a ton of sense, his Mercury conj your Sun, sun usually wants to keep gabbing to mercury, his Venus conj your Mercury, venus likes what mercury has to say. There's a liking of the communication dynamic between the 2. But natally you each have a square to Uranus from that personal planet, you with mercury and him with Venus. The stellium in your 12th from his chart plus the personal planet conjunctions point to the easy access he has in helping you if he chooses like you said with very personal things. The only danger with this is if he might intrude further where you may not like..I'd have to look at his natal actually. He looks like he has natal Mars square Neptune and its plugging into your Venus to make a t-square. This can be like going down a slippery slope combined with that h12 energy square uranus if things go awry. The whole thing looks surgary sweet and helpful but possibly not fulfilling for the long term. The Moon energy isn't bad but it seems like there'd be a lot of empty space to cause havoc if one got bored or wanted to get a rise, and with your h12 being triggered I'd be more concerned with how you're faring in all of this vs. him. The Saturn close to your Mercury I don't like either, added to the other I think he'd try to take control, like i said in times of peace if things got too stale. But thats not saying that things arent sweet right now, I mean wait to see what happens when you two are faced with a non-dramatic situation, after a lot of your tension is eased, wait to see how he reacts to the silence you have together. It might not be what you think..But I'd need to look at the natals to see more. Oh and he has Neptune H3 square mars H12 making that tsquare to your Venus, I don't like that there are 3 deceit factors in his chart right there. Either lying to himself or others on a very comfortable basis. But I like his H7 moon and your cancer sun. and his H11 stellium correlating to your aqua dsc.With your H7 ruler Uranus in H4 squaring mercury on the asc i would think its difficult to find mental peace in relationships..And i think you get that here a bit from those nice conjunctions, and a trine to your sun from his moon, his jupiter conj your mars, thats all evidence of support...But remember that he has his own peace to sort out as well. IP: Logged |
seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 31, 2009 08:46 PM
I can't post pics of our charts, but here is our information...mine:
July 14 1977
738 am Van Wert, OH His:
July 16 1976
1037 am Cooperstown, NY Does this help?
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seeleah
Knowflake Posts: 8
From: kokomo, IN, USA
Registered: Dec 2009
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posted December 31, 2009 09:06 PM
the other thing I want to bring up is that our composite progressed chart looks interesting if you want to take a look at it as well. again, I don't know how to post but you have the information you need Let me know what you think. I know that he and I have been through alot in the past, hopefully both grown. Is that going to matter with us?
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Lonake
Knowflake Posts: 592
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 01, 2010 01:21 AM
Oh yes, free will trumps astrology every time. Synastry based on natals is just inherent potential, not the end of the story. Enjoy IP: Logged | |
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