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LadyPisces
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From: Canada/Australia
Registered: Dec 2009

posted December 18, 2009 02:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LadyPisces     Edit/Delete Message
Hey everyone!
I've been into astrology for the past 2 years but still would consider myself to be a beginer, lol.
I just recently (3 weeks ago) broke up with my boyfriend and while I know it was the right decision, I am still feeling slightly confused about some things and your thoughts/opinions would be MUCH appreciated!

Long story short - I am Canadian but moved to Australia for a year (just on a holiday working visa). After 6 months there I met a guy (let's call him R) at a club. We started talking and found out we had been living across the street from each other for the past 6 months but had never seen each other. The connection was instant and electric.
From day one we dived into a relationship and were very serious about each other. We both felt as if we had known each other in a past life or something. We were VERY different, but were so drawn to each other we didnt care.
Over the course of the next 6 months we broke up twice (first time for a week, second time for an hour), always getting back together because we simply couldn't be apart. There was that unexplainable draw.

I moved back to Canada 2 months ago and he was planning to follow me in March, which gave him the time to save some extra money. He and I talked about getting married, having kids, ect. He said he saw us together forever. He was a wreck when I left. We talked every day on the phone/skype and everything was fine.
Then, about a month ago he came out of the blue and said "I don't know if I'll be happy in Canada."
This came as a complete shock to me and hurt alot. My gut feeling was that he didn't mean it, but for some reason was freaking out. I told him if he wasn't willing to come to Canada, well, we would have to break up because it made no sense, even though I loved him very, very, very much. He changed his mind very quickly and was VERY reassuring that it was a momentary freak-out and he loved me more than anything, ect. Then, 5 days later, he started sounding doubtful/scared/weak again and I lost it and broke up with him.
It was too much of an emotional rollercoaster for me. I loved him with every fibre of my being, but I know that (paticularly as a Piscis), I have to stick up for myself or I'll end up comprimising all over hte place!

anyway, the part I'm still confused about is that when I say it was like we knew each other before ... it truely was. I thought he was the 'one' for SURE.
My question is - Is there anything in our charts that stick out to you????

My Chart:

His Chart:

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Sun - Pisces
Moon - Leo
Rising - Cancer

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LetsDance
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posted January 04, 2010 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LetsDance     Edit/Delete Message
LadyPisces, I've known several virgo male, pisces female relationships. All I've known work out for the long term. I think your virgo is feeling very insecure that you may not be able to "go the distance" of a long-distance relationship. He may be trying to end the relationship before you do if that is what he thinks. Virgos can be very shy and insecure when they really love you and in the beginning stages. I don't know if you guys have developed enough trust in each other yet.

I think if you and him do alot of communicating and both of you giving each other assurances that you both need, you will see that you will have something very solid and wonderful. Virgo males find (most) Piscean females irresistable.

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